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[hennessy beach]

Word of advice for my dudes in college.  Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.  All my homies are pressed to get at something for the night, every night.  Be these girls "friends" first and get them in the emotions.  Threw the Drake on after the third time chilling with chick and she asks "can we do molly together this weekend"....

the sex is better when they're in their emotions fam

working on this starting 5 while my homies still looking for that weekend home run.

Howard >

 

[dens415]

repped times a million youngdoc

 

[youngdoc]

Maybe your homies are ugly ****** or have no game or are always going for the baddest of the baddest?

It's not hard to take a cute girl (~7/8 ) home from a college party

Why you're playing Drake for chicks and not smashing (yet), others (not your boys but in general) are hitting the gym, books, videogames and then smashing on the weekend with minimal effort

But do you

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

Word of advice for my dudes in college.  Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.  All my homies are pressed to get at something for the night, every night.  Be these girls "friends" first and get them in the emotions.  Threw the Drake on after the third time chilling with chick and she asks "can we do molly together this weekend"....

the sex is better when they're in their emotions fam

working on this starting 5 while my homies still looking for that weekend home run.


Howard >

[COLOR=#Red]
Da heck school you at homie? Only Molly I know at Texas A&M is a white chick in the business program you must be going to a party school bro!!! Color me jealous [/COLOR]

 

[youngdoc]

Word of advice for my dudes in college.  Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.  All my homies are pressed to get at something for the night, every night.  Be these girls "friends" first and get them in the emotions.  Threw the Drake on after the third time chilling with chick and she asks "can we do molly together this weekend"....

the sex is better when they're in their emotions fam

working on this starting 5 while my homies still looking for that weekend home run.


Howard >

[COLOR=#Red]
Da heck school you at homie? Only Molly I know at Texas A&M is a white chick in the business program you must be going to a party school bro!!! Color me jealous [/COLOR]

Chicks may just kept it hidden. My undergrad (Stanford) was far from a party school but mj, coke, and ex were all very prevalent (of course MJ the most) and the parties were actually pretty decent

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

Word of advice for my dudes in college.  Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.  All my homies are pressed to get at something for the night, every night.  Be these girls "friends" first and get them in the emotions.  Threw the Drake on after the third time chilling with chick and she asks "can we do molly together this weekend"....

the sex is better when they're in their emotions fam

working on this starting 5 while my homies still looking for that weekend home run.


Howard >

Yea...Im gona do the opposite of that

Having three throw away dates and listening to Drake doesnt sound appealing to me at all. And F' they emotions only thing i want em to feel is this penis.

 

[アミーゴ]

Gonna end up on cam b

U damn right I'm filming it son

Pm me for the vid

 

[lpheat22]

 

[drones]

So I think my girl is doing some slick stuff on the side but I can't prove it.  here's the Cliffs: 

>she goes to a party on Saturday and asks me to come but I can't 
>text her at 3:30 and ask if she wants me to pick her up because she's too trashed to drive, she says no it's ok ill get a cab when I wake up (suspicious) 
>keeps telling me 'oh wah I blacked out, I don't remember blah blah' without me even asking...
>I confront her yesterday about it and tell her to swear or put it on her grandmother that she didn't cheat
>all she'll say is 'I promise I didn't have sex with anyone' meaning she wouldn't swear OR say that she didn't do something lesser than that, like make out or fondle each other
>she also showed me texts from a dude who used to hit it back when she was a freshman (last year)

So I don't have any proof but I'm still suspicious. based on why wouldn't she swear, and why is this dude texting her? What do you think?

So I don't have any proof but I'm still suspicious. based on why wouldn't she swear, and why is this dude texting her? What do you think?

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

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Chicks may just kept it hidden. My undergrad (Stanford) was far from a party school but mj, coke, and ex were all very prevalent (of course MJ the most) and the parties were actually pretty decent

[COLOR=#red] yeah true bro...at the same time. I could see that more at U of Texas than A&M...Austin is way more live and liberal than super conservative A&M ...not to say we don't have nothing going on. Now Sam Houston State is another dam story, that school be having epic parties it's sorta like Texas version of Chico St. Al in all I bet Stanford was still kinda fun wasn't it?[/COLOR]

 

[Mark Antony]

So I think my girl is doing some slick stuff on the side but I can't prove it.  here's the Cliffs: 

>she goes to a party on Saturday and asks me to come but I can't 
>text her at 3:30 and ask if she wants me to pick her up because she's too trashed to drive, she says no it's ok ill get a cab when I wake up (suspicious) 
>keeps telling me 'oh wah I blacked out, I don't remember blah blah' without me even asking...
>I confront her yesterday about it and tell her to swear or put it on her grandmother that she didn't cheat
>all she'll say is 'I promise I didn't have sex with anyone' meaning she wouldn't swear OR say that she didn't do something lesser than that, like make out or fondle each other
>she also showed me texts from a dude who used to hit it back when she was a freshman (last year)



So I don't have any proof but I'm still suspicious. based on why wouldn't she swear, and why is this dude texting her? What do you think?


