SLIGHTLY DEPRESSED SINCE BREAK UP. DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO.

[guccjermaine]

When my ex cheated on me, I immediately hit the library, park, and Barnes & Nobles in search for yambs with morals and standards. You'd be surprised at how many better yambs awaits your arrival. Work out or jog and keep moving forward. If you follow my instructions you will be over her by tomorrow. Fall is the season where most women are jogging in the park. Use this as an opportunity to meet/smash any woman you have chemistry with.

Wait is the the ex from your thread last week?

lol nah the one before her. I'm currently still with the lady from my last thread.

 

[wj4]

I always found that time is the ONLY thing that truly heals wounds

I passed up on a lot of good girls because I wasn't ready but your time to shine will come again OP and you will know when your ready...stay up

Agreed. Surround yourself with uplifting folks during this time and use your free time towards a goal, be it working out, doing well in school, career, etc and emerge as a better and bigger man.

 

[Mark Antony]

When my ex cheated on me, I immediately hit the library, park, and Barnes & Nobles in search for yambs with morals and standards. You'd be surprised at how many better yambs awaits your arrival. Work out or jog and keep moving forward. If you follow my instructions you will be over her by tomorrow. Fall is the season where most women are jogging in the park. Use this as an opportunity to meet/smash any woman you have chemistry with.

Wait is the the ex from your thread last week?

Damn, can't be. If so he's just in that phase right before it hits.


I did the rebound/ yambage thing out the gate, met some decent chicks too, just realized I wasn't ready yet.

 

[guccjermaine]

When my ex cheated on me, I immediately hit the library, park, and Barnes & Nobles in search for yambs with morals and standards. You'd be surprised at how many better yambs awaits your arrival. Work out or jog and keep moving forward. If you follow my instructions you will be over her by tomorrow. Fall is the season where most women are jogging in the park. Use this as an opportunity to meet/smash any woman you have chemistry with.

Wait is the the ex from your thread last week?

Damn, can't be. If so he's just in that phase right before it hits.


I did the rebound/ yambage thing out the gate, met some decent chicks too, just realized I wasn't ready yet.

If he isn't ready I'd strongly recommend he go jogging in the park. It's a win win situation; his health gets better and he will enjoy looking at all of the potential yambs in leggings. My method works because I'm speaking from plenty of experience bro. I've been dumped or cheated on by most of my exes.

 

[superswag]

hard as it may be, you need to stop being fixated with her to allow yourself to see what's "out there".

dont waste your time dwelling on her because the moment you meet someone, youll go through the "if i knew then what i know now" and realize how you wasted years of your life for her.

Life goes on. word to Pac.

 

[rare]

So i broke up with my ex of 1 year and 6 months because she admitted to have cheated on me twice, once with her ex and the other with a co-worker. After a period of not talking we started to talk once more and tried to patch things up. We had scheduled at day for us to go out and eat and talk about the situation. So the night before our date I called her and she ignored my call. I tried again and she answered crying really badly. I asked her what was wrong and she just hung up and turned off her phone. So i texted her saying if she didnt answer that I was gonna drive to her house. She called me back, and she told me that when I called her she was ******* another dude. So after that I just couldn't do it anymore and I told her that i didn't want her in my life anymore at all. I have to cut her off. But its still in my head the fact that she was smashing the other dude. I haven't spoken to her since. And i intend to keep it that way. I just feel a bit depressed and don't know how to get rid of it. Thanks for hearing me out NT.

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[burymeag]

Going through something similar OP..... 

The culture in this day and age is so ****** up. Females and males these days honestly have no sense of morals.

I'm reading all these posts as advice as well.

 

[sundoobie]

She called me back, and she told me that when I called her she was ******* another dude.

The hell you need to be depressed about? This female showed you exactly what she's about and you're gonna be sad about it? It should be helluva spiritual awakening time man! You wasted over a year with this female dog so count your blessings and stop wasting any more time with her. But before you cut her loose for good, I would just play the oh my heart hurts so bad angle, get her feeling sorry for you so you can get one last smashing session, and as soon as you get yours, get out of bed, grab her clothes, throw it at her and tell her to get out! Yes in that order!

Either/or just hit them weights... best way to forget about her.

 

[lstylez23]

not really the same but

im pretty sure me and my girl are done..

been an on going thing with me and her and i think we've both just about had it

she just told me "we can be civil and ill be there if you need something but im done. if you're with that then we can work on a friendship but if not im sorry"

**** hasnt hit me yet but im sure it will in a few days or maybe it wont

worse thing is i gotta stop smoking to find a job, so that wont even help




honestly in your situation she played you man, if i found out my girl did that i would have left the 1st time..

dont stress over a female thats doing you dirty like that

 

[black migo]

Step ya pipe game up son

 

[JayDean03]

just listen to yeezus and forget about her breh

This actually helps.

