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what did he even mean by that?
Pumpkins? Like you guys were a carriage?
Makes no sense.
I'm saying though. I don't eem know where son was going with that insult.
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what did he even mean by that?
Pumpkins? Like you guys were a carriage?
Makes no sense.
I dont see the blatant racism up there doe..
No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.
So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.
He didn't choke him He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.
Then here comes the ignorance Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him
According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.you spitting at people but complaining about being disrespected...
so spitting at someone is okay to you?According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.
Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
Damn.No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.
So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.
He didn't choke him He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.
Then here comes the ignorance Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him
THIS. I feel like SFB has to be trolling with that comment. Especially since they went out of their way to place it as a solitary paragraph so nobody could miss it.
Sometimew when you're a conscientious person it gets to be too much. If you generally live by a set of rules and principles on how to treat people, try to be aware of your space and surroundings, you're doing something to better yourself, etc you are probably fairly sensitive to the needs of others. That sensitivity can backfire if one of your principles is violated. I get that impression from OP, especially since it's still on his conscience and he made this post. If he was truly that aggressive he wouldn't give it a second thought. Would probably go back to the same subway the next day and try to punk dude for extra cheese no charge.
I had similar ep a few years ago. I'll preface it by saying this... I was bent. Walking home from the bar. It's no excuse but it explains my hypersensitivity and my lapse in judgement. Me and wifey are crossing the street and before we get the other foot off the curb this car speeds up and cuts us off in the crosswalk so he didn't have to wait for us to cross. Traffic was backed up crazy, he was gettin in there for a good minute anyway. Wifey cursed at him and flipped him off and walked behind the car.
My dumb *** walks around the front of the car, stops, and double-fist hulk-smashed the hood of his car. Dude looked exactly like "I feel sorry for your mother..." He rolls his window down and shouts out something to me. I walk back up like "oh I KNOW this dude ain't just roll his window down on me..." We get to jawing back and forth while I'm standing at his window, and he just says something like "You stupid!" I don't know why that pushed my buttons but in the blink of an eye I literally kufi smacked him. Like 2 seconds before he had on a hat. I just remember the sound of my hand upside the back of his head and when I looked his hat was gone. Dude just got quiet and shook. Some nosey dude tried to take a pic all stealth, but when I looked at him he just tucked his phone and walked off.
The driver just sat in his car staring at the steering wheel say "I sorry. I sorry". I walked off. Wifey was shook the whole way home. Thought someone called the cops, I said it was like a 20 second exchange. We got home and she went straight to bed. Said she was scared to talk to me. Like I hit her or something.
Once I got home and calmed down I felt bad. Dude was wrong for driving that way but I let my emotions and Hennessey get the best of me. I feel bad but I'd like to think if any good came of it, is that dude is more careful around crosswalks now trying to avoid another nutjob like myself. He legit almost hit us. If it was kids there they'd have gotten hit he gave no dambs.
No. Not really. It'd really depend on the situation but going off his story that wasn't one of them.According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.
Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
so spitting at someone is okay to you?
you spitting at people but complaining about being disrespected...
Exactly, I didn't see the correlation at all but I took it as disrespect. Like how was I supposed to take that given the situation? I hope he meant itwhat did he even mean by that?
Pumpkins? Like you guys were a carriage?
Makes no sense.
I say this with all due respect SFB, but please ****.
Like I said before you know when someone is talking greazy to you. In fact I actually took courses on verbal and nonverbal language but besides having that knowledge if your raised in a big diverse city like NYC then you know what people are really trying to say when they say something.
Thanks for the generalization that I also beat girls. I wanna say your one of the intelligent female posters on NT...but with comments like this I rather not.
For those wondering what I do for a job, I have no job at the moment because i'm between semesters of graduate school for speech-language pathology.
I've already made up my mind on this situation. I'm not going back there, and i'm def. not issuing no ******* apology. Out your god damn mind. I realize I shouldn't have let the comment get to me like that but what's done is done. I learned from it from reflecting on it and it's time to move on.
I'll do better next time. I practice Zazen. It says to be authentically who you are and in that situation I was. To be honest even though the collar grab was bad i'm glad I caught myself and let go so quick. People making it out to seem I legit choked the guy.
No he didn't mean it in an encouraging way if he did when OP said to run that by him again he would've said what he said again and elaborated instead of nothing and telling him to leave.
So the **** what if it was a snarky joke? I'm tired of ppl using the word snarky as a pass to be disrespectful like it's some new trendy word that should be accepted at all.
He didn't choke him He grabbed him by the collar and it was nothing wrong about it. Some ppl just need to be checked.
Then here comes the ignorance Now you're accusing him of being amongst a group of abusers AND assuming he's black. Says a whole lot more about you than him
According to his story he spat in dude after he felt he was disrespected.
Granted I know to many spitting on another person is like the highest form of disrespect (and is categorized as assault in some states).
so spitting at someone is okay to you?