TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[bxbadboy90]

Valenties day is coming up and I wont be able to be with this girl..However I will be seeing her on Saturday. My question is should I surprise her and have chocolate covered strawberries delivered to her or do I show up the next day and personally deliver the chocolate covered strawberries or should I show up with Godiva chocolate

 

[lamekilla]

Valenties day is coming up and I wont be able to be with this girl..However I will be seeing her on Saturday. My question is should I surprise her and have chocolate covered strawberries delivered to her or do I show up the next day and personally deliver the chocolate covered strawberries or should I show up with Godiva chocolate

Either one is good...but women treat valentines day as a contest between each other. The next day to them isn't as good enough as THE day. If it's not an inconvenience try and get the chocolate covered strawberries delivered to her on V-day. If you pull that off, when you finally do see her she's gonna murder you with the yambs



...and mugen81 the stuff you preach in here is second to none. Keep dropping knowledge brotha, knuckleheads like me need it!

 

[lpheat22]

mugen81 love the knowledge you always drop in here man. Between here and the conversations I have with my older co-workers I always feel like I gained a couple of years of experience.

 

[アミーゴ]

mugen81 love the knowledge you always drop in here man. Between here and the conversations I have with my older co-workers I always feel like I gained a couple of years of
experience.

Whatever Albert, no Vegas rooms for you.

 

[lpheat22]

mugen81 love the knowledge you always drop in here man. Between here and the conversations I have with my older co-workers I always feel like I gained a couple of years of
experience.

Whatever Albert, no Vegas rooms for you.

アミーゴ what's going on friday?

 

[tdogg2k]

Somehow, someway... a girl thinks I'm trying to date her

First time for everything smfh.

i think i got myself in the same situation. but i am actually feelin this chick. damn 3 weeks in another country and already got a VDay date lol

 

[jdi23]

So I'm in the process of bagging this 5'11 blonde that I met. Not saying I'm intimidated but the tallest chick I've ever dated or smashed was 5'6. I'm 6'4 so I'm not worried about how we will look in public, but when I get ready to smash kinda wondering what that be like?

 

[a blinkin]

I just can't get right, NT fams.

I'm at a point in life where I value myself more than anyone else. I'm admittedly selfish and just can't bring myself to letting someone take precedence over the things I want. I'm working on this masters degree, just moved in to a nice place, and am enjoying the benefit of not having to answer to anyone. Women that I meet these days are so... Meh. They just seem to be stuck on that undergrad steeze with partying and living off refund checks. I've been trying to branch off of the undergrad yambs, but the ones in my grad classes are not what I'm looking for aesthetically.

 

[awwsome]

So I'm in the process of bagging this 5'11 blonde that I met. Not saying I'm intimidated but the tallest chick I've ever dated or smashed was 5'6. I'm 6'4 so I'm not worried about how we will look in public, but when I get ready to smash kinda wondering what that be like?

Climb that mountain and reach the gold at the summit. It's a blessing man, split them long legs like the Red Sea, do it for the culture.


a blinkin

Ain't nothing wrong with being selfish at this point in your life g. Selfishness gets a bad rap in society because of those who display it for the wrong reasons. When it comes to accomplishing your goals or what have you, a level of selfishness is necessary or you will fail. Nobody has ever gotten to the highest level of self actualization without being selfish, it's something you have to deal with when you want the most out of our finite time here, embrace that. Key is finding a woman who is as selfish when it comes to her own self development and therefore be the yin to your yang & build that castle with you.

As for not finding something interesting, you only touching joints you go to school with? You got your own spot man, find out where the young professionals are in your area and be great. Better to get at women who are outside your comfort zone.

 

[keel252]

