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no but if thats your girl and yall are doing good whats wrong with buyin her things and her buyin you things?
Have you ever bought a girl a designer bag?
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no but if thats your girl and yall are doing good whats wrong with buyin her things and her buyin you things?
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...PLUS i've been with her for 5 years...Originally Posted by KayCurrency
nah you a simp bro, pretty obvious....pathetic tooOriginally Posted by Stork
Originally Posted by KayCurrency
Someone's really going to have to explain the "simpin" thing to me
Love the CL's... Would like to see the Manolo's sitting up, I like the Mary Jane style :nods
NT Thinks spending money on a woman is "Simpin'"....The same males that wait in line for 2 days for a pair of gym shoes and/or has never seen a Vagina in person
but hey if you have to wine and dine her + buy her heels to get P do you
I was gettin' ready to say...
I don't know Kay like that---but he strikes me as the kinda guy who would only be doin' that for somebody was a DOWN %%+ chick. He got the money to doso, so let him do it.
And you need to stop buying shoes and buy a ring
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Originally Posted by air max 87
Originally Posted by KayCurrency
Someone's really going to have to explain the "simpin" thing to me
Love the CL's... Would like to see the Manolo's sitting up, I like the Mary Jane style :nods
NT Thinks spending money on a woman is "Simpin'"....The same males that wait in line for 2 days for a pair of gym shoes and/or has never seen a Vagina in person
word, take a girl out to eat "yall simpin blah blah" majority of these dudes act like they gettin buns at the look of an eye
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I think it sends the wrong message, its a slap in the face of her independence.
I'm not her father, she wants something she should get it herself, I'll be there to support her good decision.
I love my girl enough to want her to be able to succeed with or without me.
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So you been with your girl for 4 yrs and you think it is simpin to buy her a bag for her bday, christmas etc? Im not talking about just buyinwhatever she wants and if you the only one spending it then that may be a problem, but there is nothing wrong with buyin your lady nice gifts for specialoccasions.Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
No,
we go half of airplane tixx tho.
she can buy herself the wedding ring if she likes, she got more $$$ than I do.I think it is, just an acceptable version.
You're sending the wrong message by buying her something. go feed her doggy treats when she remembers what beer you like while you're at it
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Yeah, every time I give a loved one a birthday/Christmas present it's a slap in their face.
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Why does that have to be the reason whyOriginally Posted by KayCurrency
You sound Broke...So im assuming you are....
Fam' I Bring home enough money to Spend $600+ on a pair of heels and not even have to check the balance of my checking acount...PLUS i've been with her for 5 years...
Not to mention i'd have your girl Open and ready to do whatever I wanted her to do off my conversation alone...
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sorry that you still believe in the antiquated Archie bunker vision of a woman that cooks, cleans, and bores your ears off but my woman is myequal.Originally Posted by Dr Spaceman
Some of ya'll disgusting, and truely don't deserve a woman that loves you.
I'm fronting on the wedding ring tho, I think it will all change at marriage but I think its important to "draw lines in the sand" when it comesto relationships and let it be known that you are both there to hold your own until you are married.
JUST HOW I DO!
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nah man...spending ANY money on a girl is "simping."Originally Posted by UTVOL23
So you been with your girl for 4 yrs and you think it is simpin to buy her a bag for her bday, christmas etc? Im not talking about just buyin whatever she wants and if you the only one spending it then that may be a problem, but there is nothing wrong with buyin your lady nice gifts for special occasions.Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
No,
we go half of airplane tixx tho.
she can buy herself the wedding ring if she likes, she got more $$$ than I do.I think it is, just an acceptable version.
You're sending the wrong message by buying her something. go feed her doggy treats when she remembers what beer you like while you're at it
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I guess cuz they don't think it would go both ways....
I myself, would just LOVE to find a man to buy these for
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Originally Posted by XxHonchoxX
Word to "The Hangover".
That's real talk though. Why would I spend MY money for a female to look right, when I could use that money on a fly %%% satchel to accommodate my Jesuspiece and LV shades....
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Damn I don't know about all that. If me and my girl in that type of relationship aint nothing wrong with her copping me random gifts and medoing the same.
I do pull the equality/independence cards frequently tho when chicks try to make it one sided, which they often do.
But mouse I think you know it's a rarity for some chicks to be buying dudes gifts, especially on a whim.
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So because a man doesn't want to buy his woman expensive/shallow/materialistic items, that means he doesn't DESERVE her in his life? I mean for one, Ipersonally don't even want to be romantically associated with a woman that would even WANT me to spend $200+ on a purse for her. I don't like womenlike that.
I appreciate low maintenance females, that don't require or EXPECT to be wined and dined JUST BECAUSE she is my woman. Her being my woman doesn'tentitle her to unlimited gifts.
But we have different attitudes on this subject.
I would never do it.
I appreciate low maintenance females, that don't require or EXPECT to be wined and dined JUST BECAUSE she is my woman. Her being my woman doesn'tentitle her to unlimited gifts.
But we have different attitudes on this subject.
I would never do it.
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Where you get that? I believe if i'm in a committed relationship we're one, i'm gonna love that woman for who she is, through andthrough, i know her needs/wants and vice versa, and i don't need to do things to "train" her, she's not a dog nor a doormat, i would neverget in a relationship with a person who stands for that. Something as trivial as a gift would never change that.Originally Posted by ThunderChunk69
sorry that you still believe in the antiquated Archie bunker vision of a woman that cooks, cleans, and bores your ears off but my woman is my equal.Originally Posted by Dr Spaceman
Some of ya'll disgusting, and truely don't deserve a woman that loves you.
I'm fronting on the wedding ring tho, I think it will all change at marriage but I think its important to "draw lines in the sand" when it comes to relationships and let it be known that you are both there to hold your own until you are married.
JUST HOW I DO!
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not really...i think it is harder to buy a guy random gifts tho...
you can't be bringing home rims and tvs every check...at least of his bday and what not he can tell you what he wants...
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Simping = spending money and giving gifts to bag girls because your game is weak
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Originally Posted by davidisgodly
you're going to have a rough NT career.
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Who said gifts were a necessity? the problem is when you actually make up in your mind that you're never giving her a gift, because it maychange her world view. If that's the case, you don't deserve her.
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It all goes back to the idea that some dudes have been conditioned (by society and other women (maybe their mothers)); that women DESERVE things for the sakeof being women. Dudes need to understand that women need to EARN special things. Those things include time, attention, and GIFTS. Until they show that they areworthy of these things, they shouldn't get ANYTHING
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gifts and whatever is expected or required...but i do expect to be wined and dined because i am your woman...i don't expect to be treated like every otherfemales...
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No.
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I'm gonna take a wild $%+ guess and assume that you are single. Seems like you are on the path of having some sort of 3rd grade sticker chart for"rewards" when you do get in a relationship...
If you're happy in a relationship, there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with spending money on your girl. There are dudes who go overboard and overextendtheir generosity too soon, but if you've been with someone for a long time, what's the problem of splurging every once in a while on the person youcare about? Some of you guys are so +#* backwards and have all these rules which are prohibiting you from maybe meeting someone who may be good for you...
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Just get a dog, live happily ever after together.
