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Can you describe this feeling in more detail?
serious topic...what kind of a relationship am i in?
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i have to spend 40 bucks on dinner and a bowling date for that kiss in the lips stage .. lol...
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You's best be trolling.
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son, you got kids, and a woman, and ur wondering what you should do with a chick you kiss at work?
How about be a father and spend time with your woman that you should be faithful to.
Don't even worry about this chick at work, do your job, keep your hands to yourself, then go home and enjoy your family.
How about be a father and spend time with your woman that you should be faithful to.
Don't even worry about this chick at work, do your job, keep your hands to yourself, then go home and enjoy your family.
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its gunna end bad if you get caught,
your wife might put you on child support till its 18
tread carefully, but remember your responsible for your actions
your wife might put you on child support till its 18
tread carefully, but remember your responsible for your actions
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After some more reading I think the only viable option is murder suicide, sorry.
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Well, let me try to give you a more "adult" response.
I think your first problem is at home. If you're NOT happy in the relationship at home, then you shouldn't be making decisions w/ any other women.First, fix what you have at home and this work "thing" wont even matter to you anymore. That will solve that.
BUT, here's what will probably happen. Ol' girl at home is going to find out about your work girl.. and then she's gonna want to leave you andtake the kids. That ALWAYS happens. Then your interest will turn RIGHT back to your girl at home... which will only be a temporary fix in your relationship.Like I said in the first paragraph, you have make things at home right first (or END them completely) for you to make any decisions with the new girl.
As far as what you have at work...
. It just seems like to peoplehaving fun. If after 1 year things have NOT materialized into something more (probably because of your home situation) and the things she's doing w/ otherdudes is bothering you, it will probably not be what you want of it. Stop acting jealous. Girls get off on that crap. She knows she's in control if youtrip about things like that. If all your after is a little fun, those things can't bother you. That will take the fun out of it REAL quick.
My suggestion, FIX WHAT YOU GOT AT HOME before making any other moves.
Good luck.
I think your first problem is at home. If you're NOT happy in the relationship at home, then you shouldn't be making decisions w/ any other women.First, fix what you have at home and this work "thing" wont even matter to you anymore. That will solve that.
BUT, here's what will probably happen. Ol' girl at home is going to find out about your work girl.. and then she's gonna want to leave you andtake the kids. That ALWAYS happens. Then your interest will turn RIGHT back to your girl at home... which will only be a temporary fix in your relationship.Like I said in the first paragraph, you have make things at home right first (or END them completely) for you to make any decisions with the new girl.
As far as what you have at work...
My suggestion, FIX WHAT YOU GOT AT HOME before making any other moves.
Good luck.
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So......you only kiss this girl? And you already have a girl and kids at home, and you get your feelings hurt when a girl you only kiss tell you about otherdoods?
you lost.
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^This, and I hope you eventually stop getting butt hurt.
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How old are you man?
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Sighfur-- thanks brah.. make sense.. but i actually do that.. u know spend time with the kids take them out but the only thing that i dont do is be faithfullto my lady.. but forreal.. thanks man.. and thank you all.. this is actually helpin me... man.. i sound like a bia..damn.. can i stiill keep my man card?lol..but on the reals.. your guys replies really helps..
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Where are the pics though
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people still kiss?
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^^hahahah im not really a home run hitter bra..lol..
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revoked
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Word, Hyphy, its like DC1323 said, Fix what you have at home, before you make any moves.
And if you and your chick at home can't reconcile things, then work on finding a decent chick.
Cause' trust, this chick at work, ain't no good for you man. She's gotta somehow know your situation, and if she's willing to do what she does,not caring if she's breaking up a happy home. Then she trifiling.
Plus I know you don't wanna lose your kids over some dumb brawd at work.
Think with the men upstairs, not the boys downstairs, dig?
And if you and your chick at home can't reconcile things, then work on finding a decent chick.
Cause' trust, this chick at work, ain't no good for you man. She's gotta somehow know your situation, and if she's willing to do what she does,not caring if she's breaking up a happy home. Then she trifiling.
Plus I know you don't wanna lose your kids over some dumb brawd at work.
Think with the men upstairs, not the boys downstairs, dig?
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^^got ya bra.. im really trying though fellas but damn.. that girl is a devil when it comes to teasing.. lol.. cant resist..
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And of course.. as soon as you show her that you're off of her, she's gonna try harder. It's a trap.
Just be smart. Think about your girl... coming home to you and your kids... at work doing the same thing. how would you feel about that?
Just be smart. Think about your girl... coming home to you and your kids... at work doing the same thing. how would you feel about that?
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Yeah, i was thinking the same thing, once you back off this brawd at work, she's gonna start throwing it at you. Cause' rejected chicks are worse thanrejected kids when it comes to attention deprevation.
But its like a drug son, once you get off it, its much easier resisting temptation.
Just use an iphone or an ipod touch for porn at work, and take some fap breaks when u get tempted.
pause.
