Why Are So Many Successful Black Women Unmarried?

[38816]

i hear aids and homosexuality is pretty high in atlanta as well....

 

[cobra kai]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

i hear aids and homosexuality is pretty high in atlanta as well....

Isn't keithahundred from atlanta?

This thread is very good though, few laughs+some seriousness.

 

[sreggie101]

Originally Posted by MissKickBack

These women need to find cyber love or move out of Atlanta.

thats more like it...

 

[sreggie101]

Originally Posted by dapimpjuice4ya

Originally Posted by DatZNasty

Well black dudes put out more songs !#+*@+## on black women than vice versa. It's basically the foundation of an entire genre really. These topics always
crack me up since black women as a whole are more successful than black men but men got this aura like their %$#% don't stink where they're always
talking them down like they're too good; %%!#!* live in 9 x 9 square foot apartments and work at Macy's talking bout how they can't mess with any
black woman unless she's this, that, and the other and passes all these benchmarks like they're a real catch

But this one hasn't been as bad as past ones.

That's been my point forever!!! I never could understand this; dudes like to act like they are easy on the eyes talking about they need a Halle Berry type chick. Even dudes on NT are like this. I swear ya'll will dissect a picture of a chick and pick out the smallest flaw on a woman and act like this makes her the most unattractive woman alive. I saw this for my own eyes in the Bria Myles thread. You dudes want a dime for a wife that can cook, clean, and the whole nine when you aren't even bringing half of that to the table.

listen don't put blame on the dudes. cuz if i'm not mistaken its you girls who are struggling out there not the dudes. if you "successful"girls require a six figure job, a 4.0 gpa as well as lookin like i dunno denzel (or whatever u girls think is attractive these days) then RIP.

as for the fellas, i think most can agree if you ladies ain't operating like this

then

 

[th0mas cr0wn]

I want to go to ATL

 

[throwedindagame]

Originally Posted by sreggie101

Originally Posted by dapimpjuice4ya

Originally Posted by DatZNasty

Well black dudes put out more songs !#+*@+## on black women than vice versa. It's basically the foundation of an entire genre really. These topics always
crack me up since black women as a whole are more successful than black men but men got this aura like their %$#% don't stink where they're always
talking them down like they're too good; %%!#!* live in 9 x 9 square foot apartments and work at Macy's talking bout how they can't mess with any
black woman unless she's this, that, and the other and passes all these benchmarks like they're a real catch

But this one hasn't been as bad as past ones.

That's been my point forever!!! I never could understand this; dudes like to act like they are easy on the eyes talking about they need a Halle Berry type chick. Even dudes on NT are like this. I swear ya'll will dissect a picture of a chick and pick out the smallest flaw on a woman and act like this makes her the most unattractive woman alive. I saw this for my own eyes in the Bria Myles thread. You dudes want a dime for a wife that can cook, clean, and the whole nine when you aren't even bringing half of that to the table.

listen don't put blame on the dudes. cuz if i'm not mistaken its you girls who are struggling out there not the dudes. if you "successful" girls require a six figure job, a 4.0 gpa as well as lookin like i dunno denzel (or whatever u girls think is attractive these days) then RIP.

as for the fellas, i think most can agree if you ladies ain't operating like this

then

Chicks checking for GPA?

Yes

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by jimmybeanz

Originally Posted by Nike Star Jay

A combination of high unrealistic standards and a slim choice of options.

fixed. for a woman to say she will only date dudes that are 6'4 or better (and other dumb chit like that) is ridiculous. too many people are getting "standards" confused with "preferences".

Truth

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Originally Posted by CryingFreemancoa

not enough successful brothas

Woman please... Not enough successful black men that fit your preferences is more like it...

 

[inheritedhornet]

Im not waiting around for black men. Interracial dating for the win. Broaden my options!

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

The thing is, many of the women that have great jobs and are on the right path PROFESSIONALLY are still regular people. The majority of people aren't catches in terms of relationship compatibility.

These high $ earning women seem to think they have all of their stuff together and that is not the truth. Some of them are still headcases, some of them still don't know how to allow a man to be a man, some of them still don't have respect for black men in general. Remember the black community is highly comprised of single parent households.

A lot of these woman have NEVER had a black male in their life that they respected. They might have had men that they have LOVED, but respected? Not many even understand what it means to have respect for a black male. Their mothers poisoned their minds as kids, so they see their mother bad mouth men, have different men in and out of their lives, what do you think they will grow up to do?

That is why some dudes have a prerequisite for dating black women. "If they weren't raised by a mother AND a father, I won't deal with them." And that makes sense to me. YES you might miss out on someone qualified that was raised by only a mother, but we miss out on good folks all of the time for various preferences we have.

I will end with this. If I am a woman, and every dude I meet it NEVER works out, how does it make sense for me to think it is the dude(s) fault?

