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you need the talking stage though. I call it the negotiations stage.
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This. It's like dipping your feet into the water. You gotta know what to expect going into it, if y'all vibe well, etc etc. plus you get to drag it out a little if you want to tie up some loose ends. It's great but women never know when to drop that stage & progress forward.
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At the bar the other night with my three dudes...
Night goes well, pick up a few numbers etc.
Last call is here, standing at the bar with my back facing it. Girl walks over and starts talking to me, about what I have no idea. After about 2 minutes she asks for my number and I hit her with, "Why don't u just come back to our spot and smoke some hookah with us?"
Of course she's with it, tells her friend she's bouncing and we roll.
I obviously smash, no hookah is smoked by us (my boys do though)...After smashing I tell her I got a taxi coming for her.
She says ok, and we go to smoke hookah with my boys.
She get's up to leave, but not before putting on her WEDDING RING IN HER PURSE and saying, "I'll call you this week, my husband is going out of town."
I was completely FLOORED...Girl was late 20's, and I guess had been married for 4 months or so.
My boys and I are strictly against that type of move, but knew this wasn't on me at all and spent the next hour talking about it.
On another note I have a great tip that has been working well lately. U see girls taking a picture of themselves, u know doing the selfie with their friend...and ask them, "Do u guys want me to take a picture for you?"
They won't expect it and ur straight in for convo. It hasn't failed me yet, easy way to start the situation.
Night goes well, pick up a few numbers etc.
Last call is here, standing at the bar with my back facing it. Girl walks over and starts talking to me, about what I have no idea. After about 2 minutes she asks for my number and I hit her with, "Why don't u just come back to our spot and smoke some hookah with us?"
Of course she's with it, tells her friend she's bouncing and we roll.
I obviously smash, no hookah is smoked by us (my boys do though)...After smashing I tell her I got a taxi coming for her.
She says ok, and we go to smoke hookah with my boys.
She get's up to leave, but not before putting on her WEDDING RING IN HER PURSE and saying, "I'll call you this week, my husband is going out of town."
I was completely FLOORED...Girl was late 20's, and I guess had been married for 4 months or so.
My boys and I are strictly against that type of move, but knew this wasn't on me at all and spent the next hour talking about it.
On another note I have a great tip that has been working well lately. U see girls taking a picture of themselves, u know doing the selfie with their friend...and ask them, "Do u guys want me to take a picture for you?"
They won't expect it and ur straight in for convo. It hasn't failed me yet, easy way to start the situation.
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nah.
that talking **** can be done as friends. Does not need a label.
"talking" brings along all kinds of stupid ****.... such as.... can you talk to other people, can you **** other people
if you're "talking" but can't see other people, sounds like a commitment to me.
if you're "talking" but can see other people, sounds like a friend to me.
so whats the point in the middle step? stay friends, do what you do... hang out... whatever. and if y'all want to commit, commit.
that talking **** can be done as friends. Does not need a label.
"talking" brings along all kinds of stupid ****.... such as.... can you talk to other people, can you **** other people
if you're "talking" but can't see other people, sounds like a commitment to me.
if you're "talking" but can see other people, sounds like a friend to me.
so whats the point in the middle step? stay friends, do what you do... hang out... whatever. and if y'all want to commit, commit.
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If you're in that second step you can see whoever you want to, just respect me when you're around me and i'll do the same.
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oh, if anyone remembers a few months back in this thread when i told the story of the rat bastard in here telling on ******...
I never found out who the double-agent was... ol' Jason Bourne *** ***** running around droppin Rondo's...
I never found out who the double-agent was... ol' Jason Bourne *** ***** running around droppin Rondo's...
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Agree with this..
But I hate the confusion that comes up with females and "talking"
Chicks always coming at me saying "Oh..... I heard about you" yada yada yada yada yada what you hear?
I tell any chick I mess with from day 1...I'm SINGLE. NOT LOOKING. And I'm chill as hell we can just kick it and i'll be cool with you, we could smash and I'll be the same cool dude, But just know I'm single and you ain't the only female I'm cool with at the moment... They fall for it every time and of course I end up killing the yambs, but then random drama pops up.... I take a pic with a female at a club and that female posts it on IG and now all of a sudden "Oh i heard you were TALKING to so and so" man please... That's your jealousness popping out that got nothing to do with me. If you wana know if im messing with a chick... then ASK ME... That's it...
Man bump all this talking..... Colombian chick sent me a pic....
Killin this at the end of the week for sure....
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U crazy E
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Man bump all this talking..... Colombian chick sent me a pic....
Killin this at the end of the week for sure....
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WhewwwwwAgree with this..