 


So I don't have any proof but I'm still suspicious. based on why wouldn't she swear, and why is this dude texting her? What do you think?

 

[アミーゴ]

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[COLOR=#red] yeah true bro...at the same time. I could see that more at U of Texas than A&M...Austin is way more live and liberal than super conservative A&M ...not to say we don't have nothing going on. Now Sam Houston State is another dam story, that school be having epic parties it's sorta like Texas version of Chico St. Al in all I bet Stanford was still kinda fun wasn't it?[/COLOR]

How u know bout Chico State? Most Cali schools get it in

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

[COLOR=#red]Drones, you have no solid proof, just circumstantial evidence at the very least.

File that away in your mental file cabinet and don't be suspicious and badger her about it. If you turn into a detective you'll drive yourself mad trying to find out the truth...thin type of almost controlling behavior will almost surely destroy the relationship.

If you feel you can't trust her then dump her plain and simple, but in reality that's kind of OD. Take a deep breath my dude, be vigilant but not OD jealous possessive Shirlock Holmes my dude.

My personal way of dealing with stuff like is to not eem trip. Way I feel is I can't control another person if they want to do what they want to do and I ain't gonna drive myself insane being suspicious either, if I get hard evidence of cheating I'll either drop the chick, or as her why she feels the need to step out and give her an out if she doesn't want to be with me anymore. Yes I've been through this before. She told me she cheated and. I was calm...didn't eem raise my voice...took her to the room and smashed and as I lay down after busting. I said "you either want to be with me or you don't...let me know either way. We stayed together for almost a year afterwards .[/COLOR]

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

How u know bout Chico State? Most Cali schools get it in

[COLOR=#red]E, I used to live in Cali and have been all over the state except not too far north of the Golden Gate. I was at Fresno State and was supposed to enroll and walk on, but I had so much fun during winter break! that I was like eff school and just hung out and went to campus everyday in my fully paid apartment Dude I was living for free and smashing chicks who came to Fresno St from all over Cali

Basically what you and Youngdoc do is a more modern more connected (FB, IG, Twitter), of what me and the crew used to do in Cali [/COLOR]

 

[hennessy beach]

 

Word of advice for my dudes in college.  Do the opposite of what everyone else is doing.  All my homies are pressed to get at something for the night, every night.  Be these girls "friends" first and get them in the emotions.  Threw the Drake on after the third time chilling with chick and she asks "can we do molly together this weekend"....

the sex is better when they're in their emotions fam

working on this starting 5 while my homies still looking for that weekend home run.


Howard >

Yea...Im gona do the opposite of that

Having three throw away dates and listening to Drake doesnt sound appealing to me at all. And F' they emotions only thing i want em to feel is this penis.

the drake was a joke...but unless you taking something home EVERY night id rather have a solid team I could count on every night

and who said anything about dates...im talking about chicks coming over to the spot and yall kickin it without smashing.

 

[tdogg2k]

[COLOR=#red]Drones, you have no solid proof, just circumstantial evidence at the very least.

File that away in your mental file cabinet and don't be suspicious and badger her about it. If you turn into a detective you'll drive yourself mad trying to find out the truth...thin type of almost controlling behavior will almost surely destroy the relationship.

If you feel you can't trust her then dump her plain and simple, but in reality that's kind of OD. Take a deep breath my dude, be vigilant but not OD jealous possessive Shirlock Holmes my dude.

My personal way of dealing with stuff like is to not eem trip. Way I feel is I can't control another person if they want to do what they want to do and I ain't gonna drive myself insane being suspicious either, if I get hard evidence of cheating I'll either drop the chick,.[/COLOR]

I don't disagree with Elder, it seems like at all but on this I do.
Circumstantial evidence is good enough imo. and the fact that shes shady about it puts her in even more of the guilty realm imo.
Girls are usually good at covering their tracks, she fumbling.
The proof is in the pudding.

NEVER EVER EVER
trust that "I blacked out BS"
that means you F***ked up


I do agree, if you don't mind it and you still want to be with her, then just drop it.
she may of not had sex
may of still did minor infractions but if you want to stay with that that's on you.

