I GOT DRUNK AT MY BEST FRIENDS WEDDING Vol. TEQUILA AND IPA

[cliffordsmith]

Cut him off. F him.

You shouldve never even showed up.

I got people who i consider friends and cousins who did me dirty too. Throw bday parties and i get no invite. Things like that... I just cut them off.... i dont mess with them anymore.

You gotta just ignore him. Find a new set of friends.

I live by Loyalty.. If im close to you and grew up with you and we been cool for over 10 years... I expect to be hit up for things like that. Especially when we chill every single weekend.

I dont tell them nothing. i just ignore and do my own thing.

 

[bendover]

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Toretto!

LMAO, you got me bruh.

I appreciate all the input fam. Maybe I was just too naive and missed all the signs, all I can do now is just keep it pushing.

 

[finallyfamous]

Smash the wife.

Spray paint NT on her back.

Take pic.

Email that to him.

challenge his friend in fifa..

You got this

 

[miketysonthekiller]

Some people react to things differently, how you were raised etc plays a huge factor in to this. I'd say keep both sides of what you're seeing in this thread in mind. You'll notice that some users are more emotional and have a little attachment issue by the way they're telling you to react to this sutiation. Some probably had an important family member walk on them when young and thus react with scorn due to an elevated emotional response to 'betrayal.' Others users obviously don't.

If you feel hurt by this try to view it logically and understand he didn't see the friendship the way you saw it. Blacking out was your probably your way of easying the paind, I suppose, albeit wrong since you agreed to provide a service free of charge. You should keep your word, but I'll cut you some slack since you were probably emotionally affected when you saw two other friends get the title you thought you were fit to receive.

 

[thefasterblade]

What did you do to embarrass yourself? 

 

[nychiphophippo]

i had a homie i considered my best friend outside of my cousins for a long time

i realized after a long time he didn't view our friendship in nearly the same way. now i see him being emo the last couple of months on IG since his relationship with his girl ended, and he hits me up here and there. i feel bad for him, but dude just pulled too much shady **** the past few years.

it goes with any relationship, whether its a girl, ur boy, or ur brother...but when people don't meet expectations you get hurt, and when you lower your expectations of that person to match what they give, then it doesn't anymore.

 

[akajae]

your friend is a buster...

but you definitely didn't help yourself.

cut ties. get your life together.

disregard females, acquire currency.

 

[Ox.]

Smash the wife.

Spray paint NT on her back.

Take pic.

Email that to him.

challenge his friend in fifa..

You got this

came here to say this

 

[serotonins]

So you black out because of him not getting you enough respect... shouldve sat down with him the next day and talk like grown men

 

[kickstart]

***** made. Made a complete *** of yourself and still whining. Get your act together Op. Lucky dude didn't through hands to you when you were sober.

 

[cedric ceballos]

Both sides are wrong imo but op comes across as selfish and sensitive how he handled this.

Your boy or former boy shoulda made it clear that he didn't view the friendship the same way you did and he shouldn't have used you as free labor to dj his party when if he really was your boy you'd be partying and celebrating his wedding with him rather then being the free labor.

Your in the wrong for even agreeing to dj the party in the first place. If that's how you felt, then why even dj his party in the first place. Regardless if you did it for free or got paid. If that situation made you feel some type of way then why bother dj'ing his party.

Getting drunk and acting a fool and embarassing him and you at the same time is a complete selfish move on your part. You may have a gripe with him and that's understandable but to show him up at his wedding party like that is foul to his wife, her family and your boys family and its disrespectful to them as well. You should've never agreed to dj the party in the first place.

He was never a true friend and he was trying to use you but this situation is a case where two wrongs don't make a right.

Aside from that friends change and people change. I've had friends get into serious relationships and act like entirely different people and have had some friends drift apart. Its pointless to beg for another persons friendship. If they don't value the friendship the same way you do then your doing yourself a service by cutting ties with them.

 

[creekshow]

Nah **** that. He wanted to save $$ by having you DJ then he wants to treat you like a straight up employee? He's lucky you even showed up after all that. Sucks you thought yall was closee but he tried to play you fam. Delete his # and get better friends

 

[qualmes]

Don't invest so heavily in people that don't reciprocate the gesture.

Bingo...keep it pushing

 

[ralphsody]

Sounds like he stopped seeing you as a friend a while ago. Kept in touch with you out of neccisity, hence getting you to DJ. Don't stress about it, it's his family and obviously you didn't ruin the wedding.

 

[dakingii]

I see these types of stories online all the time and they always only paint one side of the picture. That side is always making the author look better than they probably are in real life.

The fact that you got blacked out drunk at a supposed friends wedding shows more of your character than what he did.

 

[jayhood23]

That friend that only comes around when they need something

 

[cedric ceballos]

I see these types of stories online all the time and they always only paint one side of the picture. That side is always making the author look better than they probably are in real life.

The fact that you got blacked out drunk at a supposed friends wedding shows more of your character than what he did.

This, despite whatever grudge he may have had with his boy, the wedding (which was important event to the wife also) isn't the place to voice or express frustration towards that grudge.

 

[legendairy stinson]

Seems like he only used you so he can save cash on the DJ. Gotta ask OP, were you guys close before he met his wife or were you guys already distant by then?

 

[slamcity]

F*$^ him OP, he aint a real friend. Dude tells you your life is not in order enough to be his best man, but you can be the DJ at the wedding??? Homie had you at low-value from the Get Go and placed you in his wedding accordingly

 

[bendover]

Seems like he only used you so he can save cash on the DJ. Gotta ask OP, were you guys close before he met his wife or were you guys already distant by then?

He tends to become a Simp when he gets in relationships. He also moved across the country for work. We talked twice a month to catch up but once he proposed that went out the window.

 

[Trillmatic90]

I'd be a little pissed if I were you op. Cut him off.

 

[ROYGBiV]

It was the chick, she got in the way. Most importantly she got in both his heads.

 

[crash bunny rec]

Shoulda pressed him right away about the issue. How you gonna ask a good (maybe best) Friend to do real work at your wedding. Shoulda been a red flag right away.

But ya man I'd prolly cut dude off And keep it very cordial and fake small talk anytime I saw him.

Also not having your life "together" qualifies as not being a best man ??? ***** Not a job interview lol. Real friends should help get through the bad times anyway

 

[Chiron]

 
<40 wedding and hired you to be a DJ to save money?  Dude is bummy anyways, tell him to enjoy his mundane life and marriage and keep it moving

Yeah don't eem trip. If they're already struggling with the cheddar that marriage has like a 79% chance of failure. Most fail strictly because of money. 

 

[joepac12]

How much was he paying u