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I've had this situation come up quite a few times within the past year or so. And it's even sparked some pretty spirited debate amongst women that I deal with, and even inner-circles that interact with. So I must bring the question to NT. I'm pretty sure I've probably seen this topic before, but I must bring it up while its relevant in my mind.
My position is this: I will naturally treat a women w/ dignity and respect, and I have a solid core of principles that will guide me throughout life, that I will even teach to my future children. But within the sense of what's deemed important, there are somethings that just allude me. It's not that I have a staunch opposition against opening the car door, as I do with buying drinks for women in the club; my position is, open your own door. And I could(n't) care less about opening her door, and watching to see if she'll open my door.
*edit: When I say open car doors, I'm not talking opening once you're in the car. I'm talking about opening her door, and waiting for her to get settled, then closing the door.
Thoughts?
My position is this: I will naturally treat a women w/ dignity and respect, and I have a solid core of principles that will guide me throughout life, that I will even teach to my future children. But within the sense of what's deemed important, there are somethings that just allude me. It's not that I have a staunch opposition against opening the car door, as I do with buying drinks for women in the club; my position is, open your own door. And I could(n't) care less about opening her door, and watching to see if she'll open my door.
*edit: When I say open car doors, I'm not talking opening once you're in the car. I'm talking about opening her door, and waiting for her to get settled, then closing the door.
Thoughts?