to my NTers trying to get yambs ...

[tonelow]

Originally Posted by Young Handsome

Originally Posted by bruce negro

My NT Fam, it's all about pace. When you're texting her back immediately after every text she sends, always trying to continue the conversation even when there's a big lull, it just makes her feel like she's got you at her own pace. Which is boring. There's no mystery to it. To her, it seems like if she wanted to have you, all she'd have to do is snap her fingers. When you're at her pace all of the time, it's just you doing all of the work and she has nothing to work for, which would bore her, and if you're good looking, probably disappoint her.

My Advice: Don't rush so much to text back every time within five minutes. Treat her like any other female acquaintance-- which is what she probably is if you just met this girl recently and you're trying to run game. Run at your own pace, forget to text her back every now and then, if the conversation gets boring then say you have something else to do. Because you probably do. Give her a goal to works towards, and you become that much more enticing. It's not a game because she wants to get in your head and crush your dreams, it's a game because she wants to be with someone who isn't easy to get, that wouldn't jump at the chance of being with just any girl. She wants to think she's special, so if you put her through some trials or make her work for it, she'll want you that much more.

Why does it have to be like this though? Why do two people who get to know each other, who have alot in common, enjoy each others company still play games? When has it become lame to tell someone you like them?
     

Cuz this aint about love and all that mushy stuff, not yet at least. If you already have a certain connection with a chick and you both know you're into each other, then no you don't really have to worry about this. This is more for a girl you might've met once or twice and just trying to get to know them so you can set something up in the future. Let's face it, if the girl is cute she's gonna have wayyy more options than us, just look at instagram and twitter and see how many guys thirst over these chicks. It's sad but yes you do have to do certain things to set you apart from the rest of the dudes trying to get at her. Not texting back immediately is just a way of showing that you're interested but you don't NEED her. As was said before, make sure you do things at your own pace.   

 

[dipsetgeneral]

Originally Posted by rmK

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Originally Posted by EcruteakCityBoy

i hate the texting game. absolutely hate it. .. childish

Co-signing this..

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Were playing the texting game right now as well, and we haven't hungout yet.

u srs?

cmon man

Yeah i'm quite serious 

SHAWTY LOOKS GOOD THOUGH!

 

[bruce negro]

Originally Posted by Young Handsome

Originally Posted by bruce negro

My NT Fam, it's all about pace. When you're texting her back immediately after every text she sends, always trying to continue the conversation even when there's a big lull, it just makes her feel like she's got you at her own pace. Which is boring. There's no mystery to it. To her, it seems like if she wanted to have you, all she'd have to do is snap her fingers. When you're at her pace all of the time, it's just you doing all of the work and she has nothing to work for, which would bore her, and if you're good looking, probably disappoint her.

My Advice: Don't rush so much to text back every time within five minutes. Treat her like any other female acquaintance-- which is what she probably is if you just met this girl recently and you're trying to run game. Run at your own pace, forget to text her back every now and then, if the conversation gets boring then say you have something else to do. Because you probably do. Give her a goal to works towards, and you become that much more enticing. It's not a game because she wants to get in your head and crush your dreams, it's a game because she wants to be with someone who isn't easy to get, that wouldn't jump at the chance of being with just any girl. She wants to think she's special, so if you put her through some trials or make her work for it, she'll want you that much more.

Why does it have to be like this though? Why do two people who get to know each other, who have alot in common, enjoy each others company still play games? When has it become lame to tell someone you like them?
     

When I first met my girl, I had zero plans to be serious with her. I thought she was cool, I wanted to know what she was about, but it wasn't in my mind that we were going to be a serious, talking-about-marriage couple. She felt the same way. There was definitely a mutual attraction, we definitely liked each other in terms of looks and basic ideals/personality, but we weren't looking to be joined at the hip, star-crossed lovers or anything. Sure, we held a mutual attraction, but if I started throwing myself at her telling her she could just have me whenever she wanted, I'm sure she would have been put off. Why? Because it would've seemed like I was ready for a big commitment, when she wasn't sure if she wanted that herself. Also, what's the rush? It might have come off as slight desperation, which is suspicious IMO. "Taking things slow" doesn't mean it should take 3 months to date someone, but it does mean that the pace of everything should be relaxed and easy-going. People need time to test the waters, so they're gonna feel put-off if you're just trying to push them in. 