But I hate the confusion that comes up with females and "talking"
Chicks always coming at me saying "Oh..... I heard about you" yada yada yada yada yada what you hear?
I tell any chick I mess with from day 1...I'm SINGLE. NOT LOOKING. And I'm chill as hell we can just kick it and i'll be cool with you, we could smash and I'll be the same cool dude, But just know I'm single and you ain't the only female I'm cool with at the moment... They fall for it every time and of course I end up killing the yambs, but then random drama pops up.... I take a pic with a female at a club and that female posts it on IG and now all of a sudden "Oh i heard you were TALKING to so and so" man please... That's your jealousness popping out that got nothing to do with me. If you wana know if im messing with a chick... then ASK ME... That's it...
Man bump all this talking..... Colombian chick sent me a pic....
Killin this at the end of the week for sure....
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Always makin gawd moves.
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Good looks on the advice to all the chimed in. Mugen and Mark Anthony definitely hit it right on the spot. Girl did just get out of a long term relationship shortly before we started talking. I know she still chill w/ dude. We follow eachother on IG and I was scrolling through the posts as usual and saw she was chilling w/ him. Wasn't mad at all or get distrubed by it. Funny thing is there was this restaurant I was at about a month ago, was grabbing drinks and grub there. She hit me up while I was there and let her know where I was at and what I was up to. Sent her pics of my grub and she was intrigued by it. From the IG post I saw she took her ex to this same restaurant. She's all texting me pics of the food and drinks all excited cause its her first time there and hyped to finally try it. Aside from that, she was still texting me throughout the day while chilling w/ the ex. I'm not gonna look too much into it and definitely not going to play those ignoring games anymore cause I'm too old for that. Not bothered that she still hanging w/ the ex. Just gonna take it for what it is and like Mugen and Mark Anthony said, just have fun w/ it and keep it physical. Nothing more.
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There's this girl at my school who did photoshoots for Vogue magazine whose been showing me crazy attention lately. She's in one of my classes, and i much rather make a move sober, but i hate the "study partners" crap.
Imma see her at the bars this weekend and she will be mine
Ricky said it perfectly go with your first natural instinct. No more psyching myself out.
Imma see her at the bars this weekend and she will be mine
Ricky said it perfectly go with your first natural instinct. No more psyching myself out.
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I see you TD and Titan( thanks for hitting me with the youngin, lol)...
I do the same with wifey, if she starts texting me novels, I just call her, lol...
Who remembers circle yes/no if you like me, that was my ish in elementary and middle school,lol
I do the same with wifey, if she starts texting me novels, I just call her, lol...
Who remembers circle yes/no if you like me, that was my ish in elementary and middle school,lol
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Damn bro, been through a similar situation and that's how my *** got served with the heartache( i was 24, she was 22 but her mentality was that of a 18 year old)... But just smang it out but be careful because some of these young ****** are on different planes then old heads.. I have noticed alot of young cats are ready to fight and are mad protective of these chicks out here and are willing to mess their lives up over these females.. It really doesn't help nowadays that their moms want to be "best friends" instead of "role" models... I'll tell this story later after I cook for wifey but one of my boys is smashing a daughter/mom combo( not together) and her husband dont eem know it...telling him its a dangerous situation because alot of dudes never learn to just walk away before the husband/ex boyfriend finds out and some females are just that scandalous to put it in their face to make them jealous and that's where **** gets real... Can't tell you how many crimes of passion have happened in Houston and Texas period this year... Just be careful with that bro but still have fun...
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Bruh... you stay attracting married chicks
And that lemme take a pic always works...except when my roommate tries it haha
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U think it's something I'm doing? Both just walked up to me!!! I didn't approach at all.
And the phone thing is so clutch! Got so many numbers/ hookups from it.
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maybe you give off a grimy/idgaf vibe?
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Not to be contrarian, but I like the term "talking" It signifies atleast to me, that it's more than just sex. I mean I'm talking to this chick right now, and I take her out, we have sex, and I enjoy her company. I also have females I only contact for the smashing. I think it's a good way to separate levels of intimacy. If she cool, she will understand that just because ya'll talking doesn't mean she's your girl.
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Delete all txt! DONT FALL IN LOVE and strip up lol
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Take her down bro. This dude should learn to control his girl. obviously she aint happy with that dude. Assist her, and break her back and send her on her way.
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Leave a marries girl alone. Just gonna bring trouble. Never know. Shorty might have kids. Don't let her mess that up for some D. Trick love the kids
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This is how ****** get shot and left leakin
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I dont know if the last three responses were directed at me... If so read the story again.
Mugen u know i ain't goin in again Smh.
Mugen u know i ain't goin in again Smh.
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