psykho
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Gettin the Girls - A Comprehensive Guide (LONG READ)
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i'll use "what i gotta do/say to make you smile" and "hey i thought you were cute and wanted to say hi" lines. Besides those i dont seeanything else working
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^^Lastnight must've been rough...
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DeadsetAce
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it's really not all that serious...people over think the whole "approaching girls at the bar"...if you're a decent looking and well puttogether dude, you don't need any little tricks or anything like that
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smh u hit it right on the head. last night was like my first rejection in a while so my self esteem dropped and i checked this thread in mybookmarks
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This man knows what he is talking about. Seriously, the guide is cool and has a lot of great pointers, but imo, its over complicating things abit. Like my man (No %@!$) said, if your decent looking, and well put together, and you see someone you want to talk to, then just GO TALK TO HER. She mightreject you, MIGHT. But if you don't say anything, then you for sure know that she's going to reject you. Simple as that.Originally Posted by DeadsetAce
it's really not all that serious...people over think the whole "approaching girls at the bar"...if you're a decent looking and well put together dude, you don't need any little tricks or anything like that
Most important thing on that guide was the first part. That is 100% correct. You can't do Sh!% without cleaning up you first. Swing big, miss big, no bigdeal. Females are human just like you.
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what if you don't ask for her number when yall first meet. but you get home and she found you on FB. then you send her a message with your # saying youenjoyed talking to her that day. and she never writes back? :'(
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So it was my first day back in class a few days ago... I'm in college btw.
I came in pretty early and sat down in the seat that I wanted, so this girl walked in and stared at me then took a seat right next to me, and then throughoutthe whole class she kept staring at me.
From an angle of my eyes I can tell she is clearly staring at me, but I try not to make eyes contact, and when I caught her looking she look away instantly.
How should I approach this girl? haha
Should I just ask her next class if she have a pen I can borrow? and starts from there?
I came in pretty early and sat down in the seat that I wanted, so this girl walked in and stared at me then took a seat right next to me, and then throughoutthe whole class she kept staring at me.
From an angle of my eyes I can tell she is clearly staring at me, but I try not to make eyes contact, and when I caught her looking she look away instantly.
How should I approach this girl? haha
Should I just ask her next class if she have a pen I can borrow? and starts from there?
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A benefit/side effect of becoming successful, is that you build more confidence/self esteem, and tend to be more bold/aggressive which will indirectly help you pull girls.
I'm sure we all have Uncles that were players in the 80s/90s and are now broke, cause they wasted the most valuable years of their lives chasing women.
In contrast, when you look at High School Reunions, it's usually the Nerdy/Smart dudes who never got any play, who are doing well. I call it the "Mike Jones" Phenomenon - back then @@$% didnt want me now im hot @@$% all on me
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So it was my first day back in class a few days ago... I'm in college btw.
I came in pretty early and sat down in the seat that I wanted, so this girl walked in and stared at me then took a seat right next to me, and then throughout the whole class she kept staring at me.
From an angle of my eyes I can tell she is clearly staring at me, but I try not to make eyes contact, and when I caught her looking she look away instantly.
How should I approach this girl? haha
Should I just ask her next class if she have a pen I can borrow? and starts from there?
hmmmmmm.....how about you just TALK to her on sum school tip .
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thanks!
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Real talk...don't think too much..and just chop it up. There was this girl I recognized in class n I chopped it up with her...we didn't really say muchn the conversation didn't really go nowhere but I aint pay no mind...
next class we had she didn't sit by me but It didn't phase me becuz I'm in school for school...the females will come. Friday comes along...and shesteps in, all dressed up...looks into my row, which happens to be completely empty, and sits right next to ur boy. We chop it up even more, which sheinitiates, and it pretty much goes on from there...I aint sayin I'm about to slam dunk this chick, cuz I might pass her up for some other chick in theclass...but if the oppurtunity permits I might as well scrimmage with her for a lil bit. Just be cool, hold a conversation, and everything else takes care ofitself
next class we had she didn't sit by me but It didn't phase me becuz I'm in school for school...the females will come. Friday comes along...and shesteps in, all dressed up...looks into my row, which happens to be completely empty, and sits right next to ur boy. We chop it up even more, which sheinitiates, and it pretty much goes on from there...I aint sayin I'm about to slam dunk this chick, cuz I might pass her up for some other chick in theclass...but if the oppurtunity permits I might as well scrimmage with her for a lil bit. Just be cool, hold a conversation, and everything else takes care ofitself
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So has anyone tried anything lol?
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well since there is already an established attraction you can pretty much say anything.
Just say hey to her and how was her day.
Other things you could ask her as a conversation starter are:
"did u do the homework?"
"did you read __(whatever was suppose to be read for class)?"
"did you buy the book?"
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^ haha aight i'mma try out some of the stuff you guys said today
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Why don't you post a pic of your girl that was supposedly on JJB? You know they're still waiting on an update.
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No.
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Yeeeah, how about don't EVER do that.
Is this the same thing you posted over at $##%...looks familiar?
Good thread though.
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i tried gettin at this filipino chick at the jolibees order window...so here it goes i pull up order some food with my boy and she a cutie, so i grub and idecide to get at her, i drive back in and order 2 pies shes like "is that all" i say " are you gunna be at the window" "yea" imlike coo so pull up and i tell her shes preatty and if i could take her out sometime and she shoots me down she like no! but deep down i know she wanted it
so i leave my number on a receipt and tell her to call me if she changes her mind....it aint that hard fellas take chances and see where it takes you.
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bahahaOriginally Posted by chokeonsmoke
i tried gettin at this filipino chick at the jolibees order window...so here it goes i pull up order some food with my boy and she a cutie, so i grub and i decide to get at her, i drive back in and order 2 pies shes like "is that all" i say " are you gunna be at the window" "yea" im like coo so pull up and i tell her shes preatty and if i could take her out sometime and she shoots me down she like no! but deep down i know she wanted itso i leave my number on a receipt and tell her to call me if she changes her mind....it aint that hard fellas take chances and see where it takes you.
Kind of reminds me of this time where I was pulling up into a McDs and saw one of my friend HS friends working the drive-thru. I literally pulled up and aftermy order I just said through the two-way, "tell Mar she makes the uniform look right"
The whole staff heard, mad corny, but I still got drinks out of it the night of.
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YNS. Naw haha, I'm just kidding. That was cool
appreciated fam!
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Originally Posted by TheAbove
bahahaOriginally Posted by chokeonsmoke
i tried gettin at this filipino chick at the jolibees order window...so here it goes i pull up order some food with my boy and she a cutie, so i grub and i decide to get at her, i drive back in and order 2 pies shes like "is that all" i say " are you gunna be at the window" "yea" im like coo so pull up and i tell her shes preatty and if i could take her out sometime and she shoots me down she like no! but deep down i know she wanted itso i leave my number on a receipt and tell her to call me if she changes her mind....it aint that hard fellas take chances and see where it takes you.
Kind of reminds me of this time where I was pulling up into a McDs and saw one of my friend HS friends working the drive-thru. I literally pulled up and after my order I just said through the two-way, "tell Mar she makes the uniform look right"
The whole staff heard, mad corny, but I still got drinks out of it the night of.
i had a feeling she was gunna say no cus her boss was cockblocking and most girls are uncomfortable at work...nonotheless i got at her and i cant wait for thenext opportunity at the next one
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Has anyone ever successfully pulled an Elevator Pick-Up on a girl?
...even the way Harold picked up Maria was golden.
...even the way Harold picked up Maria was golden.
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Asking a girl out on a date after a 2 min convo= 80% fail rate.
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