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the lack of my own place at 26 is what i feel is my biggest problem right now
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joepac12
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If I knew how to embed gifs you get the rock clapping one Fontaine. Accurate to a T. As someone who has had all that before I can attest to how much yambs love goals and your life direction just as much as a made bed and pearl white sink with no toothpaste on the mirror lol.
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Qhen i had my own spot that was the best. I lived on my own and had whoeer i wanted there when i wanted. Then my ex moved in wit me. Now im back wit mom. **** sucks.
I wana get my own apt again but my dam truck note is like rent itself
I wana get my own apt again but my dam truck note is like rent itself
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Strip flip cup was money in college.
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ya'll in here talmbout yams and ya finances ain't in order--- hustling backwards, that is. I had to let a dude know one time that his priorities were WAAAAY outta order. You can't be tryna date and talk to me if other areas in your life require greater attention. I'd rather you work on that and if I'm still on your mind when you are "good" then hit me up... if not, whatevs. Living situation and income should be more important than anything (unless you have children, they should be up there too).
And real talk homie you need to let that truck GO... unless you do something to bring in more income. Right now your output is greater than your input--that's not right.
It's work THEN play
You still gotta work.
And real talk homie you need to let that truck GO... unless you do something to bring in more income. Right now your output is greater than your input--that's not right.
It's work THEN play
You still gotta work.
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Gator: I'm the complete opposite. Slowly obtaining the dreaded workaholic label. I have trouble balancing career and relationships. A lot of women in my life have felt neglected in the past because of my hierarchy of priorities.ya'll in here talmbout yams and ya finances ain't in order--- hustling backwards, that is. I had to let a dude know one time that his priorities were WAAAAY outta order. You can't be tryna date and talk to me if other areas in your life require greater attention. I'd rather you work on that and if I'm still on your mind when you are "good" then hit me up... if not, whatevs. Living situation and income should be more important than anything (unless you have children, they should be up there too).
And real talk homie you need to let that truck GO... unless you do something to bring in more income. Right now you output is greater than you input--that's not right.
It's work THEN play
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yea man it's a true balance--- I'm getting ready to start up school again so I know my chill time will be nill :\
It's tough though, definite catch 22. If you tryna have a relationship I could see where that would hurt you but if you tryna smash a few here and there you actually have the ideal set up. You don't have to lie about not having time or focusing on your career because that's what you are doing--all depends how you look at it. Drive is an aphrodisiac to some women so that could prove beneficial to your acquiring of yambs.
You know, if you tryna bag that "upper echelon type ho"
It's tough though, definite catch 22. If you tryna have a relationship I could see where that would hurt you but if you tryna smash a few here and there you actually have the ideal set up. You don't have to lie about not having time or focusing on your career because that's what you are doing--all depends how you look at it. Drive is an aphrodisiac to some women so that could prove beneficial to your acquiring of yambs.
You know, if you tryna bag that "upper echelon type ho"
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I forget if I went raw or not my first time but I know I didn't bust...my first few times having sex I didn't bust matter of fact
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My first time was scary as ****....all that blood [emoji]128565[/emoji][emoji]128565[/emoji][emoji]128565[/emoji] I didn't know what the hell was going on lol
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How many of you guys believe the notion that "if she lets you smash the first night she's a skank" ?
joepac12
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^ that's true but as adults you make decisions and have to live by them. Current chick I'm talking to now smashed second time seeing her. I did think that was fast but we both was feeling each other and one thing led to another. If I see potential then it's not that bad. Some females will always be jump off a tho. Just how the game works
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Depends if yall literally met that night and you hit or yall been talking for a week or two and decide to go on a first date she lets you hit
If you let me hit the first night I meet you, you're a jump IMO
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it's just like what 3 Stacks told me - she's not a *****, she just know what she wants out of life.
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Having been drug out for months for a joint that I didn't even end up smashing, I won't completely discredit a chick for the first night smash. Her not putting out is no guarantee. Plus even though she wasn't putting out her loins were screaming, I know as soon as she was done wasting my time she got beat up left and right.
