WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT MY STEPDAD?

[sooperhooper]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by sooperhooper

Are you on meds? Seeing any doctors? Is an attorney handling your claim?

I'm on meds. I'm seeing a psychiatrist and a doctor. My claim was denied but I went to the hearing (which was judged fully favorable) alone. I have a question for you, on my denial letter it states "If at any time in the future you think you qualify for payment, please contact us immediately about filing a new application. The earliest month for which we can pay you is the month after you file a new claim." Doesn't this mean that I won't get back pay? It clearly states so, but I thought we get back pay from the time the first application was filed?

Eh, it gets tricky with backpay. Tomorrow I'll ask some people with a little more experience than me how backpay works and when it's applicable.

 

[tomdiginson]

Your situation sounds messed up Op. Don't do anything you will regret. Bide your time there and hopefully your SSI goes through, focus on getting your career. In life nothing good comes easy.

 

[ebay dostres]

Flex on him, Im serious step up and tell him to piss off. You've done nothing to him for him to be jerk off.

 

[Original Playa Records]

You're bi polar.

Leave that man along before you end up at an mhra facility.

 

[jt air jt]

Originally Posted by VoidEmperor

Just stomp him and just say he provoked you and you freaked because of your disability. problem solved

Signs and symptoms of paranoid schizophrenia may include:

Auditory hallucinations, such as hearing voices
Delusions, such as believing a co-worker wants to poison you
Anxiety
Anger
Emotional distance
Violence
Argumentativeness
Self-important or condescending manner
Suicidal thoughts and behavior

I don't want to end up in a mental health facility. But sometimes, I think about killing this ##%@% and running off to like Japan or the Philippines.

Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby

Your childhood seemed pretty troubling

When were you diagnosed with Schizophrenia?



Please dont kill him, reading the whole thread I dont think I should have said that 

It started like 2009 when I was smoking like an ounce of weed a week.

 

[ill steelo]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by milestailsprowe

Ok is this more then him calling you a gago? Does he teat your mom right?

He used to beat me up when I was like 6-10. I wanted to fight him but I didn't want to go to a foster home. And I wanted to call the police but I didn't want my little sister and brother to go to foster homes. He always yells/talks $%*# about my mom. He beat her up too a couple of years ago.

I would've been hired somebody to beat him to within an inch of his life. Get on that b. Make sure homie is masked

 

[kickstart]

Move out

 

[jt air jt]

Originally Posted by kickstart

Move out

I'm trying to. The only way to move out right now is if I move in with my girlfriend. I'll be getting a lot of *@!*% but I'll get a lot of ********, too. And I don't want to go there with her.

 

[k town trash]

surprised no one posted nas gif.

 

[epidemik the great]

you should've been showing dominance once you became bigger than him...just smack him...one time...HARD...i don't think anybody will call the cops on you for that...he'll hold his cheek and look at you like a battered wife and quiver his top lip...stand over him and yell LOUD...let him know the next time he disrespects you or your family will be his last...

 

[trueprada]

dont get caught listening to some of these peoples advice just be cool man

 

[thunderchunk69]

tell him that you're saving your vagina

 

[shoefreakbaby]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by kickstart

Move out

I'm trying to. The only way to move out right now is if I move in with my girlfriend. I'll be getting a lot of *@!*% but I'll get a lot of ********, too. And I don't want to go there with her.

Dont move in with her, you will become a burden to each other and she will probably will be pregnant within a couple of months.
Dont want to add that to your list of baggage right now.

Tell a family member(aunt, uncle) to talk to your mother about your stepdad.

 

[onewearz]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by trak1sh

Maybe you're just a punk kid?

For what? I didn't do anything.

this made me laugh

 

[nikekid6]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by thachosen123

What's a gago

it's tagalog for someone stupid, a moron, etc. At least I think so.

someone finally asked

 

[slicknick951]

if he leaves will your mother be able to take care of your brother and sister?
Are you willing to step up and do what you have to do to be the man of the house?

Don't let your disability be the reason you cant be a function member of society. Find something you like to do that calms our mind and find a way to make some money doing it. Dont ruin your life, his life and your siblings life. You have been dealing with it for years so use your anger to get your stuff together and move out.

 

[sk8eddunks]

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

tell him that you're saving your vagina

shots fired!

 

[imstillmike]

Originally Posted by Sk8edDunks

Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69

tell him that you're saving your vagina

shots fired!

 

[sk8eddunks]

Try this.... get a job, move out, and support yourself. Then maybe he won't cal you names and get you mad...

 

[solarius49]

2 random questions OP

1. Are you in San Diego?

2. Is your step dad in the Navy?

I only ask because there is a LARGE number of Filipino men in the Navy, and the older ones seem to have a certain attitude about them

 

[naturalylight]

didn't read the last few pages honestly, but you are disabled and it keeps you from working but you can still stomp someone out?

 

[sk8eddunks]

Originally Posted by NaturalyLight

didn't read the last few pages honestly, but you are disabled and it keeps you from working but you can still stomp someone out?

with a criminal record too?

 

[jt air jt]

Originally Posted by solarius49

2 random questions OP

1. Are you in San Diego?

2. Is your step dad in the Navy?

I only ask because there is a LARGE number of Filipino men in the Navy, and the older ones seem to have a certain attitude about them

1. Nope.
2. Nope.

Originally Posted by NaturalyLight

didn't read the last few pages honestly, but you are disabled and it keeps you from working but you can still stomp someone out?

I have paranoid schizophrenia. It doesn't inhibit me from bodying him. Guess you shoulda read the last few pages, huh?

 

[naturalylight]

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by solarius49

2 random questions OP

1. Are you in San Diego?

2. Is your step dad in the Navy?

I only ask because there is a LARGE number of Filipino men in the Navy, and the older ones seem to have a certain attitude about them

1. Nope.



2. Nope.

Originally Posted by NaturalyLight

didn't read the last few pages honestly, but you are disabled and it keeps you from working but you can still stomp someone out?

I have paranoid schizophrenia. It doesn't inhibit me from bodying him. Guess you shoulda read the last few pages, huh?

nah, you just making excuses for why you have no job and why you are a grown man getting sonned by a a dude who has casual sex with your mom. but okay. 

 

[jt air jt]

Originally Posted by NaturalyLight

Originally Posted by JT AIR JT

Originally Posted by solarius49

2 random questions OP

1. Are you in San Diego?

2. Is your step dad in the Navy?

I only ask because there is a LARGE number of Filipino men in the Navy, and the older ones seem to have a certain attitude about them

1. Nope.



2. Nope.

Originally Posted by NaturalyLight

didn't read the last few pages honestly, but you are disabled and it keeps you from working but you can still stomp someone out?

I have paranoid schizophrenia. It doesn't inhibit me from bodying him. Guess you shoulda read the last few pages, huh?

nah, you just making excuses for why you have no job and why you are a grown man getting sonned by a a dude who has casual sex with your mom. but okay.