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i with a girl and i cheated a bunch of times and she knew but she still stayed with me its been to years wince i last talked to her and she said i never wannahear from you again
How BAD is cheating, really? Could you get over it? Are you SURE?
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some peoples responses seem really bizarre to me, reason being you have to understand a man to really understand what cheating is for MOST of us. It iscompletely physical, there is no love/emotion/feelings involved. They are just a body, just a fuxx... I don't even remember some of their names. Its just acasual act, therefore when i get back to my wife aka "home" I didn't come from making love or wining/dining.....we are not loving these hosmannnnn. The sooner women understand this the sooner the more simple their life will be.
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i must say I agreeOriginally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
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op always making threads about females and #*$!
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This exact situation happened to me 3 weeks ago and i dropped shorty.
She was tainted in my eyes.
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Real Talk ....
I've never cheated before
When it comes to me gettin into a relationship
I become super faithful
I seen what cheating will do to someone well a woman first hand
My mother was cheated on when I was younger
And I saw how hurt she was
And me and her have such a close relationship that I said I would never make a woman feel the way she felt
I've never cheated before
When it comes to me gettin into a relationship
I become super faithful
I seen what cheating will do to someone well a woman first hand
My mother was cheated on when I was younger
And I saw how hurt she was
And me and her have such a close relationship that I said I would never make a woman feel the way she felt
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tru story!!
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Thank you for your honesty. I basically said what you said, but I was the one betrayed. What I bolded in what you said is very true. It is suchself-destructive behaviour. It is one of the most despicable selfish acts you can do. To give someone that false sense of security, trust, and love. The lies,the deceit,the betrayal. You sharing all that with the one who was your supposed one and only, and then giving it to someone else just as easy. Then what wassacred anymore? How can you love someone and do that to them? I still have all these questions that will never be answered. Definitely has shook me to thecore.
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Ever since my second girl friend who let me smash (10th grade) I've been cheating.
Then I found out she cheated on me, and I forgave her... but I never exposed myself.
I think cheating is a fickle thing. I can cheat and duel with guilt and rationale long enough, but I would never tell a girl I claim as a girlfriend that Icheated on her. I'd feel guilty about it, but I wouldn't tattle on myself. If she found out what was going on on her own, then I would expect to getdumped. if she didn't leave me, I'd end it because that just lets me know she's foolish and blinded by something that clearly isn't love.
But if I ever found out a girl cheated on me, we're done. Period. I wouldn't look at her the same, ever.
Then I found out she cheated on me, and I forgave her... but I never exposed myself.
I think cheating is a fickle thing. I can cheat and duel with guilt and rationale long enough, but I would never tell a girl I claim as a girlfriend that Icheated on her. I'd feel guilty about it, but I wouldn't tattle on myself. If she found out what was going on on her own, then I would expect to getdumped. if she didn't leave me, I'd end it because that just lets me know she's foolish and blinded by something that clearly isn't love.
But if I ever found out a girl cheated on me, we're done. Period. I wouldn't look at her the same, ever.
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but the point is that you're completely ignoring the effect of your actions, regardless of the fact that it's "just physical,"on your girl and your relationship.
in other words... you chose to ignore and abandon your relationship and your girl...just so that you can get a piece.
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Originally Posted by Enlightened Thought
Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
Originally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
THIS IS HOW EVERY MAN ON EARTH FEELS. THE END
essentially.
I think that's how every person on earth is... Females cheat too, they just don't get caught as much as guys do to be honest. With that said (andI'm going to put myself out there a little bit, but who cares) I HAVE NEVER Cheated... and don't ever see myself going through with cheating. I'mnot going to lie and act like there have been females I didn't see myself messing with while taken, but I can never go through with it. Why? Because when Iwas in HS I was cheated on... and this was back before I lost my V-Card... and to make things worse, the girl cheated on me with another girl, and I caughther. I remember what that hurt felt like... and I honestly couldn't do that to someone else.
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It's the worst.
Just the simple fact of putting your own and ultimately someone else's health in danger just for physical gratification shows you didn't love thatperson let alone care about their feelings in first place.
The two don't coincide.
Just the simple fact of putting your own and ultimately someone else's health in danger just for physical gratification shows you didn't love thatperson let alone care about their feelings in first place.
The two don't coincide.
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at this point in my relationship, if either one of us cheated it would be a wrap ...
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As you know, I've been through this. Mine wasn't the typical scenario in that I found out years after the fact. Still, it's hard to forgive.Especially when you never crossed that line, never even came close, and were constantly hounded for similar things.
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if you cheat on a girl and you tell her you are a weak person
there is no reason to make her feel bad about
you did it now live with it thats your burdden you have to bare
not hers
there is no reason to make her feel bad about
you did it now live with it thats your burdden you have to bare
not hers
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youre right, and I can't explain why I do it but I do and I'm sure I will again...maybe a lack of self control
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youre right, and I can't explain why I do it but I do and I'm sure I will again...maybe a lack of self control
The Allure of the Game keeps callin ya name... The Game is a Light with Eleven Million Volts and I'm Just A Moth
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a great deal of responses in this thread expose our insecurities as men.
I've never cheated and never will, I have been tempted, but it just isn'tworth it. If I'm with a girl, I'm with her. period.
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Yeah.... aight my __... $@#$ around and be quoting "See I'm a man with pride, you don't do %+*$ like that. I was just %!%%*!@them girls, I was gon get right back" next...
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Originally Posted by Hugo
Originally Posted by YoUNg bR3aD
Originally Posted by SneakerPimp2k8
Originally Posted by freshhh
real talk ima sound like a jerk
but if i cheated, and i still wanted to be with the girl, id think eventually she'd forgive me
but if she was creepin, its a wrap.
i know its not fair, but thats just how it is for me i guess
THIS IS HOW EVERY MAN ON EARTH FEELS. THE END
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Originally Posted by DearWinter219
Yeah.... aight my __... $@#$ around and be quoting "See I'm a man with pride, you don't do %+*$ like that. I was just %!%%*!@ them girls, I was gon get right back" next...
I been there... TRUST ME... I'VE BEEN THERE. Made me the man I am today nonchalant, non jealous, attached yet unattached, with the ability to cut a personoff any minute.
I should send that whor e some roses, but I hate her so naaaaaaaaaah.