 

[guzzy]

Stay active brodi. Keep busy,  don't let your mind wander into those feels.

Hit the gym, get new clothes,hit school and work HARD, go out with the boys. Its aight to feel depressed bruh, cry it out once then let that ish

go.

Stay active, Stay, Active.

You single pleighboi, go work on yourself.

 

[guccjermaine]

not really the same but

im pretty sure me and my girl are done..

been an on going thing with me and her and i think we've both just about had it

she just told me "we can be civil and ill be there if you need something but im done. if you're with that then we can work on a friendship but if not im sorry"

**** hasnt hit me yet but im sure it will in a few days or maybe it wont

worse thing is i gotta stop smoking to find a job, so that wont even help

honestly in your situation she played you man, if i found out my girl did that i would have left the 1st time..

dont stress over a female thats doing you dirty like that

A blunt won't hurt bro.

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Dont date chicks that just got out of a relationship.

 

[waitwut]

Dont date chicks that just got out of a relationship.

i had my fair share of ex's but why shouldnt guys date chicks that just got out?

 

[jayhood23]

She deserves to get decked in the mouth ..

She already was when OP called...

But all jokes aside man don't take her back. Think about it this way, she disrespected you time after time after time.

1. Cheating on you with the ex
2. Cheating on you with her co worker
3. Answering the phone while shes getting throttled
4. Turning her phone off to continue getting throttled.
5. Doing all this the day before you're supposed to discuss 1 and 2.

My advice to you is go get an older woman 37+...

The reasons I listed above should be enough to know that she's not what you need in your life.

 

[guccjermaine]

When my ex cheated on me, I immediately hit the library, park, and Barnes & Nobles in search for yambs with morals and standards. You'd be surprised at how many better yambs awaits your arrival. Work out or jog and keep moving forward. If you follow my instructions you will be over her by tomorrow. Fall is the season where most women are jogging in the park. Use this as an opportunity to meet/smash any woman you have chemistry with.

Wait is the the ex from your thread last week?

This past weekend 

 

[Ox.]

quality advice in here OP.

can't say anything but just listen to these guys, i went through a tough breakup last year or so as well. worry about yourself and bettering yourself and trust me, after time you'll feel like a weight was lifted off your shoulders when you step back and see the big picture and see what she did and if you're in LA as in los angeles, you know there's a lot of sleezy breezys waiting to give it up.

 

[atlien seeko]

So i broke up with my ex of 1 year and 6 months because she admitted to have cheated on me twice, once with her ex and the other with a co-worker. After a period of not talking we started to talk once more and tried to patch things up. We had scheduled at day for us to go out and eat and talk about the situation. So the night before our date I called her and she ignored my call. I tried again and she answered crying really badly. I asked her what was wrong and she just hung up and turned off her phone. So i texted her saying if she didnt answer that I was gonna drive to her house. She called me back, and she told me that when I called her she was ******* another dude. So after that I just couldn't do it anymore and I told her that i didn't want her in my life anymore at all. I have to cut her off. But its still in my head the fact that she was smashing the other dude. I haven't spoken to her since. And i intend to keep it that way. I just feel a bit depressed and don't know how to get rid of it. Thanks for hearing me out NT.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[al audi]

Damn........OP. not to be an ***.....but were you hittin it good? She prob cheated more than she even told you. Hell the first year of the relationship pose to be the best lol. She shouldn't even had had time to cheat.

 

[atlien seeko]

This gotta be a troll thread.

 

[John00]

Bro, that pain is something most everyone deals with at some point or another. So realize that you're not alone.

Secondly realize she never truly loved you, because if she did she wouldn't have done you like that. You need to love yourself and realize that this is a blessing. What if you impregnated her?

Sometimes when you're depressed you can't see the bigger picture. I'm here to tell you that you're worth more than that bro.

Take this time to reinvent yourself. Get in the best shape of your life, focus on school and career. In time that pain will pass and you will find someone who appreciates you.

Damn good post!

OP just take the time you need to get yourself together and move on with your life. That girl isn't the one for you.

 

[trasoul82]

This is not the NT that once was.

 

[bhergh]

Illest... but seriously I think we need an official girls or relationship thread if we don't have one already

 

[mellowhigh]

Illest...

but seriously I think we need an official girls or relationship thread if we don't have one already

I second this!