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It doesn't really matter to me. Kind of got over that if u let me hit on first night as I got older. Just the way everything plays out afterwards.
As J. Cole said I wouldn't say that you a ***, just made a *** decision
As J. Cole said I wouldn't say that you a ***, just made a *** decision
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goodsaying. which applies to men also.
my most recent gf gave me top the first night we hung out. But she was 3 months removed from a relationship where she hasn't had sex for 3-4 months before that. she was super horny. it happens.
I say females over the age of 21 thats no longer doing it for social climbing/status. is just doing it because they know what they want.
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One of the 18-year olds cut off the roster like JR Smith's brother. Nagging me about seeing Wolf of Wall Street when you know I'm putting in a 70-hour week.
Gator: What program for grad school?
Gator: What program for grad school?
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I don't know if any of you remember the post I made in the previous TAY thread, but I posted about a dream I had about this one girl that I usually walk to class. Known her since freshman year, and we're seniors now. Told her about said dream, she started teasing, etc. I was initially going to pursue, but got sidetracked by my school studies. Today though, as we're walking she goes out and says "I bet you look at my instagram pictures and say damn she's sexy" I proceed to tell her that i hate that word (sexy, which I do). She then says,"That's not what your conscious is saying though from that- never mind". I instantly knew she was hinting at the dream, and I was like "Chill, don't get me started on that!" I laugh and she says "Well maybe its hinting that you want to f_ the s_ out of me" 
I saw the smirk on her face, and I simply said "You said it not me" I smile and we start laughing and I tell her I gotta bounce to my class. I know where this is most likely going to go, and I'm fine with that. It's just funny because it tells me she's still thinking about the dream.
I saw the smirk on her face, and I simply said "You said it not me" I smile and we start laughing and I tell her I gotta bounce to my class. I know where this is most likely going to go, and I'm fine with that. It's just funny because it tells me she's still thinking about the dream.
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and you didnt bang her yet because.....
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Exams are next week, I have no ride to her spot (public transportation is out of the question). I posted I wasn't focusing on yambs since I was more focused on school work. The fact that she's reminded of that dream is a clear indicator that I shouldn't be pursuing as hard as I thought I would be.
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Was this the one who had "50 shades of grey" on deck in her phone or pad, I vaguely remember, but son what's the hold up, this is a straight slam dunk, grand slam, GOOOOOOAL...I don't know if any of you remember the post I made in the previous TAY thread, but I posted about a dream I had about this one girl that I usually walk to class. Known her since freshman year, and we're seniors now. Told her about said dream, she started teasing, etc. I was initially going to pursue, but got sidetracked by my school studies. Today though, as we're walking she goes out and says "I bet you look at my instagram pictures and say damn she's sexy" I proceed to tell her that i hate that word (sexy, which I do). She then says,"That's not what your conscious is saying though from that- never mind". I instantly knew she was hinting at the dream, and I was like "Chill, don't get me started on that!" I laugh and she says "Well maybe its hinting that you want to f_ the s_ out of me"
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Yes.Was this the one who had "50 shades of grey" on deck in her phone or pad, I vaguely remember, but son what's the hold up, this is a straight slam dunk, grand slam, GOOOOOOAL...I don't know if any of you remember the post I made in the previous TAY thread, but I posted about a dream I had about this one girl that I usually walk to class. Known her since freshman year, and we're seniors now. Told her about said dream, she started teasing, etc. I was initially going to pursue, but got sidetracked by my school studies. Today though, as we're walking she goes out and says "I bet you look at my instagram pictures and say damn she's sexy" I proceed to tell her that i hate that word (sexy, which I do). She then says,"That's not what your conscious is saying though from that- never mind". I instantly knew she was hinting at the dream, and I was like "Chill, don't get me started on that!" I laugh and she says "Well maybe its hinting that you want to f_ the s_ out of me"
That's the girl. I get my license the 3-4 of next month, transportation will no longer be a problem after that.
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Man you got the patience of a monk, lolYes.
Can't get a cab or she can't scoop you up??
But the build up could be EPIC and down right the story we need for the new thread...
Not mad at cha tho...
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