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by Uptown Roamer

SOME Black men are intimidated by a successful, independent Black woman...

This is bull man. Seriously, it is bull. No disrespect but it seems that you have had a black woman force these views upon you. I have NEVER heard a man make a statement like this. Only women make this statement. It is bull.

Black men don't feel like DEALING with a woman that isn't cooperative, has an attitude, and doesn't allow him to be a man.

That is what black men (that are worth anything) don't feel like dealing with.

Again, black women )in general) don't respect black men.

DCAllAmerican Shut this thread down with truth a LONG time ago...

 

[harlemkickdiva]

some of ya'll are so full of $#+!, a septic tank couldn't hold all of it

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by jimmybeanz

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Originally Posted by haiti5

Honestly, lets keep it real man.nobody is discussing the root of these relationship problems. What happened to the black family?! in the 1950s and 1960s we was good..then all of a sudden you see black men drifting away from their black families and black women becoming these scorned angry creatures. @$%! seriously.

that's a big part of it. So many women dont even know how to react when a decent guy comes along cuz they've never seen a relationship between and good man and a good woman. I think some of these women feel they shouldn't have to lower their standards as fas as what he does and how much money he makes because they've worked so hard to get where they are. Women across the board generally marry up and men marry down as far as status goes.

i'm glad you said that, myt. men have married down since forever. now that women are able to make (almost) as much money as a man, why can't THEY marry down? if we're both college educated, but you make $100,000 and i make $45,000, what's the problem? and i don't want to hear that "men can't stand women making more than them" cop-out.

WHY DO SUCCESSFUL MEN HAVE TO "SETTLE" FOR WOMEN MAKING SEVERAL TIMES LESS THAN THEM, BUT WOMEN DON'T???

Interesting assessment, and I only say that because for many cases, a woman who is making $100,000 will not give a man who is making $60,000 the time of day,let alone anything less than that. I'm all for marrying people regardless of how much they are making financially, but be reallistic in how specificgenders looks at those situations...

Basically said, a woman making $100,000 is most likely going to look for a man making $150,000 and ignore any decent man making $50,000

 

[jaypesoz]

Originally Posted by TH0MAS CR0WN

I want to go to ATL

that's what I thought to. Took me less than 2 months to decide I wanted to leave. Not much diversity in women

 

[ronj23]

Originally Posted by Cobra Kai

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

i hear aids and homosexuality is pretty high in atlanta as well....

Isn't keithahundred from atlanta?

Keith = Atlanta

Atlanta = AIDS + Homosexual

Keith = AIDS + Homosexual ??

 

[ramzs8906]

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

 

[ronj23]

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

shut yo lame self up.

if you want to have a intellectual discussion, then take yo *!# to class or somethin

 

[sreggie101]

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

shut yo lame self up.

if you want to have a intellectual discussion, then take yo *!@ to class or somethin

 

[ronj23]

Originally Posted by sreggie101

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

shut yo lame self up.

if you want to have a intellectual discussion, then take yo *!@ to class or somethin

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by sreggie101

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

shut yo lame self up.

if you want to have a intellectual discussion, then take yo *!@ to class or somethin

Typical thing an NTer searching for LULz and failing miserably would say. This whole thread was good without your lame attempts at being funny. Carry on, youaren't funny.

 

[ninjallamafromhell]

Originally Posted by inheritedhornet

Im not waiting around for black men. Interracial dating for the win. Broaden my options!

Yay there's hope!

 

[ronj23]

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by sreggie101

Originally Posted by ronj23

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

^And this is why good discussions on NT get sidetracked...

shut yo lame self up.

if you want to have a intellectual discussion, then take yo *!@ to class or somethin

Typical thing an NTer searching for LULz and failing miserably would say. This whole thread was good without your lame attempts at being funny. Carry on, you aren't funny.

if you resort to using NT to have your intellectual discussions, then you need to upgrade the quality of the ducation you are hopefully receiving. you alsomight try to upgrade the quality of people you surround yourself with. just some suggestions on better ways to have good discussions about his issue.

im sure you have some extra secret greek life that you have to be doing...

oh wait im not supposed to talk about that.

 

[trapmuzik617]

 

[justscoreda100]

Originally Posted by HarlemKickDiva

some of ya'll are so full of $#+!, a septic tank couldn't hold all of it

care to elaborate?

 

[dirtylicious]

ronj23 -
TEAM YOU'RE NOT SMASHING POSTING for 1 month

 

[nawth21]

DAMN got done dirty

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by JayPesoz

Originally Posted by TH0MAS CR0WN

I want to go to ATL

that's what I thought to. Took me less than 2 months to decide I wanted to leave. Not much diversity in women

All want to be porn stars or vide "vixens" right?