Say your girl asks you to browse through your text messages, what do you do?

[failedtakeover]

 

[stevenzsofly]

Tell her no, that's it

 

[blackmagnus514]

she doesnt pay my bill

 

[throwback1718]

ive let her before like i said,

honestly i would delete messages if i thought they were questionable.
BUT that goes back to my nitpicking statement, she would find SOMETHING to nitpick at EVEN if I dont think they are questionable and to most others, it wouldntbe questionable

and Im not gonna delete all messages, because that really gonna look sus

 

[dunksnjordans1992]

um... no

 

[j671]

go ahead, i already erased it..

 

[b smooth 202]

lol

 

[zeen1ne]

Originally Posted by KayCurrency

I delete all my messages...

 

[daytona 5000]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

she doesnt pay my bill

/thread

 

[phillypac]

letting a girl bully u for ya own phone = L

 

[dugtrio]

no, i hate when girls act like they have a right to play on my phone reading my stuff. even though i got nothing to hide id tell her no.

 

[black racer x]

Originally Posted by Krazyrodzilla

I actually set my girl up. I had random pics of other girls etc.... Was just playing a joke on her. It was all funny until she start crying and didn't wanna talk to me

. I felt bad about it. Joking around FTL sometimes

Why would you joke like that?

 

[grizzlyboy]

I don't care...Well I only hope that this doesn't lead to other snooping because I don't care.

 

[heyson]

lol at dudes looking through their chicks phone

 

[throwback1718]

i would have let her read it this time...
BUT i noticed the little attitude last night

then i noticed she looked through my msgs because a text me n my boy had wasnt on the most recent reply,
and i KNOW the phone doesnt do that automatically.

but the only thing I said was that this girl I saw that I havent seen in years and she looked good... THATS IT

so today I asked her about it. and she said nahhh I didnt look through it. (of course she would say no because I told her about that text reading stuff before)

then she said sooo lemme look through them if you have nothing to hide
I was like nah. because that would be the chance she could bring up her issues

 

[ihavemyownopinion]

No cause if you let her look through your phone once then she's gonna expect you to let her go through it whenever the $*** she wants and that's def anot a good look

 

[mike2389]

i''ll let her.
i got nothin to hide. aif she questions me on something, she knows better than to act a fool and to listen to the story behind it.

 

[parada45]

I hate when my girl does that

But I let her cause if I don't she is going to think I am hiding something

 

[kobe4threebang]

say its dead and then delete them

 

[addictedtofreshkicks]

Originally Posted by throwback1718

or you wouldnt let her look through it for principle reasons . EVEN if you have nothing to hide?

this one.

 

[kingkb34]

Originally Posted by JPZx

If you have nothing to hide, let her look through them. If she sees you have nothing to hide she may never ask to look again

Truth.

 

[krazyrodzilla]

Originally Posted by Black Racer X

Originally Posted by Krazyrodzilla

I actually set my girl up. I had random pics of other girls etc.... Was just playing a joke on her. It was all funny until she start crying and didn't wanna talk to me

. I felt bad about it. Joking around FTL sometimes

Why would you joke like that?

I won't do it again

 

[boxer]

let her. then suggest trading phones for the day.

the thing is there really is no right way for this to work. even with nobody doing anything wrong it brings up trust issues.

last point is more likely than not the insecure are hiding something of their own.

 

[AL Andretti]

Delete FTW.

 

[sn00pee]

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

Say this is a girl that you actually like, and not some random JO
there are 3 main reasons you should let her see it:

A) Builds trust. the more you build, the less she will ask. A win-win situation.

B) You aint got

to hide. Save thearguing for times when you really have something to hide. then you refer back to all the times you let her see your phone and you aint had

there. You basically win there.

C) Gives you the opportunity to look through her

. Even though I wouldn't do it because if i look through hers she will want to look through mine blah blah blah. But if you suspect sumthinaint right then again, refer to the times she went through your phone (and found nothing) and then throw it in her face.

and if you do have some random JOs, hide their name as male's names. "aw thats just steve"