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i don't think it's necessary to let people know i met her online. at the least i might say i saw her on facebook or something
For Those Of You That Met Your BF/GF Online, Do You Lie About Where You Met Them?
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My cousin met his wife online in an AIM chatroom 9 years ago. I don't see a problem with it
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Yo, I'll throw it out there..... since this is the Intrawebz and anonymous and all.... I met my girl back in the myspace days and she posted a bulletin about wanting to see Pineapple Express, and i hit her up saying that i wanted to see it too, and the rest is history
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DC, where do you come up with these questions?
DC, where do you come up with these questions?
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this.
i aint gon lie tho, i met some of my JOs online.
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Lemme get this straight..If you meet a chick off, let's say, Myspace, and you end up dating for a few months then you're a socially ******ed spazz...But if you go on Myspace and bag a chick to smash a few times then cut her off, you're a pimp? Why wouldn't hittin' up chicks online to pipe also be considered not having any game? You can bag girls at the mall, at the club, at the bar, etc.. that can just be used for the purposes of sex..So if a dude is smashin' chicks off myspace rather than from his local pickup spots, then that guy should also be frowned upon.
Sheee, there was a 50 page thread about "Lemme holla Vol. Myspace Chicks" and everybody was hyping up every guy that was successful in getting a number off myspace...I personally never met a girl off the internet, whether it was for dating or sex reasons, but I knew a few people that have and they're 100% socially normal and probably have more friends than 75% of the people posting in this thread saying they must be weird
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Sheee, there was a 50 page thread about "Lemme holla Vol. Myspace Chicks" and everybody was hyping up every guy that was successful in getting a number off myspace...I personally never met a girl off the internet, whether it was for dating or sex reasons, but I knew a few people that have and they're 100% socially normal and probably have more friends than 75% of the people posting in this thread saying they must be weird
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The way social-media is in 2010, I don't think there should be any shame in someone meeting a significant other online. If this was 5 years ago, sure...lie. Tell em' you met your GF in the library instead of saying you asked A/S/L in a AOL chat.
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For a dude to admit to this gives off a wack impression, like your a straight panocha
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as have IOriginally Posted by Messyyy
this.
i aint gon lie tho, i met some of my JOs online.
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I think it's more embarrassing to be so insecure that you have to lie about where you met someone because you're so afraid of what other people will think. Is it that big of a deal? People meet online all the time and form serious bonds. If you can do business with a person who's thousands of miles away why not this?
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I'd feel corny....unless... I met her on NT
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right. when you think about it, it's not any more lame than becoming good friends with someone you met on a sneaker forum...
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Waiting for someone to say CHATROULETTE
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i think it's more accepted nowadays since virtually everyone uses the comp and interacts with so many people online. Years ago it was seen as a being desperate.
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i aint gonna front... I got an ex girl that I met off myspace...*she hit me up first thou
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needless to say after 6 months... that $%^& aint end well and that broad was crazy
needless to say after 6 months... that $%^& aint end well and that broad was crazy
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but why not be honest about where you REALLY met the girl?
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id lie. even though it may seem to be accepted since everyone is on the net. its still kinda eerie. imagine that convo at turkey day...
"so how'd you two meet?"
"uh---era--uh"
"so how'd you two meet?"
"uh---era--uh"
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what if you met them on craigslist?
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I feel like eating some sugar daddies.
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Perhaps, and correct if I'm wrong DC, he's talking people finding their BF/GF specifically from those dating websites that are geared towards match making. In this day and age everyone is on the internet, be it sneaker message boards like NT, Facebook, etc . etc. I'm sure lots of us have someone met or found someone new as a friend or associate courtesy of the internet. However, if someone is going on the internet SOLEY for the purposes of finding their true love or a partner for life then maybe that's where the phrase " a social recluse" comes into play.
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Nah I am including FB and MySpace. Not just Match.com and EHarmony.LOL
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I aint even gonna front...I met broads from my blog and from Twitter. All them +*#* was nuts
-one read every blog post I'd done...which was about 244 at the time. She told me she had 10 bodies and an abortion..which didn't bother me as much as the fact that she'd caught Chlymidia (sp) before
-one was straight up drunk when I met her and other other times when we'd kicked it....then wonders why I wouldnt wife her
-another one was a white chick I'd gotten with but had issues...she'd been raped by her pops...allegedly anyway.
i'll pass on meeting more broads from online. for the most part it's a tossup that leans to a bad side. there's another aspect to online where ppl aint themselves.
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I just love how some of you are acting as if it is REALLY accepted. Yea folks DO it, but I don't think it is really acceptable to TELL people that you met your mate off of the internet. But you can tell yourselves it is ok if you want.
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