Girl and I like each other...but she's moving away for grad school. *another pic added on page 3*

[41239]

Originally Posted by NikeAirForce1

We've been friends , but I hadn't seen her in four years until last week. Four years ago, she told me she held me in the same regard as her boyfriend at that time... whatever that means

. I didn't act on it...cause she had a boyfriend and she was moving away for college.

Last week, I visited her and her twin sister (not identical) at their college (I was checking out the school). We ended up on going what felt like a double date with her sister and her boyfriend. Why did it feel like a double date? We sat together for lunch, went to to get frozen yogurt and ended up sitting with her sister and her bf, but having our own conversation. Whenever we were walking, she would slow down to separate from her sister and her bf so that we could have our alone time I guess. We ended up going to a festival of sorts and walked around alone but there wasn't really anything interesting. So she says let's go sit on the grass under the trees (in a secluded area, obviously so we can be alone and talk privately) cause I was going to have to leave soon. 5 minutes in, her sister shows up, but it was time for me to go anyway.

long story short, in about a month, I'm going to see her again for orientation. This time she's gonna be alone cause she's taking summer classes. We could have the whole weekend together if I decide to stay that long. Do I make the move? The thing is that she's moving away across country in a couple of months for grad school. Should I ask if I can stay in her apartment? or is that too creepy?

What's my move, NT?

cliffs.

girl probably likes me and I like her.
about to spend a weekend alone with her.
she's moving away for grad school in a couple of months
What's my move?

just let things flow, you can ask about you guys' situation, but dont pressure a relationship and definitely dont ask to stay at her place, if shes into you that much then she will seriously propose it

 

[champ305]

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Whip it out.







Not even kidding. Its all or nothing homie.

i wholeheartedly agree with this in this situation!

 

[|A-Man|]

You gonna keep us updated right OP?

 

[nothingtol0se]

Have you guys talked about you staying there for the weekend? If yes, and she seems genuinely happy about it...then spend the weekend.

As far as staying at her place, just ask her about it. Say something like 'hey, do you think i can just crash at your place? I don't really want to spend that much on a place where i'll barely be in. I'm more than okay with the couch. I'll treat you out for your troubles!'

...obviously, if she's feeling you, you most def. wont be sleeping on the couch.

and if you're friendzoned...

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[iluvjordanxi]

Judging by her appearance... She looks like the type of girl that is sweet and sophisticated. Don't smash and dash, having a significant other that can challenge you to become a better person is way better than just intercourse. She looks like a keeper but your story ain't all that convincing about her being into you.

 

[crazy dav0]

pics

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tell her how u feel ... beat ... and then let her make the next move ... answer these questions and then you'll know what to do ... How would you feel if u kept it to yourself and you run into her in a few years and she wifed up ... "plant the seed" now ...

long distance is rough ... and u young ... beat it and keep in touch ... don't get serious unless u really really feeling her ...

 

[nikeairforce1]

Originally Posted by dmxgod

Originally Posted by NikeAirForce1

We've been friends , but I hadn't seen her in four years until last week. Four years ago, she told me she held me in the same regard as her boyfriend at that time... whatever that means

. I didn't act on it...cause she had a boyfriend and she was moving away for college.



Last week, I visited her and her twin sister (not identical) at their college (I was checking out the school). We ended up on going what felt like a double date with her sister and her boyfriend. Why did it feel like a double date? We sat together for lunch, went to to get frozen yogurt and ended up sitting with her sister and her bf, but having our own conversation. Whenever we were walking, she would slow down to separate from her sister and her bf so that we could have our alone time I guess. We ended up going to a festival of sorts and walked around alone but there wasn't really anything interesting. So she says let's go sit on the grass under the trees (in a secluded area, obviously so we can be alone and talk privately) cause I was going to have to leave soon. 5 minutes in, her sister shows up, but it was time for me to go anyway.



long story short, in about a month, I'm going to see her again for orientation. This time she's gonna be alone cause she's taking summer classes. We could have the whole weekend together if I decide to stay that long. Do I make the move? The thing is that she's moving away across country in a couple of months for grad school. Should I ask if I can stay in her apartment? or is that too creepy?



What's my move, NT?



cliffs.



girl probably likes me and I like her.

about to spend a weekend alone with her.

she's moving away for grad school in a couple of months

What's my move?

