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Coping With a Difficult Breakup PART 2. UPDATE - Im Breaking Down Guys.....
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If you speak or understand spanish listen to los bukis
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I got some questions for you NT,
would you let your girl go party out with her friends with a bunch of guys that you don't know and neither do they?
What if you get a txt and it reads " I want to smooch your whole body" and it wasn't from you
and your gf said that its nothing and thatperson is only kidding around. what will you do?
would you let your girl go party out with her friends with a bunch of guys that you don't know and neither do they?
What if you get a txt and it reads " I want to smooch your whole body" and it wasn't from you
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sounds just like me, im almost coming to a similar situation
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Ruff Endz - No More
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IluvJordanXI, I would be bothered by it. Plenty of girls are good at making it clear that they already have a boyfriend, so that flirting %+$# ceases quickly.If your girl doesn't make it clear to other guys, then you should talk to her (but not in a condescending way) and reach an understanding.
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i agree, time heals all. i was with my girl for two years and i got dumped out of nowhere, just absolutely blindsided. needless to say i was completelydevastated. what you need to do is initiate the no contact rule with her. don't phone her, don't receive her calls, don't text her, don't texther back.. you get the idea. also, delete any pictures that you have together.. it'll aide in the healing process. this is about you right now, take allthe time you need to heal, but do not let her hinder your progress.
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This is sounding like a group therapy session, where everyone has a story to tell. I guess NT really is a family.
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Its amazing how you see his controlling ways but overlook that shes lying and disrespecting him.
See what I did there?
Both are right.
He prob smothered her, and tried to control her "lifestyle", she saw it as a lack of respect, in turn it caused her to lose respect for him.
Loss of respect=relationship fail
Her lack of respect for him caused him to smother
her and try to control her "lifestyle."
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NT is a family
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^ Word for real
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Not sure if you're a fan of Bob Marley, but one track that I just praise:
No Woman; No Cry
Get mad teary but out of joy and pride
Peace
No Woman; No Cry
Get mad teary but out of joy and pride
Peace
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Ugh Guys, it's been a week since the events took place.
Neither of us have bothered contacting eachother.
It's gotten a little better, but shes still on my mind 24/7
I swear, I be lifting hard as hell at the gym, mid way through my set im super pumped up, and by the end of my set I'm about ready to break down andcry.....I feel like a chick on her period smh
Idk what to do with myself, I wish nothing like this had happened and we were still the couple we were. #%+% !!!!!
I can't even front I miss the @@!! outta her, but when I think about what happened it just angers me.
I hate this guys
Neither of us have bothered contacting eachother.
It's gotten a little better, but shes still on my mind 24/7
I swear, I be lifting hard as hell at the gym, mid way through my set im super pumped up, and by the end of my set I'm about ready to break down andcry.....I feel like a chick on her period smh
Idk what to do with myself, I wish nothing like this had happened and we were still the couple we were. #%+% !!!!!
I can't even front I miss the @@!! outta her, but when I think about what happened it just angers me.
I hate this guys
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im not you
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"MMPH MMPH"
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I know they do that @$@! on purpose
But yeah, I'm really not feelin life right now
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Hold ya head fam.
cb94
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I'm going through it today as well.. just wrote about it.. figured I'd share...
Suicide Pact
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Today at 12:25pm | Edit Note | Delete
I hate you..
YOU did this...
To you,
To me,
To US......
I hate you because I loved, no love, YOU
I hate that love, but I don't love this hate
I hate this hate as well...
But the hate is justified,
Earned,
DESERVED!
...But uncharacteristic of the man I am,
You man you had, and squandered..
It's killing me.. I'M killing me..
Inside...
Slowly...
From vows to vowels,
Who, what, when, where, how, and sometimes why?
I breathe differently knowing that it's for ME now, and not you.
I breathe deep, with less labor and congestion
"Breathing easy" so to speak..
I'd have died for the chance to live with you,
....and lived for the day I'd die with you
But that's already dead and this is just the eulogy
Herein lies the remains of what used to be Love
What used to be divine, as we saw it
Forever more
Never... to ever, rise again.