 

[keif sweat]

Originally Posted by Smedroc

Originally Posted by jbpkickz

ricky409 wrote:

edit: rule 2

fap before any decision that includes her if you havent had sex yet.

real life

realest talk ever.

if you cant think of said girl without the

or

face 10mins post nut. you really want no parts of that

So y'all really do this @+%%?

 

[jewseejay]

Originally Posted by rmK

Originally Posted by EcruteakCityBoy

i hate the texting game. absolutely hate it. .. childish

It is a god send to those of us that hate talking on the phone tho

both of these oddly enough

 

[ihust1e]

Originally Posted by CJ863

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Originally Posted by EcruteakCityBoy

i hate the texting game. absolutely hate it. .. childish

Co-signing this..
I got a question though.

Some Dominican chick gave her friend her number to give to me, but we text every once in a while. She asks her friends about my whereabouts all the time and how sexy I am etc.

Were playing the texting game right now as well, and we haven't hungout yet. She flaked on me one time after telling me she was goin' to come to the library to chill wit' me. What do I do?

Im crying

 

[tr1ll]

Originally Posted by Keif Sweat

Originally Posted by Smedroc

Originally Posted by jbpkickz



real life

realest talk ever.

if you cant think of said girl without the

or

face 10mins post nut. you really want no parts of that

So y'all really do this @+%%?

You got a BM?

 

[young handsome]

good points bruce negro and tonelow...

I just feel like treating a woman "right" will not get you the yambs...

"I saw love in the eyes of a perfect stranger, she overlooked my caring heart in search of a gangsta."

 

[north dade represent]

This last page had a couple jewels on it. Yall young cats need to listen up. Hell, I need to take notes myself.

 

[ebay dostres]

I always fap before going out to the club/casino or go out with a female because I wanna make sure I can put out for a good amount of time

 

[regal black]

Originally Posted by gllahone84

Chick texted me this past Sunday talking about Happy Easter...no response was given.

Call me about something real and then we can proceed from there.

I called on Thursday, and she decides to text me on Sunday.

Nope.

cancel that

 

[oidreez]

Originally Posted by Young Handsome

Originally Posted by bruce negro

My NT Fam, it's all about pace. When you're texting her back immediately after every text she sends, always trying to continue the conversation even when there's a big lull, it just makes her feel like she's got you at her own pace. Which is boring. There's no mystery to it. To her, it seems like if she wanted to have you, all she'd have to do is snap her fingers. When you're at her pace all of the time, it's just you doing all of the work and she has nothing to work for, which would bore her, and if you're good looking, probably disappoint her.

My Advice: Don't rush so much to text back every time within five minutes. Treat her like any other female acquaintance-- which is what she probably is if you just met this girl recently and you're trying to run game. Run at your own pace, forget to text her back every now and then, if the conversation gets boring then say you have something else to do. Because you probably do. Give her a goal to works towards, and you become that much more enticing. It's not a game because she wants to get in your head and crush your dreams, it's a game because she wants to be with someone who isn't easy to get, that wouldn't jump at the chance of being with just any girl. She wants to think she's special, so if you put her through some trials or make her work for it, she'll want you that much more.

Why does it have to be like this though? Why do two people who get to know each other, who have alot in common, enjoy each others company still play games? When has it become lame to tell someone you like them?
     

because they're women

 

[ricky409]

yall can hate the texting game all you want. but girls go more options than you do famb. that's just the way it is.

you call it games... we call it "tactful execution"

plus, i'm a young black 22 year old that's trying to build my retirement fund, save for an MBA degree, dont tweet, no tattoos and like motorcycles. i'm not into spending my money on certain things now cuz i dont got it like that.

girls my age in my region into being seen in someone's whip, twitter stars, mr wrong, dope boys etc etc...

i have to have tactful execution fambs... exhibiting less thirst is just the foundation.

that baseball analogy, doe...

 

[solefood229]

Dese +%%$#+* got 3 options +#%$, suck, or buck


I ain't really down with kicking the Bobo thru text with these chick's

I usually warm up them up with a lil text, then after that I'm trying to chop they head off with this mouth piece


Fellas PLEASE STOP SENDING THESE CHICKS GOOD MORNING AND GOOD NIGHT TEXT, THAT +#%$ IS EXTRA LAME

 

[ricky409]

Originally Posted by solefood229

Dese +%%$#+* got 3 options +#%$, suck, or buck


I ain't really down with kicking the Bobo thru text with these chick's

I usually warm up them up with a lil text, then after that I'm trying to chop they head off with this mouth piece

no dambs given, famb...

