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Damb fambs, I'm in a tough dilemma...

Been in a relationship for a year and half with my current gf. Can def see myself marrying her one day because of how much she loves and cares for me, like she's wifey material. But I'm contemplating having an affair with another girl who just moved to my area who wants the d badly. She doesnt know I have gf, and it's my fault for not saying it in the first place so I kinda led her on. I don't know how to say no, like I want to friendzone her without hurting her feelings even tho she is very smashable.

Another option I can do is to just smash anyway. I've heard that cheating may improve the relationship sometimes, despite how dumb that sounds. But if I do cheat I'm afraid I will feel guilty for the rest of my life with my gf. I mean I'm not an emotional person and will look at smashing the other girl as just sex for fun and whatever. But I hope it won't take a toll on my current relationship :frown:

Ps i have never cheated

Easy. Dont do it. The devil is tempting you breh, gotta stay strong. Worst part out of all this is, your girl will eventually find out and you can kiss your relationship goodbye
 
He is going to do  already did it
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If anything you read or heard stated that cheating "improves" a relationship is attempt on you and the author to make a disgusting attempt to justify an irreparable deed bc your desire trumps your logic and better judgment.

Think long term love over short term sex. What do you value most?
 
If anything you read or heard stated that cheating "improves" a relationship is attempt on you and the author to make a disgusting attempt to justify an irreparable deed bc your desire trumps your logic and better judgment.

Think long term love over short term sex. What do you value most?

He is right

Cheating definitely doesn't improve a relationship :lol:
 
A good relationship isn't worth ruining over 15-20 minutes of poontang. It will possibly ruin your gf's self esteem because she might think she's not good enough, or that she did something to make you betray her. Hurting the person you love over a little fun? Yeah, don't do it.

Once you break her trust, your relationship will never be the same. She won't trust you completely anymore.
 
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Just cheat. I mean you've been contacting the new chick without your girl knowing. So you're already doing good. Now whether or not it's a one time thing or not is were it gets complicated. Since you guys live in the same area.


Now if you met this chick say online or a dateing app and have never Facetimed her or called her you may be playing yourself. Maybe it's your girl trying to test you. You're gonna meet up and its your girl lol.




Cheating isn't cool but if you can do it without feeling bad why not?
 
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Damb fambs, I'm in a tough dilemma...

Been in a relationship for a year and half with my current gf. Can def see myself marrying her one day because of how much she loves and cares for me, like she's wifey material. But I'm contemplating having an affair with another girl who just moved to my area who wants the d badly. She doesnt know I have gf, and it's my fault for not saying it in the first place so I kinda led her on. I don't know how to say no, like I want to friendzone her without hurting her feelings even tho she is very smashable.

Another option I can do is to just smash anyway. I've heard that cheating may improve the relationship sometimes, despite how dumb that sounds. But if I do cheat I'm afraid I will feel guilty for the rest of my life with my gf. I mean I'm not an emotional person and will look at smashing the other girl as just sex for fun and whatever. But I hope it won't take a toll on my current relationship
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Ps i have never cheated
I'm no Dr. Phil or anything, but you're already making excuses for yourself. If cheating is gonna improve your "relationship", you're in a **** relationship.

Would you be cool with it if your girl stepped out and did the same ish? 
 
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Just got a call from the hospital again about my 2 test results from last week. More bad news 
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My LHRH test was within normal guidelines. My base testosterone levels are extremely low but the stimulation test was fine. So I'm not sure why my base testosterone levels are so low. My next appointment with the head endocrinologist is on the 15th of November so I'll hear more about that then.

The reason they called me in advance is because of the results of the other test.

Earlier this month blood tests showed that my cortisol ("stress hormone") levels are very low. Last week they did an insulin tolerance test to stimulate the cortisol production and see how the cortisol responds. The test is basically injecting insulin to lower your blood sugar to very low levels to induce a lot of internal stress in the body. In a normal person, loads of cortisol should be produced to counter the hypoglycemia.

As it turns out, my results for that test were "extremely low", to use the words of the specialist. Normally my body should have produced loads of cortisol but I performed far below normal guidelines.

They're gonna mail me a prescription for 10mg of hydrocortison per day so I can already start it tomorrow. At this point I have a longer medication list at 22 years old than most of the elderly people I worked with as a nursing student 
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Not sure how severe this cortisol problem is but I guess I'll find out next Tuesday on my appointment to discuss the test results.

They're also ordering a scan of my brain on December 8th. Given the test results, they now think something is wrong with my pituitary gland in my brain.

Sometimes I feel like like I'm some sort of science experiment with everything that is horribly wrong in my body 
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He is going to do it :lol:
Asked me to come over last night, but I made an excuse saying I couldn't. Asking me to come over again tonight, trying really hard to say no. Don't want her to feel bad about herself or anything, resisting free and new yambs is so damn difficult. The issue is that she's local so if I hit it won't be a one time thing. If you know you won't get caught, would you still do it. Anyone have experience with having a side chick ? And does it affect your relationship negatively ?
 
Just got a call from the hospital again about my 2 test results from last week. More bad news :smh:
My LHRH test was within normal guidelines. My base testosterone levels are extremely low but the stimulation test was fine. So I'm not sure why my base testosterone levels are so low. My next appointment with the head endocrinologist is on the 15th of November so I'll hear more about that then.
The reason they called me in advance is because of the results of the other test.
Earlier this month blood tests showed that my cortisol ("stress hormone") levels are very low. Last week they did an insulin tolerance test to stimulate the cortisol production and see how the cortisol responds. The test is basically injecting insulin to lower your blood sugar to very low levels to induce a lot of internal stress in the body. In a normal person, loads of cortisol should be produced to counter the hypoglycemia.
As it turns out, my results for that test were "extremely low", to use the words of the specialist. Normally my body should have produced loads of cortisol but I performed far below normal guidelines.
They're gonna mail me a prescription for 10mg of hydrocortison per day so I can already start it tomorrow. At this point I have a longer medication list at 22 years old than most of the elderly people I worked with as a nursing student :lol:
Not sure how severe this cortisol problem is but I guess I'll find out next Tuesday on my appointment to discuss the test results.
They're also ordering a scan of my brain on December 8th. Given the test results, they now think something is wrong with my pituitary gland in my brain.
Sometimes I feel like like I'm some sort of science experiment with everything that is horribly wrong in my body :smh: :lol:  
Damn man.stay up homie. I can just imagine that being very tiring.
 
Asked me to come over last night, but I made an excuse saying I couldn't. Asking me to come over again tonight, trying really hard to say no. Don't want her to feel bad about herself or anything, resisting free and new yambs is so damn difficult. The issue is that she's local so if I hit it won't be a one time thing. If you know you won't get caught, would you still do it. Anyone have experience with having a side chick ? And does it affect your relationship negatively ?
Make sure your main chick knows she's your top priority regardless of what you do in the streets. 
 
If you gotta ask then you clearly not about that life so don't bother. A real one woulda been all up in da side piece throat by now. Probably da type of papi that stops at yellow lights too eh? :smh:

:x :smh: Belgium Belgium one day you gonna look back on all of this and laugh at how strong youve become because of it.
 
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