Pardon me in advance for even asking this, y'all, but I just gotta make sure I'm not crazy here...I'll try to keep this short. Cliffs at bottom...
So me && this chick I've been talking to for about 4 months (I'm in MD, she's in VA) or so hits me up Thursday night, while she's somewhat drunk at a party (again). Asks me if I wanna be with her, etc., says she didn't wanna tell me that 1 of her exes been hitting her up for like a week prior to && was apparently there also (she's said before she's 'cool' with all her exes but just as friends
), as well as some other guys she was allegedly "turning down for me", && kinda humble brags about how she's wanted..I say yea, she says the same && mentions how I should know she wants to be with me as a result of her walking outside, in the snow, with no jacket, just to talk to me. Im slightly heated at the whole convo, but I didn't react angrily like I probably should've, just played it off...anyway, she goes back in, && we talk later that night (like 5 am Friday morning at this point). She rehashes the whole 'I wanna be with you' spill, etc...we talk for a while, && I go to sleep around 6.
Fast forward to Friday afternoon now, she sends a HVD text, yada yada yada. After she says she's recovering from last night (per usual), we start to set up do something that evening. She then texts me, asking if I wanna meet her mom, but shortly after asks if we can reschedule for the weekend, as she had some event at church to go to that she 'forgot about'. I figure something's really up now, so I say that's fine. Last dialogue to this point...but, hours later as I'm omw to the gym, I see her post some cupcakes, a Chipotle bag && other assorted ****of the like on IG, talkin bout "I didn't want/expect anything for VD", blah blah ... ends caption with a "thanks love." with the obligatory emojis at the end...
So, wassup with this one, fellas? Honestly, I think I already know what time it is, but want/need some of y'all's takes on this && what to do from here.
CLIFFS:
• Talking to chick for a few months
• She hits a party && hits me up, drunk, stupidly asking do I wanna be with her, etc.
• Gets home at 5am && calls me again...
• Friday we start to set up some VD plans, until she asks to reschedule for the wknd.
• Posts some Chipotle &&cupcakes on IG that somebody (probably her ex or someone) gave her
• Been ghost since