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That jack black swag could bag ur ho! stop playing!
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I get a cut once a month and normally keep the beard trimmed. I just don't have a lot of pictures of myself. Losing the weight will be first then new wardrobe. Dating seems way off at this point though just because of where I'm at mentally.
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Visits to the barbershop can be very therapeutic. I think OP thinks he’s alone but I can’t tell you how many times I went to the barbershop and found out that lots of people go through the same things I was and it helped to listen. Lots of dudes out here are paying women for attention and affection. There is a new story about said individuals every time I visit the show.
A new haircut can really change how you look. I used to hate how I looked in pictures until I learned that my style of haircut didn’t fit my face. I went from a low cut with waves to a high top fade.
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That was the year immediately following my mom's death. I was so deep in the gutter the only social interaction I had for like a year was once a month playing ball with my friends. That's when I got up to my heaviest at 265. The long hair is NEVER coming back.
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I hear u man. We mourn differently. it takes time.That was the year immediately following my mom's death. I was so deep in the gutter the only social interaction I had for like a year was once a month playing ball with my friends. That's when I got up to my heaviest at 265. The long hair is NEVER coming back.
Hope u come stronger. (N wiser too, cus Damn!)
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This could be you with the right barber. This guy will get way more numbers than he did with his Hacksaw Jim Duggon look. He went for Hacksaw to Bubba Sparxxx
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Starting to wonder how legit all of this is now.
Never seen someone so open on here.
Never seen someone so open on here.
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As far as you saying you’re not mentally ready to date, you def have to learn how to fully love yourself before fully diving into “dating.” Not sure how to advise how to learn that, but once you truly learn to love yourself, your confidence levels will boost immensely, and if a woman isn’t into you, her loss, you still love yourself and are happy with yourself and have confidence in yourself that you have something to offer and the right person will come along.
Maybe try therapy/counseling as well as investing time into the things/ hobbies that fulfill you, remember it’s not just about looks, once a girls interested based on attraction, you still have to have the personality attributes to keep her interested as well. The more you invest in yourself , the more natural these things should come.
Maybe try therapy/counseling as well as investing time into the things/ hobbies that fulfill you, remember it’s not just about looks, once a girls interested based on attraction, you still have to have the personality attributes to keep her interested as well. The more you invest in yourself , the more natural these things should come.
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Apologies to homie if he doesn't want me to crosspost here, i'll remove it if so, but here's some motivation from another cat that did itThat was the year immediately following my mom's death. I was so deep in the gutter the only social interaction I had for like a year was once a month playing ball with my friends. That's when I got up to my heaviest at 265. The long hair is NEVER coming back.
Exactly one year apart in these photos. Hennythang is possible NT fam
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Once you spend 12k on a chick and can't even get a kiss or some honesty, a bunch of strangers on the internet isn't that scary. There was no lower point I could reach. Wanted to just air her out but then I felt like I owed you all the why. On the escort forum it was mainly just about the lies surrounding the services and less about the reason I booked her to begin with.
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Fatter
Sloppily
Uglier
Poorer
Dudes have made it work for themselves.
Find your lane.
Be a star in your role.
Plenty of fish out there for you.
Sloppily
Uglier
Poorer
Dudes have made it work for themselves.
Find your lane.
Be a star in your role.
Plenty of fish out there for you.
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pics cuz my imagination cant figure it out
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Wait. Sweatergawd...
First rule!!! See, you were on it.
Cool, cool.
I mean not cool. Not one bit of this was cool.
All bad, my friend.
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Obviously, none of us on here can say whether it's legit or not, so I don't want to sound like I'm saying that it's legit, but I will say this:
Unintentional oversharing, (in an attempt at honesty & insight), is a common trait of the vulnerable naive.
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Oh there absolutely is lower, my friend. And an adult kissless virgin looking to end that label by commissioning bottom level escorts without exercising judgement and without initially having explicitly clear communication that establishes very clear expectations, boundaries, and parameters could find out exactly how much lower it could have gotten, sooner than later.
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Wardrobe and a haircut are steps in the right direction but, respectfully, he’s not going to start pulling period until he has the proper confidence. Beyond the much needed therapy, from my experience, going out with the right wingman to feed him buckets into a couple easy convos, compliments, numbers, etc will change the game for him.
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Andy Stitzer, your thoughts?
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The thought of an escort forum is wild to me. Like they escort at night and during the day time they browse on it like NT
What do these escorts talk about in said forum?
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I agree wardrobe and haircut can add to the confidence. You don't even need to buy a whole closet of stuff, even just a few well put together outfits that suit/flatter your body shape will help.
Feeling good in your clothes can help your feel more confident.
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I agree 100%. I hope he gets confidence to see someone.
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Think It’s dudes like our guy in here talking about the escorts, not actual ho’s posting themselvesThe thought of an escort forum is wild to me. Like they escort at night and during the day time they browse on it like NT
What do these escorts talk about in said forum?
You can just look on their IG/twitters to see what those joints discussing on their off time
