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Naw. People change, my love for them disappears when they do.
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Originally Posted by its stanley
NO
ok, kant
Originally Posted by nightruans
thats interesting, I think I will always love my ex aka first love... its not going anywhere, even if its concealed within me
Originally Posted by gangsta207therevolution
One thing I have really started to understand is that once you get to know a partner, personally, physical, and in their philosophy toward the relationship you develop a bond. The longer the bond the more likely you will use the word "love" to define how you feel.
Being in love is what compromises you are willing to make for your partner. Loving another person whom you know you won't marry is accepting that you can't as partners make the compromises necessary to make the relationship work.
If you have a deep bond, you two are equal, and you can't make the day to day stuff work then the compromises have to be laid out.
It is, but some people don't experience it until later on in life.Originally Posted by MissKickBack
love isnt real.
Originally Posted by eNPHAN
Originally Posted by gangsta207therevolution
One thing I have really started to understand is that once you get to know a partner, personally, physical, and in their philosophy toward the relationship you develop a bond. The longer the bond the more likely you will use the word "love" to define how you feel.
Being in love is what compromises you are willing to make for your partner. Loving another person whom you know you won't marry is accepting that you can't as partners make the compromises necessary to make the relationship work.
If you have a deep bond, you two are equal, and you can't make the day to day stuff work then the compromises have to be laid out.
i had a bond.
Originally Posted by jawnyquest
i'd like to think so..
i still love everyone i've always loved.. except my most recent ex.. and that's just because she completely changed. i still love the person she used to be, but i'm not even sure that person was even real anymore. i mean so.. as long they haven't changed, i don't get why you/they wouldn't love them/you forever.
I would respectfully disagree. People change. (Both yourself and your loved one) The way I see it, you love someone for who "theyare." If they change (drastically, usually character/personality) then how can you say you never truly loved them? You are still in love with who theyonce were, but some change in the person also cut off any love you had left.Originally Posted by Dathbgboy
U can't stop lovin somebody, if u can, u never loved them in the first place. Now the degree of the love can change but not the presence
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
Listening to a song and this got me to thinking---is this true? If someone truly loves you, will they always love you? I'm so conceited that I hope everyone who ever loved me still does....even if I don't return the favor. I think back on people who I've told I love them and I don't feel that way about them anymore. I already know at least two times I said it and I shouldn't have, that's my bad. I was on that cool @#$@ "I only love people who love me back,"and once somebody said it---I felt obligated to say it back, just, if for no other reason, to be cordial.
If you don't love people who you once did--did you ever really love them? At this juncture, there have been two occasions where I felt really compelled to say it first, regardless of how they felt about me. And those are the two that I still "love." Those are the two that when they get married, unless it's to me, it will be kinda tough (word to Sally) I think even if I'm married, it would still sting. One time I came really close, but I didn't. Wrote it down, but couldn't muster up the courage to go through with it. Prolly wouldn't have changed anything anyway....but I digress.
Now it's 2:40 and I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself. But the real question I pose to you NT is this:
Where do broken hearts go?
Damn you @bifflawson for getting me all sad
Originally Posted by Ryda421
true love is unconditional
I see what you're getting at but you must remember that there's a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone. Thereis no doubt that u can fall out of love with someone. However, once u love someone, u love them. They may change and u may not like the changes but thatdoesn't stop you from loving them. U still love them, just not their new ways.Originally Posted by Juice2352
I would respectfully disagree. People change. (Both yourself and your loved one) The way I see it, you love someone for who "they are." If they change (drastically, usually character/personality) then how can you say you never truly loved them? You are still in love with who they once were, but some change in the person also cut off any love you had left.Originally Posted by Dathbgboy
U can't stop lovin somebody, if u can, u never loved them in the first place. Now the degree of the love can change but not the presence
same chickOriginally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake
Biff....
same chick for both songs? I know if any of mine still felt that way about me, I'd want to know---I don't know why guys wait to say things after the fact
Originally Posted by Juice2352
I would respectfully disagree. People change. (Both yourself and your loved one) The way I see it, you love someone for who "they are." If they change (drastically, usually character/personality) then how can you say you never truly loved them? You are still in love with who they once were, but some change in the person also cut off any love you had left.Originally Posted by Dathbgboy
U can't stop lovin somebody, if u can, u never loved them in the first place. Now the degree of the love can change but not the presence
But I think no matter what you cantOriginally Posted by MikeTysontheKiller
I don't know, I've never experienced true love to begin with