Black Men- Its 2009, why do lightskinned girls get so much preference?

[sosmoove]

I've been noticed that in videos. I don't know why but I've been brain drained and now I need me one!!!!!!!!

Big Pun said it best," I don't discriminate/ I regulate, every shade of dat a**!!!!"

 

[celtixhalfshell]

light skinned ftl imo

red-bone brown tone 2 just str8 brown town ftw

 

[lifelessons]

I just find it funny how ninjahood think he's in a better position because he's "dominican"...youre blacker then most AA so you're justnegro who speak spanish in the eyes of most people

....once you get out that bum neighborhood and travel around the country you'll see that

 

[keithdajuiceman]

Originally Posted by MOEree5e

i think its a terrible misfortune if you have to limit yourself to one color or race!

my homeboys always tease me because i dont really have a prefrence ("ninja....you dont know what the hell you like! lol) and im so random when it comes to pickin a shortee, but nonetheless i always get the...

...when i bring em around the way..

just call me king krayola..

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

I just find it funny how ninjahood think he's in a better position because he's "dominican"...youre blacker then most

ahh a victim of believing stereotypes

most dominicans look just like me or caramel overall what are you talking about.

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by Id Walk a Mile for a Camel

Originally Posted by airmissionretro

You see it dosent matter what you prefer in someone, that is usualy a physical trait----but what does matter is holding a person accountable for how they conduct themselves and treat you in the end.

This goes along all colors of the racial/ethnic spectrum.

Well for me it does...

Preferences is LAST in my book, I value having standards and holding women accountable on certain measurable intangible qualities that makes up their personality more than choices of physical features.

Like MLK said its not the color of your skin, but the content of your character.

You can prefer a certain type of color of a person from a single race all you want but at the end of the day, if that person don't treat you a certain way that you want to be treated or if neither of you don't have any standards, what good does it comes out of the situation?---preferences becomes irrevelant.

Physical attraction goes such a short distance man...

stop it.

it might not be what makes a relationship last, but sexual attraction is what first connects to members of the opposite sex.

we are animals who act on instinct. i don't care if a chick is mother theresa, if she looks like her i'm not interested.

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by vprbullet

I'm a dark skinned brother who loves a dark skinned sister. Light skinned girls are cute yea, but so are dark skinned women. The light skinned girls the media expose to you are pretty, but not all of them are. I've seen some goat looking Halle Berry colored girls out there...

QFT...

At ALL of the Fools in here saying someonelooks better based soley on the fact the hue of their skin is lighter... all of you are small minded, and ignorant... or it could just be that you arebrainwashed... I swear I can't stand little boys sometimes... It's okay to have a preference, but the whole Light skin makes someone more attractivebelief is straight rediculous... And most of ya'll saying dark skin girls have bad attitudes deals with the fact ya'll were shut down by one ya'llwent at...

I wish some of ya'll bammas would think with the head above your waist, instead of the one below it...

And ninjahood... many times, you seem most intelligent when you Shut your mouth and don't say anything.

/rant

 

[superantigen]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by SuperAntigen

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by Uptempo kid

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by FrankDolla

Originally Posted by ninjahood

Originally Posted by DAYTONA 5000

Light skin gets preference because it is closer to white skin, which is a status symbol.

thats not really da case either...its more of gettin da thickness of black women..with da refineness, REAL long/good hair, and cute face of a light skinned chick.

you might be the biggest fool I ever read a post from. How the hell a darkskinned woman can't have real long hair, or a pretty face, or look "refined"?

most dont...

ya act like i harlem isn't right around da corner from da heightz...da difference is night and day.

yea and Harlem represents all the dark skin women in the world

as a major historic african american neighborhood...its pretty much a good representation of whats out there....

i heard from my southern friend though that Atlanta had higher quality black women....i can see that seeing as though mostly all da black pornstars come from ATL

Where does one even begin with you...i mean really, you're such a silly little boy...really...

You pretty much just correlated and relegated "higher quality black women" to porn actresses...+%$ is wrong with you...

...

As if...

...

