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my thoughts exactly
Cheating.......Does everybody do it?
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Never understood it. Just break up with the person.
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Nah, there are still some decent people out there...
marionthebarberian
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Originally Posted by 951guero
its a Mexican thing hu
Does she know or you keep it on the DL tho
she only found about it once.
but since im her first in everything, she forgave me.
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No I don't and never will. I honestly have a special dislike for people who cheat. The reason doesn't matter.
The reasons people use are B.S. Be honest, you lack self control. Your lust leads you to make irrational decisions that you have 100% control of.
No one, and I mean no one, will be a perfect 100% fit. So your best bet is to let go of that dream now. That's the great part about life and relationships. You grow to love a person. You start to do things together you never thought you would.
People just lack morals these days. Instead of changing it. They indulge in their wants and urges.
The reasons people use are B.S. Be honest, you lack self control. Your lust leads you to make irrational decisions that you have 100% control of.
No one, and I mean no one, will be a perfect 100% fit. So your best bet is to let go of that dream now. That's the great part about life and relationships. You grow to love a person. You start to do things together you never thought you would.
People just lack morals these days. Instead of changing it. They indulge in their wants and urges.
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QFT. No, everyone doesn't cheat, but it sure does seem like it...I mean, why not just break up with the person, I would think the lying/deception involved in cheating would just create more stress and complications for the person doing the cheating.
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QFTW......
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never have, was tempted to but instead just cut it off with the chick
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To people who say why dont u just break it off your main girl.....Its easier said then done. Theres alot reasons people stay with people they cheat on.....children, outside family pressures and what if they are right person but at the wrong time.
DYNAMICS
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^ This.
It's getting real ridiculous out there.
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Ofcourse not
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i done it many times....
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I'm gonna have to say the amount of people who do cheat is far greater than the people who don't
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For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
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I've never personally cheated, but sometimes I feel like it's a physiological thing. People care about their significant other, but at the same time would rather take care of urges with people they're not emotionally attached to, then to break up and start over in finding a mate.
In other words, people want to have fun but be able to come home to someone they love. A lot of people see sex as casual.
Personally, I don't think having sex with the same person for the rest of my life sounds very exciting. It isn't, fact.
T0INE
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Man, I wanted to bring this up when I was reading this thread earlier, but I just left it alone.
I remember her saying she cheated on her last 3 boyfriends (or something to that effect) in a confession thread a while back.
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if you do it once you are prone to do it again
i never cheated and never will
i never cheated and never will
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Lets be honest people want their cake and eat it too. The term cheating is too broad, think about it. Some just get a little pleasure on the side with no relationship and others have multiple relationships. If anything any type of "cheating" is disrespectful to a relationship and for sure some are worse than others. I think those that date should take that time and learn what they want. If your going to cheat obviously your hiding something and want to keep on doing it so why not just either stay a bachelor or be upfront and have an open relationship.
I think its okay to have your cake and it to but its how you go about it.
I think its okay to have your cake and it to but its how you go about it.
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Also I think its possible to keep sex and emotions separate, people do this all the time. But in a relationship that's never the case. I dont think its cheating that complicates things its the jelousy that comes with it.
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not everyone , but chicks be slacking . Dont want to hear anything about hitting the gym , cooking a few meals , maybe a little surprise in the bedroom once in a while be nice ! What she wont do the next chick will .
solewoman
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lmfao. nah...i never said that. yes i did cheat though. it was with my ex. and honestly i dont regret it. im not going to put allllll my business out there. nor will i justify the situation but i believe that any woman would have done what i did. my ex never wanted to spend time with me or he never appreciated me. and not to brag but i can be a great person esp gf. and thats why all of my exes have cried to get back with me...have i been dealing with simps...yes...did i learn my lesson...yes. lol. but thats why i am choosing to be alone now. i have learned from my mistakes and i cant fathom doing something like that again. the next man i involve myself with i plan on giving my all to him.Originally Posted by toine2983
Man, I wanted to bring this up when I was reading this thread earlier, but I just left it alone.
I remember her saying she cheated on her last 3 boyfriends (or something to that effect) in a confession thread a while back.
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truth.
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I am convinced that most men cheat. I've been cheated on (ex had an affair behind my back) and that is one of my fears of settling with someone or getting married. I am afraid it would happen to me again.