Arguments are for the young and immature...
What I mean by that is as you grow and have more relationships you will see that all the "slamming doors", "yelling in public"," chasing after her" is straight arduous and asinine.
Once you realize your worth, you will transition into calmer methods when conflicts occur. Nothing wrong with healthy discussions or different viewpoints but that type of behavior is unacceptable as you grow older. Young relationships are hard to keep together for the long run. Do some succeed? Absolutely, but those are very rare. What people don't realize is that wants,desires,hobbies,career path, etc.. are all factors in how relationships become either weaker or stronger. When you are younger you don't have the coping skills to decipher what love really is or what lust/loyalty truly is..
Many people confuse the two and stay in unhealthy, co-dependent relationships just so they can feel wanted and love. Nothing wrong with letting someone go, sometimes it's needed to find your true path.
Break-ups or "Breaks" should never be considered if you truly love someone. Either you fight for them, seek counseling or voice your true feelings for said person, if they feel they can't reciprocate the same exact feelings, move on, say your piece and make an absolute clean break. Women like to hold on to one until they get another. DO NOT BE THAT GUY, IE-THE SAFETY BLANKET... Always put your self first, I do in my relationship because I don't need a woman to make me great but I do enjoy how a woman compliments me. Meaning any relationship should be like Voltron, working together for a common goal and purpose. Being a bachelor has its perks and strengths but nobody wants to walk this earth alone, I don't care how big of a pimp, playa, YAMB GOD you are, you want somebody to help smooth this thang out(word to 3 Stacks)...
I admit I miss my single days sometimes because I didnt have to worry about someone else's happiness,health and well being, but once you meet the right fit, things change.
I love coming home to my wife and chilling, talking about life, playing video games and lighting one up. It's no better feeling then looking at someone that generally has an interest in you and who you are.. Can all this end tomorrow? Sure can and I know reality from fairytale but man these streets and women ain't no joke,I truly hope I am never a bachelor again, lol...
All of this is to say enjoy life as much as possible, don't depend on a woman for happiness but more for companionship and conversation. If its not working, move on until you find your fit. You are doing yourself a disservice holding on to "Hope"...
Love thy Self,Family,Friends first and everything else will fall into place later...

Bro if you ever leave this thread for good, TAY will go in the toilet. So much knowledge and game in this post it's crazy.


Young fellas read this post at least 4 times and let it sink in.

 

[Mark Antony]

Part of the only reason I lurk. Single life is great, don't get me wrong, but at the end of the day I wanna be where Mugen is.

 

[keel252]

Part of the only reason I lurk. Single life is great, don't get me wrong, but at the end of the day I wanna be where Mugen is.

Damn right. can you image the money you'll save if you got somebody to take on those bills with you? Damn.

 

[Mark Antony]

Word, have grand vacations.

 

[a blinkin]

mugen81 just dropped some of the realest stuff I've ever read on NT.

 

[a blinkin]

a blinkin

Ain't nothing wrong with being selfish at this point in your life g. Selfishness gets a bad rap in society because of those who display it for the wrong reasons. When it comes to accomplishing your goals or what have you, a level of selfishness is necessary or you will fail. Nobody has ever gotten to the highest level of self actualization without being selfish, it's something you have to deal with when you want the most out of our finite time here, embrace that. Key is finding a woman who is as selfish when it comes to her own self development and therefore be the yin to your yang & build that castle with you.

As for not finding something interesting, you only touching joints you go to school with? You got your own spot man, find out where the young professionals are in your area and be great. Better to get at women who are outside your comfort zone.

It's proven to be more difficult than expected to ditch the college yambs. They're so... Convenient.

But I know I have to start looking elsewhere to meet women. Just taking some time doing so because I just moved here and I'm trying to get used to juggling my job and classes. I need to start exploring the town a bit more but the only people I know here are some frat brothers and they're still all on that undergrad life heavy. Need to start from scratch and make new friends to actually do more than just club/turn up.

Leaving my comfort zone is going to be tricky, but it'll get done.

 

[Carreraa]

Part of the only reason I lurk. Single life is great, don't get me wrong, but at the end of the day I wanna be where Mugen is.

 

[mugen81]

To all TAY FAMILIA...
I know I say I am leaving ALOT, but I feel that as long as I can give some kind of advice or assurance to other people that you are never alone in the world with your experiences, I will keep giving as much guidance as I can. I know the Internet has made alot of people jaded to what is fact and fiction but everything I spit is straight from my being. Never been good at verbal communication( still working on that flaw,lol), but writing for me is cathartic and eases the pain from experiences in my life. My girl reads alot of what I write and it has brought us closer and I am grateful for this thread, whether its just hearing wild stories or giving advice or the occasional jab at somebody to get a laugh out of this thing called life. I had to go through alot of trial and error because my father didnt bother( word to Shaq), but if I can help one person out in here or create discussions with their "Real Life" counterparts, then I have done my job..
Also OG'S, stop hiding my ninjas, lol...
And to The Don, you still not off the hook for your "wife" story bro..
Just remember NT never forgets and The

Lol..

 

[アミーゴ]

アミーゴ what's going on friday?

DTF, u already know it

i think i got myself in the same situation. but i am actually feelin this chick. damn 3 weeks in another country and already got a VDay date lol

My situation is I met the girl through a Grouper. Grouper is a new thing where u sign up for it and they match u up with a girl via facebook and u bring ur two wingmen and they bring two wingwomen. My boy brought me (being The Don ) and I hit it off with one of the girls. My other boy hit it off with a different girl and took her on an actual date. Well, the girl I was into I guess thought I was trying to go on a date with her...WHICH MAKES NO SENSE AT ALL. I literally showed my dude the entire convo and we both don't get it at all.