 

[myhandstank]

Ninja know ain't no dark skin chicks gonna lay on that race car bed with him

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by myhandstank

I see why a lot of NT has girl problems

Y'all just look at how good a girl looks but not her personality

####%$% be fine as hell with a horrible attitude

yo I'm not bringing no girl to my house for milk and cookies, to sit down and talk about how pretty she is or not. after i kill it i'llworry about the personality. not looking no wife, I'm married already.

 

[ninjahood]

this a what da average skin tone most dominican girls looks like....we are one of many "muts" or mixed people of da Caribbean islands...its likecoffee really, i need some milk my drink bottom line.

Ninja know ain't no dark skin chicks gonna lay on that race car bed with him
lol....i got a digital camera with pics to prove otherwise

 

[lifelessons]

dude like 26 sleeping on a twin size bed

...step yo life up

 

[sylvestermcgrizzly]

I prefer dark skin women...I'm a dark skinned blk/puerto-rican...I have a soft spot for darkskinned spanish women

...but the Mrs. Is High Yellow.....gofigure....

when I was younger I preferred lighter women but that wasn't due to preference in skin tone, I preferred spanish chicas back then...then Igrew up

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by RamZs8906

Originally Posted by vprbullet

I'm a dark skinned brother who loves a dark skinned sister. Light skinned girls are cute yea, but so are dark skinned women. The light skinned girls the media expose to you are pretty, but not all of them are. I've seen some goat looking Halle Berry colored girls out there...

QFT...

At ALL of the Fools in here saying someone looks better based soley on the fact the hue of their skin is lighter... all of you are small minded, and ignorant... or it could just be that you are brainwashed... I swear I can't stand little boys sometimes... It's okay to have a preference, but the whole Light skin makes someone more attractive belief is straight rediculous... And most of ya'll saying dark skin girls have bad attitudes deals with the fact ya'll were shut down by one ya'll went at...

I wish some of ya'll bammas would think with the head above your waist, instead of the one below it...

And ninjahood... many times, you seem most intelligent when you Shut your mouth and don't say anything.

/rant

truth.

 

[ag 47]

Originally Posted by cycopth

DAYTONA 5000 wrote:

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cycopth wrote:

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any girl that wanna gimmie I'm takin it. but for real dark skinned girls juss cry bout foolishness to much. no matter who they r with they not happy, n that is not attractive.

What foolishness do they cry about? I'm curious
singing on the mic




What the hell are you talking about? Actually no don't explain, you will probably only make youself sounder dumber then you already do.

yeah ehhh?.............

dark skin girls cry about foolishness....

I've heard it all now. You dudes is mildly ******ed. I'm not even trying to diss, but for you to think one's skin color has something
to do with how they act emotionally is beyond me. There's something wrong with you.

 

[ninjahood]

Originally Posted by LifeLessons

dude like 26 sleeping on a twin size bed

...step yo life up

my swag is impervious b....u gonna have to try harder then that.

 

[the natural mystic]

These kinda posts remind me how ignorant, stupid and disgusting some of you peons are.

The media is an evil thing.

 

[ninjahood]

meanwhile with all da hubub in this post i never said once that black women were ugly...i merely said lighter skin broads tend to look better on

average...its not a absolute by all means...look at toya and tiny

i like women of color overall in general over white women cuz white women really ain't packing nuffin...

ya got a bone to pick, call your video directors and tell em to cast darker women, take a stand, do a march, w/e..

ya act like there wasn't a 35-40 page post throwing black women under da bus on NT last or so week, go bark up that tree.

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by AG 47

Originally Posted by cycopth

DAYTONA 5000 wrote:

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cycopth wrote:

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DAYTONA 5000 wrote:

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cycopth wrote:

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any girl that wanna gimmie I'm takin it. but for real dark skinned girls juss cry bout foolishness to much. no matter who they r with they not happy, n that is not attractive.

What foolishness do they cry about? I'm curious

singing on the mic




What the hell are you talking about? Actually no don't explain, you will probably only make youself sounder dumber then you already do.

yeah ehhh?.............

dark skin girls cry about foolishness....

