- 4,526
- 4,446
- Joined
- Mar 22, 2007
No no no. Read my other post. The male friends who don't over step their boundaries aren't the problem. If they are respectable then they are cool. Its the dudes who can't find a girl so they try to become besties with your chick. Like if a dude is texting your girl non stop while y'all chilling and having together time. And this also includes inviting your chick/dude places. Like "Bro you do know she has a dude right?". I'm not insecure but its just irritating when people see all these other SINGLE people just looking to be scooped up but they'd rather be BFF with your spouse. Doesn't make any sense. "I see 5 single good looking girls but I want to be friends with this one whose taken. Maybe she will dump him for me". Lol if they dump one for the other then they are liable to do it again.Originally Posted by RKO2004
personally i tihnk its completely ridiculous to expect your significant other to avoid friendships with the opposite sex. that seems like the type of thing that a girl who is very paranoid & very controlling would say. & honestly if a girl ever said i couldnt have female friends, i'd respond with i couldnt be with her anymore if she felt likt that.Originally Posted by ericberry14
Oh sweet chocolate pops finally someone feels where I'm coming from.Originally Posted by RKO2004
- Avoid friendships with members of the opposite sex.
- Foster codependence (need for one another).
- Have clear, realistic goals and a specific plan.
- Define your roles.
- Put your marriage before your kids, jobs, and anything else.
- Appreciate your partner, don't just tolerate him or her.
- Understand the connection between your childhood and your marriage.
- Share your deepest, most vulnerable self during intimate moments (deal with your fear of intimacy).
- Accept the many stages of love in a marriage or partnership.
- Focus your energy on building a strong marriage (and you'll have no energy for emotional cheating).
I feel you..I learned(in the last relationship I was in) all she can do is tell him stop. If he continues....either beat his a@#% or ignore it andkeep it moving. Whether or not she's sincere about tryin to dead that should be your biggest concern. If a girl sees one of her friends is getting toofamiliar...she'll usually dead it or ignore the guy. If that doesn't happen...you may have something to worry about