I could tell this was written with a smile on your face..the story seemed very nice

..seems like the typical girl that likes a person..wantin a little alone time to talk n whatnot..and you seem like the typical dude that likes a person and not wantin to make the wrong move..but she's movin across the country so it is definitely goin to b difficult in order to develop any kind of relationship..what are your plans first of all? Are you willin to move across the country for a female? Those are some questions..just don't go for the weekend and expect to hit it and leave at the end of the weekend..if you think it can work out then stay with her as she gets her grad degree..

definitely had a smile lol.. I have a smile just from reading this thread

a lot of funny, but conflicting opinions here.

Originally Posted by NothingToL0se

Have you guys talked about you staying there for the weekend? If yes, and she seems genuinely happy about it...then spend the weekend.



As far as staying at her place, just ask her about it. Say something like 'hey, do you think i can just crash at your place? I don't really want to spend that much on a place where i'll barely be in. I'm more than okay with the couch. I'll treat you out for your troubles!'



...obviously, if she's feeling you, you most def. wont be sleeping on the couch.



and if you're friendzoned...

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this was pretty much my plan down to the T

Originally Posted by IluvJordanXI

Judging by her appearance... She looks like the type of girl that is sweet and sophisticated. Don't smash and dash, having a significant other that can challenge you to become a better person is way better than just intercourse. She looks like a keeper but your story ain't all that convincing about her being into you.

this. all of this. it's not exactly a slam dunk that she likes me, but there's definitely something there. I think I just gotta make the move.


so my next question is, when do I ask cause this ain't happening for another 5 weeks.



and they aren't identical twins! this chick is prettier.

 

[nikeairforce1]

Originally Posted by champ305

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Whip it out.















Not even kidding. Its all or nothing homie.

i wholeheartedly agree with this in this situation!

I would, but I'm a grower.

 

[nikeairforce1]

another pic since yall been so helpful.

she's on the right.

 

[odog24]

she must have a great personality

keep smangin

 

[tr1ll]

Thats not her bff is it?

Yea....you better jump on that now, son. Before Tyrone does.

 

[lil black jean jacket]

Originally Posted by odog24

she must have a great personality

keep smangin

^what he said

 

[DPancakes]

Have sex with her boyfriend, her and the twin. Win-win situation all around!

 

[nikeairforce1]

bump for weekday crowd

 

[beh235]

Originally Posted by NikeAirForce1

Originally Posted by champ305

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Whip it out.















Not even kidding. Its all or nothing homie.

i wholeheartedly agree with this in this situation!

I would, but I'm a grower.

 My man, WHAT are you doing? We ain't need to know that. A simple "no" would have been fine. Hell, you didn't have to even answer to that. Smh...

. Nobody caught that response? 

 

[|A-Man|]

Update? You smash yet OP? The weekend is over.

 

[nikeairforce1]

Originally Posted by beh235

NikeAirForce1 wrote:

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champ305 wrote:

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Tr1ll wrote:

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Whip it out.















Not even kidding. Its all or nothing homie.

i wholeheartedly agree with this in this situation!




I would, but I'm a grower.

 My man, WHAT are you doing? We ain't need to know that. A simple "no" would have been fine. Hell, you didn't have to even answer to that. Smh...

. Nobody caught that response? 

and I'm not gonna see her until the last weekend of june. I've said this multiple times...

 

[boomboomskeetskeet]

Originally Posted by NikeAirForce1

Originally Posted by champ305

i wholeheartedly agree with this in this situation!

I would, but I'm a grower.

you wildin

 

[whyhellothere]

she's adorable. like a baby bunny.
smash it dead


*dead* @ the grower comment.

 

[JCMojica24]

You better hit that my dude!!

 

[eiddyfouw]

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Thats not her bff is it?

Yea....you better jump on that now, son. Before Tyrone does.

 

[luong1209]

She's cute 

...

 

[ricky409]

i'm changing my name to tyrone so i can get all the simps' yambs...

 

[picknroll24]

Originally Posted by eiddyfouw

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Thats not her bff is it?

Yea....you better jump on that now, son. Before Tyrone does.

don't tell me these dudes are bringing that Misc mentality here

 

[pr0phecy718]

Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Thats not her bff is it?

Yea....you better jump on that now, son. Before Tyrone does.