I've heard it all now. You dudes is mildly ******ed. I'm not even trying to diss, but for you to think one's skin color has something
to do with how they act emotionally is beyond me. There's something wrong with you.


what is it then? isn't this why do lightskinned girls get so much preference?

 

[cycopth]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

this a what da average skin tone most dominican girls looks like....we are one of many "muts" or mixed people of da Caribbean islands...its like coffee really, i need some milk my drink bottom line.

Ninja know ain't no dark skin chicks gonna lay on that race car bed with him

lol....i got a digital camera with pics to prove otherwise

yo that batty look juicy

 

[ramzs8906]

Originally Posted by ninjahood

1. meanwhile with all da hubub in this post i never said once that black women were ugly...i merely said lighter skin broads tend to look better on

2. average...its not a absolute by all means...look at toya and tiny

i like women of color overall in general over white women cuz white women really ain't packing nuffin...

3. ya got a bone to pick, call your video directors and tell em to cast darker women, take a stand, do a march, w/e..

4. ya act like there wasn't a 35-40 page post throwing black women under da bus on NT last or so week, go bark up that tree.

1. That statement alone is an issue... no one said you siad black girls are ugly, we said saying that light skin girls are more attractive than dark skin girlsis ignorant

2. Though I can't stand hood rats at all, thats a perfect example of a dark skin girl looking better than a light skin girl...

3. So you're saying that because you've fapped to more light skin girls while watching BET Uncut in your twin sized bed that they are more attractive?

4. No one said that, but many of those dudes who were throwing black women under the bus then are the same ones saying light skin girls are more attractivethan dark skin girls (Notice I didn't see light skin black girls, I said light skin girls in general [white, asian, light skin latino women, etc.])

 

[airmissionretro]

I see some people missed my point...

I guess if someone that has great looks, they can treat you, disrespect you, or demean your character all they want but at the end of the day, you are stillgetting yours its all good...that's why I said preferences are the LAST with me.

"Man she looks like Halle"--or "yo son she looks like naomi campbell and she walks all over me, but I still be beatin' that"

A woman can look like a dime all day but if she treats me like im not worth even 2 cents, then there will be "change"....

I don't care what shade you are---point blank

This should be the mentality for everyone but unfortunately, some don't have any integrity, standaards, and intellegence and most importantly,character---- for themselves and seeking lust and infactuation while jeopardizing their self-respect.

I'll pass on that...

Skin tone should be the LAST thing people of color should worry about.

 

[sosmoove]

Fellas Fellas you guys are taking the whole race thing too serious, its just a thread. Keep it real with yourselves and whatever preference you like then youlike.

 

[airmissionretro]

So when is it serious???....is life really not that serious then??

Im not going at you sosmoove...but when is it going to be serious to talk about issues like these?

I mean there is a reason why posts like these come up every so often---it pains me to hear topics like these but they need to be addressed and need solutionsor at best , need to alleviate some issues.

 

[besthandsindm]

Originally Posted by Id Walk a Mile for a Camel

Originally Posted by airmissionretro

You see it dosent matter what you prefer in someone, that is usualy a physical trait----but what does matter is holding a person accountable for how they conduct themselves and treat you in the end.

This goes along all colors of the racial/ethnic spectrum.

Well for me it does...

Preferences is LAST in my book, I value having standards and holding women accountable on certain measurable intangible qualities that makes up their personality more than choices of physical features.

Like MLK said its not the color of your skin, but the content of your character.

You can prefer a certain type of color of a person from a single race all you want but at the end of the day, if that person don't treat you a certain way that you want to be treated or if neither of you don't have any standards, what good does it comes out of the situation?---preferences becomes irrevelant.

Physical attraction goes such a short distance man...

stop it.

it might not be what makes a relationship last, but sexual attraction is what first connects to members of the opposite sex.

we are animals who act on instinct. i don't care if a chick is mother theresa, if she looks like her i'm not interested.

Not everyone thinks like that. Hopefully you're in the minority with that thinking but we all know there are many more just as shallow.

It also depends on what you're looking for. For long term relationships, good luck if looks the #1 thing on your list or high enough that it can negateother great qualities.