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Why are you assuming all big girls are willing and able to smash any and every dude?
Those big girls still have to by attracted to me somewhat to let me hit
Those big girls still have to by attracted to me somewhat to let me hit
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See how she immediately went for the ad hominem attacks/shaming as a defense?
No surprise. It's hilariously predictable.
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i'd argue yes... i dont think it's as easy as you're making it out to be
you're acting like there isnt a subset of guys that treat these women like queens...
not saying they're right or wrong, but there are guys that ONLY want super huge, less attractive chicks
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Geez, I just assumed that nobody else is trying to get at those chicks, so they would be down with the program. Damn, it would hurt severely to get turned down by some Gabby Sidibe looking chick.
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bruh...
As a dude that's been around the block a couple times...
I can tell you that mediocre and below average chicks confidence is a lotnof the time at ASTRONOMICAL levels...
Dudes, as explained in this thread, are trying to go for the easy kill...
Cats will pass up a dime to go holla at a 5 because they feel they don't have a chance at the dime...
Pretty girls have some of THE lowest self esteem about themselves, my g...
Its weird, but I'm sure some older NTers can back me up on this.
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This. Anything that you get for free is isn't going to be as valued as something you have to work for. That's just the way it works.
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pretty much.
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You aren't lying.
Working in an airport there's not a minute that goes by that I'm not engaged in some type of convo with a female, especially the female employees. The not so attractive ones have there noses stuck up so high in the air for no reason. You won't even be able to get a hello with actual eye contact if you speak while the extremely attractive women who you wouldn't think twice stepping to unless you're game is on point and you have a haircut will actually spark convos with you, give compliments to you mid convo and won't stop smiling while talking to you. It's the most backwards thing ever but I'm honestly loving the trend. I will say I miss having mud ducks on the roster though
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Phax
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OP,
This is neither here nor there for me but why would you even mention that your mom was raped and became promiscuous. It was totally unrelated to anything else you said and is obviously a situation where someone should seek professional help as it was not their choice. I just find it disturbing that you are willing to use something so extreme and personal to prove a point on an Internet message board. Carry on.
This is neither here nor there for me but why would you even mention that your mom was raped and became promiscuous. It was totally unrelated to anything else you said and is obviously a situation where someone should seek professional help as it was not their choice. I just find it disturbing that you are willing to use something so extreme and personal to prove a point on an Internet message board. Carry on.
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A key that opens any lock is a mater key. A lock that opens to any key is a really **** lock.
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Literally fax on top of fax
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I'll go ahead and just /thread this whole topic to sleep.
Men and women are both shamed for different reason.
Sure men aren't **** shamed, but we're shamed for a host of other reasons.
Men are shamed when we show emotion (even men hurt sometimes, we're human), when we stray from the traditional role society as put on us as breadwinners (stay at home fathers generally get no respect, /salute), when we take certain jobs (shout out to my murses and my mecrataries, keep ya'll heads up).
Women are **** shamed.
Sexually both men and women are stigmatized as well. Women get stigmatized if they're promiscuous, men get stigmatized if they're not able to be promiscuous.
**** even women like a dude that gets tail. A sign of virility.
Hey even you Kelly shame certain NTers for not being able to get tail. You also body shame certain men. You'd argue a woman can't control her bodyweight because of hormones and birth but hey, some men are just generally predisposed to being heavier. Some guys are endomorphs and even at low BMIs they'll look like they're carrying some extra baggage. A point which I brought up in your body thread that you conveniently ducked.
Truth is society is full of shamers.
It's up to you the individual to hold yourself accountable when you find yourself stigmatizing others. We all do it, we're all guilty of it. I have to check myself at times when I find myself judging others. I'm trying though.
Men and women are both shamed for different reason.
Sure men aren't **** shamed, but we're shamed for a host of other reasons.
Men are shamed when we show emotion (even men hurt sometimes, we're human), when we stray from the traditional role society as put on us as breadwinners (stay at home fathers generally get no respect, /salute), when we take certain jobs (shout out to my murses and my mecrataries, keep ya'll heads up).
Women are **** shamed.
Sexually both men and women are stigmatized as well. Women get stigmatized if they're promiscuous, men get stigmatized if they're not able to be promiscuous.
**** even women like a dude that gets tail. A sign of virility.
Hey even you Kelly shame certain NTers for not being able to get tail. You also body shame certain men. You'd argue a woman can't control her bodyweight because of hormones and birth but hey, some men are just generally predisposed to being heavier. Some guys are endomorphs and even at low BMIs they'll look like they're carrying some extra baggage. A point which I brought up in your body thread that you conveniently ducked.
Truth is society is full of shamers.
It's up to you the individual to hold yourself accountable when you find yourself stigmatizing others. We all do it, we're all guilty of it. I have to check myself at times when I find myself judging others. I'm trying though.
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^^^^ Nicely put sir
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I do agree with OP in a sense. Its def not fair and we need to fix society, and stop having these girls be shamed once this instint!
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Sounds like OP been thugged out a couple times too many. Hold ya head ma
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Females been causing trouble since Adam and Eve.
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I haven't slept with one girl whom I wouldn't have given the chance to pursue something further with, all the girls were treated with respect and sex was always a secondary thing and every time I would leave the ball in their court to take it there, not because I didn't have the courage to push it, but because getting to know a girl in a deeper sense to me was always more gratifying than sleeping with them, if you catch my drift.
Here is where it gets tricky, it only ever worked out for the long run with my wife....all the other girls said they wanted a nice guy, claimed they wanted to be viewed as something more than a sex object, but then will start acting all weird when I would treat them with respect and not even push the envelop on sex, the insecurities were absurd....bottom line, very few girls know what they even want, at least with the majority of men YOU KNOW what they ultimately want, with a woman is always some mind ****
Here is where it gets tricky, it only ever worked out for the long run with my wife....all the other girls said they wanted a nice guy, claimed they wanted to be viewed as something more than a sex object, but then will start acting all weird when I would treat them with respect and not even push the envelop on sex, the insecurities were absurd....bottom line, very few girls know what they even want, at least with the majority of men YOU KNOW what they ultimately want, with a woman is always some mind ****
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Hate to say this but most women were raised to value what they have between their legs above else, they feel entitled to everything a man has to offer without pulling their own weight, simply because they have the P....then get upset when men view them for what they are, a walking vagina...make up your minds....you want a good guy, don't chase the good guys away, you want to be viewed as something more than a sex object, don't put your P on a pedestal, cater to your man as much as he's supposed to cater to you, offer to pay the tab on that first date, have something going no for yourself other than your physical.
Sex is just sex, stop thinking of it as the holy grail, if you wanna **** that man, then **** him...if he's about you, he's not gonna change because of that...you can hold out for a year, have sex and break up...more than likely is not because he finally got what he wanted...no man is gonna wait a year on sex if the woman is so easy to walk out on, the same way no man is gonna walk out on a legit great woman because she gave it up after a week.
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