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ok that's cool old dudes want a good meal not a $5 plate
ok that's cool old dudes want a good meal not a $5 plate
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Why would anyone wife Kim K? You can't turn a *** into a housewife. Plus, If my girl had a tape on a porn site and my boys found out I would not hear the end of it.
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I think the standards and judgement are a little different in an industry that thrives on attention. No big deal in their world.
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Seeing a lot of posts about guys looking in the "wrong direction/circles/spots" in regards to dealing with problematic women. I'm curious, where's the "right" place to be looking, and hanging out?
At this point in my life, I think monogamy is unnatural. A 100% loyal, honest, fully committed, monogamous relationship does not look realistic to me.
At this point in my life, I think monogamy is unnatural. A 100% loyal, honest, fully committed, monogamous relationship does not look realistic to me.
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Very possible.
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Why can't we have a companion and still smash biddies?
Most westerners fail to accept the fact that monogamy isn't natural, but a social construct. If we lived in a society that didn't look down on people who weren't monogamous, there wouldn't be NEARLY as many people "trying" to be monogamous as there is today. I mean lets keep it real... most people put more effort into resisting temptation and fighting their NATURAL inclinations more than anything else.
My ideal companion would understand this. My ideal companion would give me the freedom to do my thing, and I would do the same for her. We would do this with the understanding that we will always be completely honest with each other. Now in these days in times it would take a strong female to accept a situation like this... but that is what I want.
Should we be looked down upon for for feeling this way? Is our love any less special? I don't think so. You can say we are going against the social construct, but you cannot say that we are wrong. In this instance, the fact that this behavior is morally acceptable is our choice. It is not a black and white situation where murder or rape is always considered immoral.
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You bring up the concept of "Westerners" yet you're on Niketalk. Do you not see the irony of referencing the whole concept of colonization and the influence of Western civilization...are you not assimilating to Western culture via NikeTalk? You probably own a few pair of JAys and the latest iPhone [emoji]128530[/emoji]
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So in order to be a Westerner, it has to be all or nothing? I can't embrace certain cultural practices and not others?
Oh, ok.
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Excuse me Ms. Fu Fu when I met yo ***.
ms. fu fu is going to want half by the time you take her out the village
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Touché. I see what you did there, clever.
While not everything in life is black and white, some things are....
You can't serve two masters, it's not possible. You can't be democratic and republican.
Either you're a Westerner or you're not. One does not consider himself a Westerner when it's convenient for him and then a non-Westerner when the cultural values of Western civilizations are not of convenience to him. Either you are or you aren't. If your morals and values don't align with a culture and its traitions, you arent assimilated. #fakeculture
While not everything in life is black and white, some things are....
You can't serve two masters, it's not possible. You can't be democratic and republican.
Either you're a Westerner or you're not. One does not consider himself a Westerner when it's convenient for him and then a non-Westerner when the cultural values of Western civilizations are not of convenience to him. Either you are or you aren't. If your morals and values don't align with a culture and its traitions, you arent assimilated. #fakeculture
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I think the biggest problem with this(for me at least) is the risk of STDs. No one wants to have a companion come back to them giving them something from someone else. Also, you can't really say monogamy is natural (if you're using natural to be "in nature") therefore we should engage in it and say under the same situation that murder and rape is immoral, since it is natural i.e. in nature. I think we,as humans, favor monogamy because we're conscious beings capable of higher thought/meaning so we experience love for others unlike who animals practice polygamy in order to pass on their genes.
Not saying that an open relationship is wrong and monogamy is the only way to go, if you find someone who respects that hats off to you just trying to explain why we attempt at it.
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Hell no.
I'm not sure about you, but wifing notorious ****** isn't really my thing.
And a girl like Kim K will have over hundreds of dudes coming at her daily, i'm pretty sure a few of those guys are going to have way better features than you whether it's money or looks then she'll end up leaving you.
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I stand corrected, I meant to say if your own personal values and traditions don't align w that of a certain culture's
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that *** stage is serious business. but i say its usually high school till 25-30. then they want to settle or throw in religion in their life cause thats the cloak they want to put on to make men assume they still a good girl. *****WTBS
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Nope, women hit the 40's and start right back up until nobody wants them anymore. A women's midlife crisis, in my experience, consists of the "I still got it" phase and then the "I'll be forever alone" stage. This all if they're still single of course.
Needless to say a barfly's life is a sad one but deservingly so. Don't be a ***, put it out there for everyone to know, then all of a sudden become a "born again virgin" and want someone to save your disgusting ***.
These women are treated like meat because that's what they want. They want the attention, the desire from men, the money and gifts, the life style of an "it". Problem is they get old, and when they do the looks fade and they realize they still work at the mall or some other dead end job with nothing else to show for.
Both sides try to play the same game others have been through before but want to be the one to change the inevitable.... IT WON'T HAPPEN.
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^Too much truth in your last 2 posts jordan23. Usually those types of girls/women end up with guys who came from another state (school transfer/job opportunity/etc), so they'll be able to create whatever facade they want to present to the dude (it works both ways, but guys don't care about much anyway). Believe me, I've seen and heard all kind of dirt done by a chick, and then some fresh-faced dude seems to teleport out of nowhere and instantly marries them.
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Rachet chicks are only good for one thing. Other than that hey are more trouble than they are worth. I will take a good girl with no FB,IG, or Twitter, who doesnt drink or smoke anyday over the same ole bird with attention deficit disorder who cant live her life outside of a mirror taking pictures all day.
Just got to look in the right spots. FB, IG, Twitter is not the right spot.
Just got to look in the right spots. FB, IG, Twitter is not the right spot.
