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the term cheating is ******ed. as men we are required to cheat,its in our nature. the only way a man isn't cheating is cause he has no options.
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It can be, if you love that person. Sex can be deeper than just that ... sex. It's an experience that goes way beyond the physical.Originally Posted by finnns2003
Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
I've never personally cheated, but sometimes I feel like it's a physiological thing. People care about their significant other, but at the same time would rather take care of urges with people they're not emotionally attached to, then to break up and start over in finding a mate.
In other words, people want to have fun but be able to come home to someone they love. A lot of people see sex as casual.
Personally, I don't think having sex with the same person for the rest of my life sounds very exciting. It isn't, fact.
there is some truth to this. When its easily accessible its extremley hard not to do. There are prob 1% of people out there that have met their "solemates" and never lust after another woman/man. But if you are under the age of 30 and its right there for the takings....hard to say no sometimes.Originally Posted by tim teufel
the term cheating is ******ed. as men we are required to cheat,its in our nature. the only way a man isn't cheating is cause he has no options.
open relationship = no cheating. i think my current gf and i are going to explore this route in the future. we get along great, never really fight, make each other laugh... all that good stuff, great chemistry overall. we've had conversations about this issue and we have similar ideas about wanting to have other sexual partners in the future.Originally Posted by finnns2003
Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
I've never personally cheated, but sometimes I feel like it's a physiological thing. People care about their significant other, but at the same time would rather take care of urges with people they're not emotionally attached to, then to break up and start over in finding a mate.
In other words, people want to have fun but be able to come home to someone they love. A lot of people see sex as casual.
Personally, I don't think having sex with the same person for the rest of my life sounds very exciting. It isn't, fact.
Originally Posted by Jking0821
Also i am assuming that the people that are saying "I would never cheat" have never been cheated on. Because once it happens to you its a different mind set. You are thinking "why not she will prob cheat on me anyway might as well"
Fact: When the perfect opportunity comes along, everyone will cheat.
False. That's like saying every man has a price. Some people can't be bought. Some people will never give in to the temptation of cheating.
Its also important not to tempt yourself too.
yea man, i got cheated on by my ex and its not a good feeling(emotional attachment ftl). i would never do that to some else, just break it off cleanly and proceed to lay the pipe down.Originally Posted by RKO2004
Originally Posted by Jking0821
Also i am assuming that the people that are saying "I would never cheat" have never been cheated on. Because once it happens to you its a different mind set. You are thinking "why not she will prob cheat on me anyway might as well"
You can't live that way though man. It'll tear you and possibly your family apart sooner or later.
I know its a possibility but its better to be slapped and walk away then be slapped and slap back creating a brawl where somewhere really gets hurt, in my opinion of course. Slapping is more of a similar situation I guess. But I hope you all get it.
Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
You could always just say no.Originally Posted by Breakyaneck3000
yea man, i got cheated on by my ex and its not a good feeling(emotional attachment ftl). i would never do that to some else, just break it off cleanly and proceed to lay the pipe down.Originally Posted by RKO2004
Originally Posted by Jking0821
Also i am assuming that the people that are saying "I would never cheat" have never been cheated on. Because once it happens to you its a different mind set. You are thinking "why not she will prob cheat on me anyway might as well"
You can't live that way though man. It'll tear you and possibly your family apart sooner or later.
I know its a possibility but its better to be slapped and walk away then be slapped and slap back creating a brawl where somewhere really gets hurt, in my opinion of course. Slapping is more of a similar situation I guess. But I hope you all get it.
False. That's like saying every man has a price. Some people can't be bought. Some people will never give in to the temptation of cheating.Originally Posted by RKO2004
Fact: When the perfect opportunity comes along, everyone will cheat.
I think this is just a belief thing. I feel everyone has a price and that kind of goes into the cheating thing.Originally Posted by Jking0821
False. That's like saying every man has a price. Some people can't be bought. Some people will never give in to the temptation of cheating.Originally Posted by RKO2004
Fact: When the perfect opportunity comes along, everyone will cheat.
Its also important not to tempt yourself too.
A common misconception is this people that cheat don't care. Why do people honestly believe that? Just because you cheat on someone doesn't mean you don't love or care for them.
I never cheated either, but the reasons behind it are obvious.
OK you can love someone and cheat, but you would obviously care more about busting one, than their feelings.
Originally Posted by finnns2003
Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
I've never personally cheated, but sometimes I feel like it's a physiological thing. People care about their significant other, but at the same time would rather take care of urges with people they're not emotionally attached to, then to break up and start over in finding a mate.
In other words, people want to have fun but be able to come home to someone they love. A lot of people see sex as casual.
Personally, I don't think having sex with the same person for the rest of my life sounds very exciting. It isn't, fact.
Fixed.Originally Posted by ricky robot
Fact: When the perfect opportunity comes along, everyone someone who has no self-control and/or respect for their significant other will cheat.
Correct. People can be driven by the physical. That doesn't mean you have to discredit the emotional attachment that they have for another person. Two separate groups of feelings. Just because someone 'purposely" hurts someone they love/care for, doesn't mean that they DON'T love or care for the person. They just valued the physical more at that moment of cheating.Originally Posted by RKO2004
OK you can love someone and cheat, but you would obviously care more about busting one, than their feelings.
this.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Correct. People can be driven by the physical. That doesn't mean you have to discredit the emotional attachment that they have for another person. Two separate groups of feelings. Just because someone 'purposely" hurts someone they love/care for, doesn't mean that they DON'T love or care for the person. They just valued the physical more at that moment of cheating.Originally Posted by RKO2004
OK you can love someone and cheat, but you would obviously care more about busting one, than their feelings.
Originally Posted by Battousai701
school/work... yes
relationship... no
Originally Posted by Breakyaneck3000
open relationship = no cheating. i think my current gf and i are going to explore this route in the future. we get along great, never really fight, make each other laugh... all that good stuff, great chemistry overall. we've had conversations about this issue and we have similar ideas about wanting to have other sexual partners in the future.Originally Posted by finnns2003
Originally Posted by RKO2004
For the people that cheat, do you care about your SO?
I've never personally cheated, but sometimes I feel like it's a physiological thing. People care about their significant other, but at the same time would rather take care of urges with people they're not emotionally attached to, then to break up and start over in finding a mate.
In other words, people want to have fun but be able to come home to someone they love. A lot of people see sex as casual.
Personally, I don't think having sex with the same person for the rest of my life sounds very exciting. It isn't, fact.