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

I don't disagree with Elder, it seems like at all but on this I do.
Circumstantial evidence is good enough imo. and the fact that shes shady about it puts her in even more of the guilty realm imo.
Girls are usually good at covering their tracks, she fumbling.
The proof is in the pudding.

NEVER EVER EVER
trust that "I blacked out BS"
that means you F***ked up


I do agree, if you don't mind it and you still want to be with her, then just drop it.
she may of not had sex
may of still did minor infractions but if you want to stay with that that's on you.

[COLOR=#red]Tdogg, I see what you are saying, but my thing about circumstantial evidence is that it puts you in the position where you either have to s*** or get off the pot as far as the relationship goes. Meaning that if you are going off of so so information then dump her...point blank be done with it. If all relationships were ended because of circumstantial evidence we'd almost all be single my dude. Basically saying once you start treating your relationship like a CSI episode then rarely if ever does ti work out.

If you really love the chick and the relationship is something you want then you can't be so quick to jump ship. People are people my dude, we ALL have a shady bone somewhere in our body, at any given time a person can mess up.

True statement right here...NEVER NEVER NEVER put so much trust into a person to where you don't think that anything can happen. Usually when you do that and something does happen you are devastated beyond measure. [/COLOR]

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

[COLOR=#red]When we are not perfect in a relationship many times as guys we expect women to give us another chance or to just deal with it...yet if a woman messes up then she is automatically the worse most shady organism on the earth. Reason is our egos can't handle the fact that a chick stepped out...this even happens with dudes who have a lot of chicks on the side.

So Drones if you truly believed she stepped out and it's affecting you to no end, then dump her and move on. OR forgive the supposed incident and be happy. That in between stuff is unhealthy. [/COLOR]

 

[usabasketball08]

Speaking of parties...I'm always on my chill vibe at parties.

I'm on the couch talking, or walking around casually talking to people. (There's a big difference between this and being that dude in the corner on their phone)

Meanwhile dudes are trying to **** every thing in the place. (And about 50-60% of them fail. Depending on how they look, etc.)

I was at a house party last weekend chillin' on the couch talking to my homegirl, and I was eyeing this chick from across the room, who I'd assumed was approached by more than a few dudes that night.

A few minutes later she walks over to the couch and goes, "oh so you don't want to **** me like everybody else in here?"

My homegirl busts out laughing. She has that annoying, awkward *** laugh so it kinda made the situation a lil' awkward.

I respond with, "Naw, only if YOU throw it at ME."

I ended up getting dome from her later that night after taking her to the bathroom and talking to her a bit, but I didn't hit.

Spoiler

I messed up by not having a condom.

 

[tdogg2k]

I feel you EWD,
I'm a don't ask don't tell guy.
I'm not going to badger any chick about what she does when I can't see her


The only problem I have with his situation is that she quickly coughed up what seems like guilty answers.

Thats the red flag I see

Me personally, I wouldn't of even asked about the night, my first instinct is to just trust.

but that red flag is what peaks curioustity. she f**d up by doing that.
I see why he is so torn

 

[usabasketball08]

How much do you really trust her?

(Directed to the guy who originally posted about this)

 

[tdogg2k]

not my situation the other guy who posted it a page back

 

[アミーゴ]

Girl seems like drama, dude needs to just drop her.

 

[usabasketball08]

not my situation the other guy who posted it a page back

My bad, I read that all wrong.

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

I feel you EWD,
I'm a don't ask don't tell guy.
I'm not going to badger any chick about what she does when I can't see her


The only problem I have with his situation is that she quickly coughed up what seems like guilty answers.

Thats the red flag I see

Me personally, I wouldn't of even asked about the night, my first instinct is to just trust.

but that red flag is what peaks curioustity. she f**d up by doing that.
I see why he is so torn

[COLOR=#red]True indeed bro...we don't disagree all that much my dude, just a slight difference in perspective is all.

You know what's so bad about cheating tho? Even worse than the emotional aspect is the health aspect. Most time cheating is done without a condom, because cheating is basically already breaking the rules...caution has already been pissed in the wind and it's a huge adrenaline rush, so strapping up is usually an afterthought. So basically if your chick has cheated 7/8 times out of 10 he went in raw.

I remember when one of my exes told me she cheated on me. Very calmly I asked her "well was it at least good?" Crying her eyes out she said "no it wasn't, it was terrible". I was like "I doubt that, I mean there's that sense of rush and adrenaline so I know you was charged up". She looked at me like dis ***** here. [/COLOR]