The thing is she expected the same old Baam, not the Baam who is starting to realize he needs to walk his own path, whether that's being a human or a God, and understand himself. If she caught him before the Rice Pot, he probably would have done what she wanted. But it was hilarious to see Androssi just start threatening him like that would convince him then just start throwing a fit talking about "you're not saying what I want to hear."
Androssi likes the idea of Baam more than she actually likes him. It's a situation where I think if she were to actually get him, she wouldn't want him anymore. Separation and pursuit has made her act like this, but whenever she spent time with him she's never liked it all that much until he drops some nice line on her by accident.
I hate Rachel and wish Baam would body her, but at the same time I understand his position. For years she was literally the only person he ever knew. He sees her like a sister, and when she betrayed him, he knew it hurt, but never really understood why it hurt, so until he reconciles and understands Rachel, he feels like he can't move forward with himself and probably any of this other relationships as much as he wants. Best case scenario, he gets answers from Rachel, gets whatever he emotionally needs from her, then kills her or Koon kills her. She's literally the most useless irregular there is, can't do anything on her own.