Sun shines on my spotted mind today, and I have no regrets
I cherish the anguish, the tears, the confusion, and abuse
For now I see the rainbow,
And my pot of gold is just around the bend
Amen
Suicide Pact
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Today at 12:25pm | Edit Note | Delete
I hate you..
YOU did this...
To you,
To me,
To US......
I hate you because I loved, no love, YOU
I hate that love, but I don't love this hate
I hate this hate as well...
But the hate is justified,
Earned,
DESERVED!
...But uncharacteristic of the man I am,
You man you had, and squandered..
It's killing me.. I'M killing me..
Inside...
Slowly...
From vows to vowels,
Who, what, when, where, how, and sometimes why?
I breathe differently knowing that it's for ME now, and not you.
I breathe deep, with less labor and congestion
"Breathing easy" so to speak..
I'd have died for the chance to live with you,
....and lived for the day I'd die with you
But that's already dead and this is just the eulogy
Herein lies the remains of what used to be Love
What used to be divine, as we saw it
Forever more
Never... to ever, rise again.
Sun shines on my spotted mind today, and I have no regrets
I cherish the anguish, the tears, the confusion, and abuse
For now I see the rainbow,
And my pot of gold is just around the bend
Amen
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if i was you id be hella happy
bachelor life
yall breaking up meaning shes wants and will meet other guys
which shows that she a $!$# and she wasnt down for you
forget that ohh it didnt work out cus of this and cus of that
homegirl made her desicion and now yall seperate
if i was you i wouldnt waste my tears
i remember going through all that
pumping weights trying everything not to feel down
but then i had a epiphany , why am i gonna cry over some skank thats ending the relasionship......
bachelor life
yall breaking up meaning shes wants and will meet other guys
which shows that she a $!$# and she wasnt down for you
forget that ohh it didnt work out cus of this and cus of that
homegirl made her desicion and now yall seperate
if i was you i wouldnt waste my tears
i remember going through all that
pumping weights trying everything not to feel down
but then i had a epiphany , why am i gonna cry over some skank thats ending the relasionship......
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Obviously, but its just super disappointing that you've literally spent damn near every day in the last 2 years with someone that you thoughtwas special and right for you then suddenly theyre gone. It's a veryOriginally Posted by chokeonsmoke
if i was you id be hella happy
bachelor life
yall breaking up meaning shes wants and will meet other guys
which shows that she a $!$# and she wasnt down for you
forget that ohh it didnt work out cus of this and cus of that
homegirl made her desicion and now yall seperate
if i was you i wouldnt waste my tears
i remember going through all that
pumping weights trying everything not to feel down
but then i had a epiphany , why am i gonna cry over some skank thats ending the relasionship......
cb94
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Originally Posted by Politics As Usual 22
Obviously, but its just super disappointing that you've literally spent damn near every day in the last 2 years with someone that you thought was special and right for you then suddenly theyre gone. It's a veryOriginally Posted by chokeonsmoke
if i was you id be hella happy
bachelor life
yall breaking up meaning shes wants and will meet other guys
which shows that she a $!$# and she wasnt down for you
forget that ohh it didnt work out cus of this and cus of that
homegirl made her desicion and now yall seperate
if i was you i wouldnt waste my tears
i remember going through all that
pumping weights trying everything not to feel down
but then i had a epiphany , why am i gonna cry over some skank thats ending the relasionship......feeling.
Word, but you forgot
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out loveshack.org read the coping section... it helps
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I know a Jordan Gonzales
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Originally Posted by Politics As Usual 22
Obviously, but its just super disappointing that you've literally spent damn near every day in the last 2 years with someone that you thought was special and right for you then suddenly theyre gone. It's a veryOriginally Posted by chokeonsmoke
if i was you id be hella happy
bachelor life
yall breaking up meaning shes wants and will meet other guys
which shows that she a $!$# and she wasnt down for you
forget that ohh it didnt work out cus of this and cus of that
homegirl made her desicion and now yall seperate
if i was you i wouldnt waste my tears
i remember going through all that
pumping weights trying everything not to feel down
but then i had a epiphany , why am i gonna cry over some skank thats ending the relasionship......feeling.
thats why you bone them and leave them
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"MMPH MMPH"
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yeah doggie, I offered you real advice that you obviously didn't take..... off yourself.