I'm at the point where I'm bout to tell her, "Look I'm not trying to date u or anything, just trying to hang out cuz I felt u were a dope chick."

Mugen I need u on this one

And to The Don, you still not off the hook for your "wife" story bro..
Just remember NT never forgets and The

Lol..

U know my ex lurks all my posts... But it was the DOPEST week of my life. And then I/ we realized I'm not ready for what she wanted and decided it's best to not talk at all and meet in a few years. I haven't hit her since

 

[mugen81]

@The Don, damn I hope that " situation" you had comes into fruition later on. Nothing like meeting the right person at the wrong time.
But to speak with a forked tongue, maybe she is one of the people that walks into your life to "prep" you for the right fit..
As far as ol girl thinking you are trying to date her, my theory is she is jealous of her other friend. Women are the most competitive creatures on the face of the planet. If their "girl" has any type of happiness in her life( whether career, man, body,etc.) they want it for themselves as well, and if they can't get it, they throw shade and put nonsense in her ear because" Misery Loves Company"..
Also it could be the opposite and they had their girls "pow-wow"and they discussed you not wanting to " settle down" and see this as the proverbial challenge of changing you or taking you over as a project..
Whether its envy or her determination"thirst", I think you are more then capable of keeping it 100 and telling her the truth.
"Look I like you as a person but I just don't have that spark for you. I think you are a amazing person and I would like to get know you as friends first and if something develops down the road, then we will take that road in due time but for right now it's not there for me."
Play with it in a tactful way so it doesn't leave a stain on your homies " potential" lady/friend situation...
And if all else fails, FDB and promptly be a jerk afterwards, lol...

 

[アミーゴ]

mugen81 It's more the opposite I guess. Maybe I didn't break it down correctly.

So I get her number and texting is smooth, make plans to hangout last wk. She has to cancel because of a work engagement, but told me like an hr within scheduling so not an issue. Tell her I wanted to hang with her before I left for Vegas, it just doesn't workout.

While I'm in Vegas my boy goes out with her friend. Her friend tells my dude that the girl I was texting didn't want to seriously date anyone (out of a 6 yr relationship) and thought I was looking for that. My boy tells her not at all and that her and I are looking for the same thing.

I hit up girl to go to a show and I wrote this.

"Yo clown, what are we thinking about Thursday? No roofiecaladas this time, I gotta get rid of u early"

We already talking about going and what not, and I wanted to make it playful.

She didn't hit me back, so I thought saying fdb or saying something about drinks this weekend...



In terms of right girl/ wrong time, thats REALLY what it was. I'm just not in the place where I'm ready for that. I'm all over the place and just enjoying life, traveling and what not. The night I met her my dude even told me I was going to marry her, but... It is what it is. Like I said, best week of my life hahahaha.

 

[mugen81]

@The Don...
Wait so you mad she runnin game??lol
You know what they" What goes around comes around"lol...
Now you have been a player in this game long enough to leave that alone broham, got me out here thinking she was on some class 5 clinger ish...
Boi stop, you know she got a team or Mr. "6 years" is back in them guts,lol..
Go out to Vegas and FDB...

 

[アミーゴ]

@The Don...
Wait so you mad she runnin game??lol
You know what they" What goes around comes around"lol...
Now you have been a player in this game long enough to leave that alone broham, got me out here thinking she was on some class 5 clinger ish...
Boi stop, you know she got a team or Mr. "6 years" is back in them guts,lol..
Go out to Vegas and FDB...

Yeah I just wanted to smash lawlz. She ain't even runnin game lol!

I think the worst part of my current situation is that I'm the PG whenever I got out with my boys. I'm the one always bringing girls into the rotation for ALL my boys. I can't remember the last time they put me on

I might just take this break, I'm not on pace for 100 this yr anyways



















I'd be on pace for like 75 lol.

 

[mugen81]

アミーゴ
75!!!

DAMMMMN,lol
Man my number is low compared to your yearly average, I ain't even mad at chu...
And bro you know that's game...
That's that" See if he will chase me" type bs,lol....
Guaranteed you stop showing interest and "6 years" gets out them guts and she will be on the phone calling "The Don"...

 

[raptorsundefeated]

Alright I have a bit of a problem. So there's this chick from my tutorial that I'm into and I got her number saying that I usually don't go to the class on that day because there's a conflict with another course so she gave me her number to give me the notes. Now I lost that number on my phone lol but I have her email that she gave me early in the semester. Should I make some BS excuse to email her then ask her for her number there or would that come off as a creep/thirsty?

 

[Mark Antony]

Just get it when you see her in person.