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Would you marry anyone outside of your race ?? Interracial relationships Vol. 1
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hispanic girls FTW.
darth my dude whats going on?
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hispanic girls FTW.
darth my dude whats going on?
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no I believe marrying up means a successful Asian of the same group (Chinese/Korean) or if you have to marry outside of the race let them be white atleast. And white usually=economic success. Many asians are slaves to the American socioeconomic caste system. This definitely means no negros....not all are like this tho. This mentality is especially true of first generation foreign families from my observation. They have preconvieved notions of what it means to be black thanks to the media. I know quite a few of my asian friends parents that are progressive as hell tho.
Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Spot on Anton.
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no I believe marrying up means a successful Asian of the same group (Chinese/Korean) or if you have to marry outside of the race let them be white atleast. And white usually=economic success. Many asians are slaves to the American socioeconomic caste system. This definitely means no negros....not all are like this tho. This mentality is especially true of first generation foreign families from my observation. They have preconvieved notions of what it means to be black thanks to the media. I know quite a few of my asian friends parents that are progressive as hell tho.
Damnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Spot on Anton.
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I guess I'll post up my experience so far with talking to a FOB (Fresh Off the Boat) girl, if anyone is interested in that:
Right now I'm talking to a FOB Korean exchange student... It started by me walking up and asking her to tutor me, but I always thought she looked bad whenever I saw her around school, so that was definitely a big reason why I asked her in particular.
The language issue isn't really too bad. She just came to America in September and she'll only be here through the school year. I'm black, but I speak some Korean, so although sometimes we don't initially understand each other, we translate for each other when we have to and it's been going pretty smoothly. The key is not to necessarily speak slowly, but just at a moderate pace with clear pronunciation.
One thing about FOB Koreans-- and other FOB Asians-- is that they're pretty conservative. The Japanese actually have words which describe "in the house" attitude and "out of the house" attitude. I'm really used to things moving fast in my relationships, but this is going at a pretty smooth pace, which is a big change for me. But I also like that and appreciate it as well. If you're a person who likes to have sex by the second date (which I kinda was), you'll probably be disappointed. Just be patient.
We're both kind of reluctant for her to meet my parents because of the language barrier. Many black dudes know that some black families say, "If she's not black, she's white"... and in many families white is a big no. Mine included. I actually stay away from white girls, but I've been able to slide with Asian girls. I just don't want anyone to feel unnecessarily awkward if they finally do meet, so right now we've just been going out and having fun. I guess you just have to think about how you would feel if you were in THEIR country and hardly spoke their language... then trying to meet their parents.
Also, FOB girls usually don't like to date younger than them, at least this is my understanding. The girl I'm talking to is 22 and I'm 18, but it just takes strategy. In Korean the word for older sister is different if you're a guy than if you're a girl. If you're a guy, you call the older sister figure "noona". She tried to get me to call her that the first couple of times we hung out and I bluntly refused, just to drop a hint that I don't see her as I see a "sister".
Idk, if you don't know their language or you aren't trying to study it, you should probably stay away from FOB girls.
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Right now I'm talking to a FOB Korean exchange student... It started by me walking up and asking her to tutor me, but I always thought she looked bad whenever I saw her around school, so that was definitely a big reason why I asked her in particular.
The language issue isn't really too bad. She just came to America in September and she'll only be here through the school year. I'm black, but I speak some Korean, so although sometimes we don't initially understand each other, we translate for each other when we have to and it's been going pretty smoothly. The key is not to necessarily speak slowly, but just at a moderate pace with clear pronunciation.
One thing about FOB Koreans-- and other FOB Asians-- is that they're pretty conservative. The Japanese actually have words which describe "in the house" attitude and "out of the house" attitude. I'm really used to things moving fast in my relationships, but this is going at a pretty smooth pace, which is a big change for me. But I also like that and appreciate it as well. If you're a person who likes to have sex by the second date (which I kinda was), you'll probably be disappointed. Just be patient.
We're both kind of reluctant for her to meet my parents because of the language barrier. Many black dudes know that some black families say, "If she's not black, she's white"... and in many families white is a big no. Mine included. I actually stay away from white girls, but I've been able to slide with Asian girls. I just don't want anyone to feel unnecessarily awkward if they finally do meet, so right now we've just been going out and having fun. I guess you just have to think about how you would feel if you were in THEIR country and hardly spoke their language... then trying to meet their parents.
Also, FOB girls usually don't like to date younger than them, at least this is my understanding. The girl I'm talking to is 22 and I'm 18, but it just takes strategy. In Korean the word for older sister is different if you're a guy than if you're a girl. If you're a guy, you call the older sister figure "noona". She tried to get me to call her that the first couple of times we hung out and I bluntly refused, just to drop a hint that I don't see her as I see a "sister".
Idk, if you don't know their language or you aren't trying to study it, you should probably stay away from FOB girls.
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I guess I'll post up my experience so far with talking to a FOB (Fresh Off the Boat) girl, if anyone is interested in that:
Right now I'm talking to a FOB Korean exchange student... It started by me walking up and asking her to tutor me, but I always thought she looked bad whenever I saw her around school, so that was definitely a big reason why I asked her in particular.
