Originally Posted by
DT43
smh...
friend requesting on Facebook is not, and never was a prerequisite for pulling a girl. the first step is getting at her IN REAL LIFE, the next step is getting her number. this past year i smashed multiple chicks at my school who i didnt even add on FB until like 2 weeks after. usually they are the ones who stalk me down and add me, and i dont even know how they find me bc i changed my name on FB.
can you tell me what adding this girl on FB will accomplish OP? Nothing.. if anything it will show her that your pressed, by looking her up and sending her a friend request after you just met. even if she is interested, that would be a turnoff.
i know there are some NTers who will tell you to add her on FB and go smack at her online. all that "can i borrow you" type %@!! works sparingly and only on a small minority of girls. if you want to get a girl, focus on establishing a connection in real life, not online. that means try to casually chill with your friends and this girl again. it sounds like you laid down some groundwork with her, thats good. just continue on that the next time you see her and try to get her number, and from there see if you can transition it from a group setting to just the two of you guys hanging out.
