TruthGetsBusy's Relationship and Personal Improvement Advice Thread

Originally Posted by swishasweets

All right ill play, ive been getting girls numbers left and right but after about five days in knowing them i dont feel like hitting them up anymore...

I.E. I wanted to smash the girl i went to prom with (something bad as well) and after about a week i didnt even think about her when i fapped..

OP whats the deal?

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OP, I have random questions pertaining to you:

1. Are you married? If so, how early do you think is too early?
2. What's your favorite flavor of sobe life water and/or vitamin water?
 
Originally Posted by swishasweets

All right ill play, ive been getting girls numbers left and right but after about five days in knowing them i dont feel like hitting them up anymore...

I.E. I wanted to smash the girl i went to prom with (something bad as well) and after about a week i didnt even think about her when i fapped..

OP whats the deal?

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OP, I have random questions pertaining to you:

1. Are you married? If so, how early do you think is too early?
2. What's your favorite flavor of sobe life water and/or vitamin water?
 
yes when you meet new people you should always assume that they have options. Alot of dudes meet a chick and assume shes an angel and build her up to be something shes not. That leads to big time simp activities. Then when the guy gets friendzoned or hears about another dude smashing or even just dating they get mad. Why? Don't set yourself up to be disappointed. When you meet a chick assume she has options and me myself I assume shes a jump and then through a series of tests I find out if its true. By tests I mean through convos, body language, her friends, and responses to me getting physical I can judge to see what type of chick she is. You gotta respectfully push the envelope with these woman to show them you arent a sucker. Its a win-win basically....if shes a jump you get the bunz and if shes a good girl you got a good foundation.
 
yes when you meet new people you should always assume that they have options. Alot of dudes meet a chick and assume shes an angel and build her up to be something shes not. That leads to big time simp activities. Then when the guy gets friendzoned or hears about another dude smashing or even just dating they get mad. Why? Don't set yourself up to be disappointed. When you meet a chick assume she has options and me myself I assume shes a jump and then through a series of tests I find out if its true. By tests I mean through convos, body language, her friends, and responses to me getting physical I can judge to see what type of chick she is. You gotta respectfully push the envelope with these woman to show them you arent a sucker. Its a win-win basically....if shes a jump you get the bunz and if shes a good girl you got a good foundation.
 
Originally Posted by mytmouse76

you still thinkin about marrying that girl popcorn?
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no.
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i won't be getting married until I'm financially stable at least.

i actually haven't really been thinking about it recently because after I talked to her about it, she quit bringing it up. I just thought of it because of a futrama episode i just saw and was like "hmmm."
 
Originally Posted by mytmouse76

you still thinkin about marrying that girl popcorn?
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no.
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i won't be getting married until I'm financially stable at least.

i actually haven't really been thinking about it recently because after I talked to her about it, she quit bringing it up. I just thought of it because of a futrama episode i just saw and was like "hmmm."
 
Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by damnitzdom

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Real question btw.
For real, i just end up repressing my feelings and imagine that she's a burner and/or smash.  To this day it makes no sense to me, i think only marriage would cure that for me. (no intention of getting married anytime soon)


And that's it jerry is ignored, dude is absolutely worthless.

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Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by damnitzdom

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Real question btw.
For real, i just end up repressing my feelings and imagine that she's a burner and/or smash.  To this day it makes no sense to me, i think only marriage would cure that for me. (no intention of getting married anytime soon)


And that's it jerry is ignored, dude is absolutely worthless.

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Originally Posted by JFMartiMcDandruff

do black chicks like asian dudes? Specifically, Filipino?

i got a filipino friend who pulls mad amounts of black females but he's the type that hangs out with black guys. (a dance team) so um do you hang with black people?
 
Originally Posted by JFMartiMcDandruff

do black chicks like asian dudes? Specifically, Filipino?

i got a filipino friend who pulls mad amounts of black females but he's the type that hangs out with black guys. (a dance team) so um do you hang with black people?
 
I know im not the only one but after i have been with a chick for some time i start noticing things that push me away from her. Like last person i was with had a bigger than average nose and i couldnt settle down because of that. But her friend was
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I know im not the only one but after i have been with a chick for some time i start noticing things that push me away from her. Like last person i was with had a bigger than average nose and i couldnt settle down because of that. But her friend was
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Originally Posted by JFMartiMcDandruff

do black chicks like asian dudes? Specifically, Filipino?

A few of my black girlfriends like Asian guys, ESPECIALLY Filipino. A lot of them have issues actually talking to Filipino guys though, because they're usually around the same height and some girls are thrown off by that.
 
Originally Posted by JFMartiMcDandruff

do black chicks like asian dudes? Specifically, Filipino?

A few of my black girlfriends like Asian guys, ESPECIALLY Filipino. A lot of them have issues actually talking to Filipino guys though, because they're usually around the same height and some girls are thrown off by that.
 
Originally Posted by damnitzdom

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by damnitzdom

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Real question btw.
For real, i just end up repressing my feelings and imagine that she's a burner and/or smash.  To this day it makes no sense to me, i think only marriage would cure that for me. (no intention of getting married anytime soon)


And that's it jerry is ignored, dude is absolutely worthless.

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First how old are you?  This is not a good thing.  Maybe you're not getting that attention from other places.  How are your other relationships in life family, friends, and co-workers?  You shouldn't be falling in love with chicks cuz they are nice to  you.  I think you need to get out and interact more with people not just woman and you will see some changes.  You should try doing things like talking to the cashiers at a store when buying something.  Dont be that loner emotional guy because no girl is gonna go for that. 
 
Originally Posted by damnitzdom

Originally Posted by Mark Antony

Originally Posted by damnitzdom

eternal_sunshine.jpg


Real question btw.
For real, i just end up repressing my feelings and imagine that she's a burner and/or smash.  To this day it makes no sense to me, i think only marriage would cure that for me. (no intention of getting married anytime soon)


And that's it jerry is ignored, dude is absolutely worthless.

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First how old are you?  This is not a good thing.  Maybe you're not getting that attention from other places.  How are your other relationships in life family, friends, and co-workers?  You shouldn't be falling in love with chicks cuz they are nice to  you.  I think you need to get out and interact more with people not just woman and you will see some changes.  You should try doing things like talking to the cashiers at a store when buying something.  Dont be that loner emotional guy because no girl is gonna go for that. 
 
Originally Posted by DanzInRealLife

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Originally Posted by TruthGetsBusy

Alot of you women bashers kill me...so ya'll think every chick will cheat? You must be doing it wrong then....maybe ya'll need to look at the women you choose to start relationships with. Why would you entertain being with a woman you couldnt trust? You just setting up yourself for failure. If you choose a woman with morals and self respect then her cheating might be your fault. Look in the mirror first....


that
Pretty much.

If you guys have that mindset you could miss out on a good woman.

  

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