The language issue isn't really too bad. She just came to America in September and she'll only be here through the school year. I'm black, but I speak some Korean, so although sometimes we don't initially understand each other, we translate for each other when we have to and it's been going pretty smoothly. The key is not to necessarily speak slowly, but just at a moderate pace with clear pronunciation.
One thing about FOB Koreans-- and other FOB Asians-- is that they're pretty conservative. The Japanese actually have words which describe "in the house" attitude and "out of the house" attitude. I'm really used to things moving fast in my relationships, but this is going at a pretty smooth pace, which is a big change for me. But I also like that and appreciate it as well. If you're a person who likes to have sex by the second date (which I kinda was), you'll probably be disappointed. Just be patient.
We're both kind of reluctant for her to meet my parents because of the language barrier. Many black dudes know that some black families say, "If she's not black, she's white"... and in many families white is a big no. Mine included. I actually stay away from white girls, but I've been able to slide with Asian girls. I just don't want anyone to feel unnecessarily awkward if they finally do meet, so right now we've just been going out and having fun. I guess you just have to think about how you would feel if you were in THEIR country and hardly spoke their language... then trying to meet their parents.
Also, FOB girls usually don't like to date younger than them, at least this is my understanding. The girl I'm talking to is 22 and I'm 18, but it just takes strategy. In Korean the word for older sister is different if you're a guy than if you're a girl. If you're a guy, you call the older sister figure "noona". She tried to get me to call her that the first couple of times we hung out and I bluntly refused, just to drop a hint that I don't see her as I see a "sister".
Idk, if you don't know their language or you aren't trying to study it, you should probably stay away from FOB girls.
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Right now I'm talking to a FOB Korean exchange student... It started by me walking up and asking her to tutor me, but I always thought she looked bad whenever I saw her around school, so that was definitely a big reason why I asked her in particular.
The language issue isn't really too bad. She just came to America in September and she'll only be here through the school year. I'm black, but I speak some Korean, so although sometimes we don't initially understand each other, we translate for each other when we have to and it's been going pretty smoothly. The key is not to necessarily speak slowly, but just at a moderate pace with clear pronunciation.
One thing about FOB Koreans-- and other FOB Asians-- is that they're pretty conservative. The Japanese actually have words which describe "in the house" attitude and "out of the house" attitude. I'm really used to things moving fast in my relationships, but this is going at a pretty smooth pace, which is a big change for me. But I also like that and appreciate it as well. If you're a person who likes to have sex by the second date (which I kinda was), you'll probably be disappointed. Just be patient.
We're both kind of reluctant for her to meet my parents because of the language barrier. Many black dudes know that some black families say, "If she's not black, she's white"... and in many families white is a big no. Mine included. I actually stay away from white girls, but I've been able to slide with Asian girls. I just don't want anyone to feel unnecessarily awkward if they finally do meet, so right now we've just been going out and having fun. I guess you just have to think about how you would feel if you were in THEIR country and hardly spoke their language... then trying to meet their parents.
Also, FOB girls usually don't like to date younger than them, at least this is my understanding. The girl I'm talking to is 22 and I'm 18, but it just takes strategy. In Korean the word for older sister is different if you're a guy than if you're a girl. If you're a guy, you call the older sister figure "noona". She tried to get me to call her that the first couple of times we hung out and I bluntly refused, just to drop a hint that I don't see her as I see a "sister".
Idk, if you don't know their language or you aren't trying to study it, you should probably stay away from FOB girls.
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A few years back when I had a brief stunt at UCSB, I use to go hard for the snow flakes
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I'm black and I more than likely will marry a hispanic woman or someone mixed with black and whatever else.
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I'm black and I more than likely will marry a hispanic woman or someone mixed with black and whatever else.
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I would easily and probably will. I can't stand dating Asian girls most if not all them are nothing but drama foreal
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I would easily and probably will. I can't stand dating Asian girls most if not all them are nothing but drama foreal
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I'm half black/irish, and my gf is Italian. It works. I don't think I'll marry her, but that's because she is messy and can't budget money worth a damn, and having joint credit w/ her is a bad look.
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I'm half black/irish, and my gf is Italian. It works. I don't think I'll marry her, but that's because she is messy and can't budget money worth a damn, and having joint credit w/ her is a bad look.
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lol, this thread is a doozy! Where'd you find this DC? 
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Some Really Wild Takes In Here.
Also That Wheeler Story
Also That Wheeler Story
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Wild take there man.
Hmmm, that kinda goes to his point considering the makeup of most Dominicans.
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my girl is omani and tanzanian zanzibarian (not sure what's the technical term), but i dig it
cant imagine being with any other girl honestly. we click on everything
and ive always loved melanin, big azzz, and curly hair
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cant imagine being with any other girl honestly. we click on everything
and ive always loved melanin, big azzz, and curly hair
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This thread old enough to be in middle school. I'm certain most people that have posted wild stuff in here have different takes on the topic now.
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can't really see marrying anybody...the era for lifetime romantic relationships seems past.
