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^hahahhahaah what?
Females with no father figure= disaster
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^hahahhahaah what?
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Yes.
But I agree w/ jawnyquest. A lot of you guys in here are terrible at trying to figure out women
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Yes.
But I agree w/ jawnyquest. A lot of you guys in here are terrible at trying to figure out women
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Originally Posted by red mpls
This.
Some of y'all should really work on self-reflection and start thinking more critically. I mean, what is the role that men play in this equation if all of these girls are lacking father figures? Oh, let me guess, it's always the woman's fault that the father leaves. Are boys not lacking father figures? Does this not affect them??
It's obvious that some of y'all have some serious issues with women. Maybe you should work on them instead of constantly trying to over-analyze, diagnose, and criticize each and every thing about the few women on which you base your generalizations.
They arent generalizations they are stats/facts etc that prove these thoughts ppl speaking on. And one of the major facts that favors usually its the woman fault is that stat-wise most of these woman have multi-baby daddies while the dudes usually have this one messed up chick then go off be married etc.
Even without stats and facts its clear that if a chick has 4 5 kids all by diff dudes and her mom, her moms mom is the same. And all the dudes go off leave and find someone get married happily ever after while the woman keeps having baby daddy after baby daddy. Its easy to see she is the common denominator, the problem.
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Originally Posted by red mpls
This.
Some of y'all should really work on self-reflection and start thinking more critically. I mean, what is the role that men play in this equation if all of these girls are lacking father figures? Oh, let me guess, it's always the woman's fault that the father leaves. Are boys not lacking father figures? Does this not affect them??
It's obvious that some of y'all have some serious issues with women. Maybe you should work on them instead of constantly trying to over-analyze, diagnose, and criticize each and every thing about the few women on which you base your generalizations.
They arent generalizations they are stats/facts etc that prove these thoughts ppl speaking on. And one of the major facts that favors usually its the woman fault is that stat-wise most of these woman have multi-baby daddies while the dudes usually have this one messed up chick then go off be married etc.
Even without stats and facts its clear that if a chick has 4 5 kids all by diff dudes and her mom, her moms mom is the same. And all the dudes go off leave and find someone get married happily ever after while the woman keeps having baby daddy after baby daddy. Its easy to see she is the common denominator, the problem.
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And of course the chick I should be with wants to get her George Washington on and maintain isolation. Smh.
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And of course the chick I should be with wants to get her George Washington on and maintain isolation. Smh.
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Chill son.
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Chill son.
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Yeah i don't get what duke is trying to do right now.
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Yeah i don't get what duke is trying to do right now.
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Word...The !*@@ is wrong with that guy
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Word...The !*@@ is wrong with that guy
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Learned this the hard way...It's was turrrable
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Learned this the hard way...It's was turrrable
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I understand that this is one topic, but it's reflective of a much larger trend on here where men making sweeping indictments and stereotypes about women while failing to see how whatever the topic is plays out in the lives of males as well. Like, in this post you state that in the Black community, GIRLS not having a father figure is "very common" and that "our generation is having kids crazy right now and that generation will be even worse." Aren't there just as many Black BOYS growing up without father figures?? If you look at essentially any measure of outcomes in the Black community (high school graduation, college attendance, incarceration, mortality, etc.), boys are doing MUCH worse than girls. So why is essentially everyone in this thread ignoring the impact of fatherlessness on MALES???
Originally Posted by LDJ
Originally Posted by red mpls
This.
Some of y'all should really work on self-reflection and start thinking more critically. I mean, what is the role that men play in this equation if all of these girls are lacking father figures? Oh, let me guess, it's always the woman's fault that the father leaves. Are boys not lacking father figures? Does this not affect them??
It's obvious that some of y'all have some serious issues with women. Maybe you should work on them instead of constantly trying to over-analyze, diagnose, and criticize each and every thing about the few women on which you base your generalizations.
They arent generalizations they are stats/facts etc that prove these thoughts ppl speaking on. And one of the major facts that favors usually its the woman fault is that stat-wise most of these woman have multi-baby daddies while the dudes usually have this one messed up chick then go off be married etc.
Even without stats and facts its clear that if a chick has 4 5 kids all by diff dudes and her mom, her moms mom is the same. And all the dudes go off leave and find someone get married happily ever after while the woman keeps having baby daddy after baby daddy. Its easy to see she is the common denominator, the problem.
Probably the most asinine post in this thread. Please show me the "statistics" and "facts" that reinforce your "arguments." Please.
Otherwise, keep your mouth shut about things you know nothing about. Please.
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I understand that this is one topic, but it's reflective of a much larger trend on here where men making sweeping indictments and stereotypes about women while failing to see how whatever the topic is plays out in the lives of males as well. Like, in this post you state that in the Black community, GIRLS not having a father figure is "very common" and that "our generation is having kids crazy right now and that generation will be even worse." Aren't there just as many Black BOYS growing up without father figures?? If you look at essentially any measure of outcomes in the Black community (high school graduation, college attendance, incarceration, mortality, etc.), boys are doing MUCH worse than girls. So why is essentially everyone in this thread ignoring the impact of fatherlessness on MALES???
Originally Posted by LDJ
Originally Posted by red mpls
This.
Some of y'all should really work on self-reflection and start thinking more critically. I mean, what is the role that men play in this equation if all of these girls are lacking father figures? Oh, let me guess, it's always the woman's fault that the father leaves. Are boys not lacking father figures? Does this not affect them??
It's obvious that some of y'all have some serious issues with women. Maybe you should work on them instead of constantly trying to over-analyze, diagnose, and criticize each and every thing about the few women on which you base your generalizations.
They arent generalizations they are stats/facts etc that prove these thoughts ppl speaking on. And one of the major facts that favors usually its the woman fault is that stat-wise most of these woman have multi-baby daddies while the dudes usually have this one messed up chick then go off be married etc.
Even without stats and facts its clear that if a chick has 4 5 kids all by diff dudes and her mom, her moms mom is the same. And all the dudes go off leave and find someone get married happily ever after while the woman keeps having baby daddy after baby daddy. Its easy to see she is the common denominator, the problem.
Probably the most asinine post in this thread. Please show me the "statistics" and "facts" that reinforce your "arguments." Please.
Otherwise, keep your mouth shut about things you know nothing about. Please.
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From what I notice is that their a lil crazier.
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From what I notice is that their a lil crazier.
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Originally Posted by Patrick Bateman
Originally Posted by hombrelobo
Same here. 90% (1 out of 10) girls I "Seriously" dated lacked father figures.
The question I have is..why are they attracted to me?
Did you lack a father figure as well?
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Originally Posted by Patrick Bateman
Originally Posted by hombrelobo
Same here. 90% (1 out of 10) girls I "Seriously" dated lacked father figures.
The question I have is..why are they attracted to me?
Did you lack a father figure as well?
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I can relate on some of the scenarios in this thread shorty had a dude knocking her down 2 weeks later I just charged it to the game as a lesson learned.She always had an attitude also like she had no respect for men at all, She'll do certain %+$$ and when I checked her about it she would argue with me about for hours and catch a %!!@# fit.
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I can relate on some of the scenarios in this thread shorty had a dude knocking her down 2 weeks later I just charged it to the game as a lesson learned.She always had an attitude also like she had no respect for men at all, She'll do certain %+$$ and when I checked her about it she would argue with me about for hours and catch a %!!@# fit.
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truth.