Does it matter to you how many peeps your partner has been with in the past?

[kanyewestjayz4life]

Yes, so i know to move out of that area. Hahaha

But for real, it kind of does. Ill never bring it up she'll have to ask me; ill tell the truth then ill ask her. I would have to be in the actual situation to answer this question, all i can do is speculate now. Im thinking though, if its a huge number im going to peace out. "I didnt know i was dating gangbang susan."

 

[Majorbread]

wifey- it really shouldnt but ya it does matter, cant be wifing a skeezer

jo- no

 

[finessesosa]

Originally Posted by Seymore CAKE

Most girls start having sex around 15-16... Thats High School... If you meet a girl thats 21, this is college and we all know inhibitions go out the window in college, the odds of her having slept with less than 10 dudes are so low that we don't wan't to know/hear them.

But seriously think about if a girl has slept with say 12 guys by 21 and she lost her virginity at 15... on average thats 2 guys a yr. I know girls slept with 12 guys in a year, but if they never told you you would never know and you would call them wifey status just off of everything else they brought to the table from their appearance to the way they carried themselves to their intangibles.

Realistically once you hit college if you don't grab your wife to be within that 1st week, you're going to be with someone who's had atleast 7-10 penis if they were extremely selective about who they gave the merch to and faught through the temptation of wanting to be +#**+%. It doesn't make them anyless qualified to be wifed... You're kidding yourselves and setting yourself up if you think otherwise.

/thread

Yep. Some of yall saying under 3 guys

You better be under 20 and you better know that girl right now. If not she's definitely lying to you or she's ugly and fat.

I wanna know how old some of yall are saying this?

real #*$$

 

[needsomejays]

i would like the number to be low, but thats not being realistic, so no it doesnt matter much

 

[superbness]

True talk..


It really doesnt matter , you know why??


Because they will never tell us the truth.. I mean come on. You really think a girl is going to tell you, I had a train ran on me and I been with 50 men inthe past.. Of  course the girl is going to keep th enumbers low depening onher age..

If shes 13-16 old= 1 Man

16-18= 2 maybe 3 Man

18-25 - Then it goes to maybe 5 -7

25-30 old--No higher then 10

After 30 years old-- Doesnt even matter because you already know she has been with a lot


This is a stupid thread. And big Negs to whoever started this. A girl will never admit how many people she been with

 

[superbness]

This thread is stupid......A girl doesnt count 1 night stands first of all.. So if she says she been with 3 people, that snot including the 15 1 night stnds she had or the times when a dude dont call her back or diss her. Girls dont count that, they try to forgot about it..

Dont ever ask you girl this question, just sit back and pay attention to her around her friends. If her friends are/was +#$%@#, she is too. Give her a nice strong drink and watch and see if those skeletons fall out the closet...


I sat back and watched. My girl was a virgin when I met her and I truly do believe this from my research, but unfortunately she was a head monster. I cant do nothing about it now. Im 6 years deep with her

 

[superbness]

Originally Posted by blackmagnus514

A woman will almost always lie about this anyway..I have enough females friends to know they dont count

-sex with wack partners
-oral sex performed
-times they didnt c--
-times they were drunk/high
-one night stands

If I'm trying to wife...I'm looking at little things...sometimes you gotta pick brains and you might just get a Freudian slip...I never ask girls because i figure they'll lie anyway. If it's a JO, I'm looking at how she carries herself....the best freaks are the ones you wouldnt think are freaks...

The reality of it...and this is something that men have to accept is that...women have more %**@ on standby than you have ()....

Exactly! Ditto! Big ups  This is the best answer her

 

[solefood229]

You will never know the real answer so why even ask?

as long as she clean and carry herself good, then im good

 

[hugo]

Interesting stuff people very very interesting.

 

[carver]

Originally Posted by CincoSeisDos

NOPE

If you're looking to just poke, you already know what kind of girl she is.

If you're looking to keep her, you should be mature enough to look past it.

Either way, nope.

This

 

[38816]

rofl @ head monster

 

[purehoopa1]

Can really care less. They gonna lie about it anyways. Hopefully you pick a chick that isn't/wasn't a jump off. Dudes probably laughing at you when they see ya in public

If she makes you happy, screw what anyone thinks.

 

[sosmoove]

Originally Posted by solefood229

You will never know the real answer so why even ask?

as long as she clean and carry herself good, then im good

Exactly. She'll NEVER tell you the truth so don't even bother. She'll say enough for her to not look like a *%# no matter what the actual number is.

 

[blackmagnus514]

I'm learning to look more at quality anyway...these broads give the lamest dudes chances...

If ima be in a situation where I'm repeatedly around dudes she had a past with (and ya'll know this could happen to anybody...i'd rather the dude be a player about it and just chalk it up to the game than for him to be a slobbering hater type cat who's gonna try t salt me.

Cats be doing extra %#+ for box nowadays.

 

[philly5fan]

Dudes trippin talking about bunnin a chick thats smashed 14 dudes.. damn

 

[eight2one]

i just make a judgement call....5(or less)-14 is reasonable

 

[pleasurephd]

Heck yes it matters. Just imagine if her name is "Downtown" Julie Brown, then think of how many Ds you be kissing when she is kissing you. Lucky for me I am my girls first, last, her everything.

 

[mugsy bogues]

I think it only matters to dudes who havent been wit alot chicks. Because if you have, you realize how easy it is to have an sexual encounter

. You cant blame shawty for having a couple dudes a year. Dudes be running game on this chicks they cant always tell whats right or whats fraudulent they just be lonely and fall for stuff.

 

[eaalto]

Originally Posted by PleasurePhD

Heck yes it matters. Just imagine if her name is "Downtown" Julie Brown, then think of how many Ds you be kissing when she is kissing you. Lucky for me I am my girls first, last, her everything.

Because all of those penises just linger on her lips, and you will taste all of them when you kiss her.  It's totally interesting how things work that way.  

 

[jau014]

definitely yes.
but in the end..it won't matter.
and don't ask because you will never get an honest answer.

 

[kickzrforme]

Originally Posted by Diego

I got a strict Dont Ask Dont Tell policy on this matter.

Thats what I'm saying... I can't believe some of you are stating no more than 3 yadi yada.. Like many have said already, you are truly in for a major let down. And don't be asking a girl how many dudes she has been with, why do you even care? Just care if she's clean or not, don't worry about the rest... If you ask, trust me she will lose crazy respect for you and you would be lucky if she doesn't drop your insecure !$$ for asking. Worry about your own.. Like mentioned above Don't ask Don't tell....

 

[freshxxx2death]

my girl told me "5" lol i belive her but if I found out it was even 1 more I would slit her !#!%#%* throat !!lol

 

[kickzrforme]

Originally Posted by freshxxx2death

my girl told me "5" lol i belive her but if I found out it was even 1 more I would slit her !#!%#%* throat !!lol

Not to be negative, but depending on how old she is... or actually doesn't matter... She will never tell you the truth.
  

 

[cj003]

I cannot put a number, that would matter. I once said I would never date a virgin, b/c of all of the hassle everyone talks about....my current gf I was her first. But if a girl says 5 guys and has been in 5 relationships than im good w/ that. But if its 5 guys total, but they all ran train on her then hell no. It really depends on how the girl carries herself, b/c at the end of the day you cannot turn a *%$ into a housewife. And I am not being sexist, b/c I wonder why chicks get into relationships w/ guys who have ran thru triple digit chicks. The fact of the matter is it is hard to believe someone who is used to switching sex partners, will somehow become monogamous instantly.

 

[ridikuloz]

for a regular girlfriend, it don't matter. but for a wife, no more than 1.