How much time you got?
http://g42sports.com/new-york-state-mind/
Start by reading that and if you have any follow ups I'll be more than happy to oblige
Also, as far as the ASG (only because its probably the only thing being discussed that is not touched on in the article)... Melo has an image to maintain. Carrying the New York franchise player label comes with great responsibility and part of that responsibility is showing up for your city when the ASG is at your ******* home.
Not just showing up for the fans and this city (also important), but also for the all-star players/potential teammates playing in the game. Melo needed to show them what NYC was all about and he couldn't do that on the sidelines.
The long term objective of showing up and playing in that game was far more important than making a 17 win team a 30 win team (especially because that alone would have been a bad thing).
Melo was playing chess while all yall stay playing checkers