 

saved myself a week of nonsense... prolly could have got it but i aint trippin...

 

[36 ounces]

Woooow, u actually texted that......

 

[shoeking2101]

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by solefood229

Dese +%%$#+* got 3 options +#%$, suck, or buck


I ain't really down with kicking the Bobo thru text with these chick's

I usually warm up them up with a lil text, then after that I'm trying to chop they head off with this mouth piece

no dambs given, famb...

 

saved myself a week of nonsense... prolly could have got it but i aint trippin…

Yolo

 

[me no pass]

Originally Posted by Keif Sweat

Originally Posted by Smedroc

Originally Posted by jbpkickz



real life

realest talk ever.

if you cant think of said girl without the

or

face 10mins post nut. you really want no parts of that

So y'all really do this @+%%?

YES..it works wonders

Originally Posted by Young Handsome


good points bruce negro and tonelow...

I just feel like treating a woman "right" will not get you the yambs...

"I saw love in the eyes of a perfect stranger, she overlooked my caring heart in search of a gangsta."

Originally Posted by oidreez

Originally Posted by Young Handsome

Originally Posted by bruce negro

My NT Fam, it's all about pace. When you're texting her back immediately after every text she sends, always trying to continue the conversation even when there's a big lull, it just makes her feel like she's got you at her own pace. Which is boring. There's no mystery to it. To her, it seems like if she wanted to have you, all she'd have to do is snap her fingers. When you're at her pace all of the time, it's just you doing all of the work and she has nothing to work for, which would bore her, and if you're good looking, probably disappoint her.

My Advice: Don't rush so much to text back every time within five minutes. Treat her like any other female acquaintance-- which is what she probably is if you just met this girl recently and you're trying to run game. Run at your own pace, forget to text her back every now and then, if the conversation gets boring then say you have something else to do. Because you probably do. Give her a goal to works towards, and you become that much more enticing. It's not a game because she wants to get in your head and crush your dreams, it's a game because she wants to be with someone who isn't easy to get, that wouldn't jump at the chance of being with just any girl. She wants to think she's special, so if you put her through some trials or make her work for it, she'll want you that much more.

Why does it have to be like this though? Why do two people who get to know each other, who have alot in common, enjoy each others company still play games? When has it become lame to tell someone you like them?
     

because they're women

there it is...this recently happened to me..texting back and forth with a chick from class, thought it was all good...WRONG!

if i could do it all over again i wouldve have missed a few texts...ignored her more...texted back alot slower

o well

 

[dipsetgeneral]

Originally Posted by shoeking2101

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by solefood229

Dese +%%$#+* got 3 options +#%$, suck, or buck


I ain't really down with kicking the Bobo thru text with these chick's

I usually warm up them up with a lil text, then after that I'm trying to chop they head off with this mouth piece

no dambs given, famb...

 

saved myself a week of nonsense... prolly could have got it but i aint trippin…

Yolo

The girl didn't even respond to him askin' "You had class today?".
How rude is that?! I don't blame homie for textin' THAT to her.

 

[stackjaxx]

Originally Posted by ricky409

Originally Posted by solefood229

Dese +%%$#+* got 3 options +#%$, suck, or buck


I ain't really down with kicking the Bobo thru text with these chick's

I usually warm up them up with a lil text, then after that I'm trying to chop they head off with this mouth piece

no dambs given, famb...

 

saved myself a week of nonsense... prolly could have got it but i aint trippin...

 

[shorty doo wop]

Just throw in "ya friends aint got to know"
see wat happens

 

[ham city]

ricky you straight but you should of gave her the real at 3:30pm instead of after later that evening.

After you asked a simple question and got no response there was 0 chance. 

 

[Peep Game]

damb ricky

You may as well should walked into a club and say that same thing to 15 different females, and just see what happens

 

[regal black]

Originally Posted by DipsetGeneral

Originally Posted by shoeking2101

Originally Posted by ricky409

no dambs given, famb...

 

saved myself a week of nonsense... prolly could have got it but i aint trippin…

Yolo

The girl didn't even respond to him askin' "You had class today?".
How rude is that?! I don't blame homie for textin' THAT to her.

man its little things like that pretty much tells you what she thinks about you. Trust me, she had time to at least reply back.  I don't blame him for sending that message.

 

[ham city]

Originally Posted by Peep Game

damb ricky

You may as well should walked into a club and say that same thing to 15 different females, and just see what happens

Dude on a college campus I bet you could send that text to every female in your contacts list and come out batting a cool .280 or so.