Say your girl asks you to browse through your text messages, what do you do?

[jeenewed]

Tell her you just cleared out your inbox.




I would tell her no. If she really can't trust me that much, shes gone.

 

[imnacho]

Show them, if you don't have nothing to hide she will trust you more...

 

[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by kingkb34

Originally Posted by JPZx

If you have nothing to hide, let her look through them. If she sees you have nothing to hide she may never ask to look again

Truth.

been there done that, and Im still being asked, OR my msgs are being browsed through behind my back. ( saying she wants to use the internet realquick)

 

[n o r e a g a]

Originally Posted by BoredONE1

delete them *@%*$!

you aint never lied.

 

[jackel56]

If your concerned about it, delete them all once your don conversing

 

[sn00pee]

and dont forget to delete messages you sent also

 

[kadafi99]

let her do it. she prolly hidin somethin herself

 

[throwback1718]

Originally Posted by sn00pee

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

Say this is a girl that you actually like, and not some random JO
there are 3 main reasons you should let her see it:

A) Builds trust. the more you build, the less she will ask. A win-win situation.

B) You aint got

to hide. Save the arguing for times when you really have something to hide. then you refer back to all the times you let her see your phone and you aint had

there. You basically win there.

C) Gives you the opportunity to look through her

. Even though I wouldn't do it because if i look through hers she will want to look through mine blah blah blah. But if you suspect sumthin aint right then again, refer to the times she went through your phone (and found nothing) and then throw it in her face.

and if you do have some random JOs, hide their name as male's names. "aw thats just steve"

how could I throw it in her face about how many times she looked through, IF she does it behind my back?

and im pretty sure she looks through my msgs ALL the time because once she's done it, she will always do it
plus if she comes at me with something in my texts more than once WHEN i didnt give permission or she didnt ask me to look through, who knows how much shelooks

 

[theyoungestgun]

Originally Posted by Sorkoram

Well she shouldn't have to, but if she wanted to that bad, I'd let her..nothing to hide

 

[sn00pee]

Originally Posted by throwback1718

Originally Posted by sn00pee

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

Say this is a girl that you actually like, and not some random JO
there are 3 main reasons you should let her see it:

A) Builds trust. the more you build, the less she will ask. A win-win situation.

B) You aint got

to hide. Save the arguing for times when you really have something to hide. then you refer back to all the times you let her see your phone and you aint had

there. You basically win there.

C) Gives you the opportunity to look through her

. Even though I wouldn't do it because if i look through hers she will want to look through mine blah blah blah. But if you suspect sumthin aint right then again, refer to the times she went through your phone (and found nothing) and then throw it in her face.

and if you do have some random JOs, hide their name as male's names. "aw thats just steve"

how could I throw it in her face about how many times she looked through, IF she does it behind my back?

and im pretty sure she looks through my msgs ALL the time because once she's done it, she will always do it
plus if she comes at me with something in my texts more than once WHEN i didnt give permission or she didnt ask me to look through, who knows how much she looks

or lock your phone. or break up with her.

 

[frankie valentino]

Smack the hell out of her. Ask her the same question and see what she says.

 

[phillypac]

Originally Posted by sn00pee

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

NO

same dudes letting girls bully them out of there own phone be the same dudes crying when these girls get out of control

 

[webnerd06]

not saying its right or its wrong & not saying you have anything to hide, but she shouldn't go searching for anything she can't handle.

 

[sn00pee]

Originally Posted by phillypac

Originally Posted by sn00pee

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

NO

same dudes letting girls bully them out of there own phone be the same dudes crying when these girls get out of control

please. they aint bullying at all. but why cause unnecessary conflict when there is no damaging information? you gonna take a charge being aninnocent man or show proof you innocent?

 

[derrock]

If she asks if she can go through my texts, I'ma ask if I can go through hers too. We ain't got nothing to hide, right?

 

[mecks]

Originally Posted by That Guy

I would let her i look through hers all the time not because i dont trust her its because im just bored at times

i do that for real tho

lol just to see what shes up to

 

[spot rusherz]

Originally Posted by That Guy

I would let her i look through hers all the time not because i dont trust her its because im just bored at times

yea...ok

 

[realxfresh]

me - hold up *deletes all txts*

 

[goofy08]

i dunno, i mean trust is pretty key in a relationship.


but i guess some girls may be worth going that extra mile to allow the trust to grow



lol, im a habitual fence sitter.

 

[phillypac]

Originally Posted by sn00pee

Originally Posted by phillypac

Originally Posted by sn00pee

If you dont let your girl look through your phone when you have nothing to hide, then you're

stupid.

NO

same dudes letting girls bully them out of there own phone be the same dudes crying when these girls get out of control

please. they aint bullying at all.

good luck on ya quest of letting a girl control u and the game

you probably let your girl hold your wallet also

 

[dmasta718]

I don't care if I don't have nothing to hide, I'm not letting no girl run through my messages.

 

[sn00pee]

Originally Posted by phillypac

good luck on ya quest of letting a girl control u and the game

you probably let your girl hold your wallet also

 

[j0rdan23dunker]

she can look all she wants. i have nothing to hide.

 

[executive76]

hit her with a guilt trip(about trust)

and if that doesn't work just say no

she's gonna look when you're sleep,in the shower etc. anyway

 

[saymoregotsole]

NOPE. What's in my phone is none of nobody's business.