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No you cannot keep your man card!!! Think!!! Is this broad worth ruining what you got going on at home???
kakashi
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i had an office triangle just a few months ago...
nothing spectacular (pretty 6's and 7's) just luck..... i was on a winning streak with some co-workers.
the first one was my supervisor's friend that happend to go out to the club with us one night,
we all were too wasted to drive home so a co worker hid our keys and shoes...we ended up
the following week monday my supervisor had pics of things i don't remember and tell a group of girls.
one of the girls says this friday you're mine...i didn't believe her, so friday came and fifteen of us are playing pool
at this huge pool hall/nightclub it's around 12'$@% am...and were all partying and she just starts making out infront of everyone
she's married but the guy beats her so she's with him for financial reasons. anyway we make it to her h2 backseat in the parking lot
and
next monday rolls around and she actually stays quiet so do i but there's rumors that "it might've happend".
so after work this black girl that i work with asks if i wanna go to the dave and busters with some of her department to "smoke"
i don't smoke but i go anyway. the girls from her department cancelled so it's just me and her...i'd been arguing with my girlfriend
and planned to cool it down of fooling around. but this night was one of those nights where you know it's gonna happen and you
have to see how it plays out...so around 10'$@% were walking out the door and notice the there's no hostess and the coat check
closet for special parties is empty...we gave each other a look and
.
the next day at work the girls in her department felt bad and wanted to try again
this is where everything blew up in my face, i got the ego and reached.
so i didn't drive to work because i traded my genesis for a 2010 accord and was waiting for the bank.
so i drove with this girl that was "out of my league", i knew she was but
.
so she says she heard all the nasty things about me and said it shamefully turned her on but she had a boyfriend.
i should've taken her statement for face value but in my "ego vision" that was code for this is your lucky day.
so i glide my hand up her crotch and she takes a deep breath and i'm like
then bam! she says "dude, what are you doing..i told you i'm in a relatioship?" she goes on to ask doesshe look like a *+*## etc....
she drops me off at my apartment and says "forget about it".
wednesday..i come in the office and everyone is avoid me like spongebob when he ate the onions epsiode.
then finally my cubby neighbor says "dude are you out of your effin mind? you felt up______?"
i said yeah i struck out. she says
"well that's not the story she's giving everyone around here..she making it seem like she's a rape
survivor in life time movie"
so i'm like f' that little lying c...and then bam! lunch time comes and my twitter and aim on the sidekick are coming in like crazy.
then in the parking lot...all four of them and some prospects i had for the future were giving me funky looks and all.
then i get cornered by my supervisor (we're friends), she says i've gotta clean this up before it makes it's way upstairs...she
helps by giving innuendo memo indirectly at the meeting that "rumors" and "non work-related" discussions will get you suspended.
they all knew what she meant and who she was helping so they chilled....but i'm still tarded and feathered lightly by the females at work.
nothing spectacular (pretty 6's and 7's) just luck..... i was on a winning streak with some co-workers.
the first one was my supervisor's friend that happend to go out to the club with us one night,
we all were too wasted to drive home so a co worker hid our keys and shoes...we ended up
the following week monday my supervisor had pics of things i don't remember and tell a group of girls.
one of the girls says this friday you're mine...i didn't believe her, so friday came and fifteen of us are playing pool
at this huge pool hall/nightclub it's around 12'$@% am...and were all partying and she just starts making out infront of everyone
she's married but the guy beats her so she's with him for financial reasons. anyway we make it to her h2 backseat in the parking lot
and
next monday rolls around and she actually stays quiet so do i but there's rumors that "it might've happend".
so after work this black girl that i work with asks if i wanna go to the dave and busters with some of her department to "smoke"
i don't smoke but i go anyway. the girls from her department cancelled so it's just me and her...i'd been arguing with my girlfriend
and planned to cool it down of fooling around. but this night was one of those nights where you know it's gonna happen and you
have to see how it plays out...so around 10'$@% were walking out the door and notice the there's no hostess and the coat check
closet for special parties is empty...we gave each other a look and
the next day at work the girls in her department felt bad and wanted to try again
so i didn't drive to work because i traded my genesis for a 2010 accord and was waiting for the bank.
so i drove with this girl that was "out of my league", i knew she was but
so she says she heard all the nasty things about me and said it shamefully turned her on but she had a boyfriend.
i should've taken her statement for face value but in my "ego vision" that was code for this is your lucky day.
so i glide my hand up her crotch and she takes a deep breath and i'm like
then bam! she says "dude, what are you doing..i told you i'm in a relatioship?" she goes on to ask doesshe look like a *+*## etc....
she drops me off at my apartment and says "forget about it".
wednesday..i come in the office and everyone is avoid me like spongebob when he ate the onions epsiode.
then finally my cubby neighbor says "dude are you out of your effin mind? you felt up______?"
i said yeah i struck out. she says
"well that's not the story she's giving everyone around here..she making it seem like she's a rape
survivor in life time movie"
so i'm like f' that little lying c...and then bam! lunch time comes and my twitter and aim on the sidekick are coming in like crazy.
then in the parking lot...all four of them and some prospects i had for the future were giving me funky looks and all.
then i get cornered by my supervisor (we're friends), she says i've gotta clean this up before it makes it's way upstairs...she
helps by giving innuendo memo indirectly at the meeting that "rumors" and "non work-related" discussions will get you suspended.
they all knew what she meant and who she was helping so they chilled....but i'm still tarded and feathered lightly by the females at work.
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man aint nobody even gonna read that bums cliffs
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Cacashi ain't no one reading all that.
Better post some cliffs.
Better post some cliffs.
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