it's context.
they just put that because cats (in here) talk about going over to the crib first date to smash, no casual meet up in person, or they send messages insinuating to that effect, comes off as desperate.
if she's down to meet up for a drink, generally it can be finessed ~50% of the time, maybe more.
reverse psychology - a while back I actually had put just 1 line in my tinder bio "no hook ups"
I meet up with a cute filipina chick, pierced tongue, she said part of the reason she matched me is because I had that line my bio
she deep throated me later that night
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