Ladies....In Love With Another Man?

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With all the cheating and girl threads going on, lets add another one....

Ok, so I know Jazmine is reppin for the ladies and whatnot (i think her cd was good)....but everytime I heard this song it really irked me. I didnt think shewas gonna release a video for it, but here it is.
Now to the discussion: Have you ever been in this situation before? If so what did you do?How did that turn out? Do you regret it? ** Most importantly, how did you find yourself in that situation in the first place?**
 
i just watched that on another site...i like it alot...i don't think she did that video...probably a fan or a director looking to come up...

but i've never been in that situation...
 
What's with all these threads?
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Wow ... some people are salty about their relationships this week ...
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Not you OP , I'm just saying .
 
Women can't help it it's in their nature. Sure YOU be the guy to take care of her and treat her like she "deserves" while I **%% these womenout like they owe me money.
Edit: Really that isn't even a bad word?
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I think with evolution, women are the new men in this era, in terms of being shady, and cheating.

Seriously, women can be so cold in a heartbeat.
 
i dont trust none of them period.

never think you the only one females always got a dude in the minors trying to make it to the big league
 
Originally Posted by MissKickBack



With all the cheating and girl threads going on, lets add another one....

Ok, so I know Jazmine is reppin for the ladies and whatnot (i think her cd was good)....but everytime I heard this song it really irked me. I didnt think she was gonna release a video for it, but here it is.
Now to the discussion: Have you ever been in this situation before? If so what did you do? How did that turn out? Do you regret it? ** Most importantly, how did you find yourself in that situation in the first place?**
UUUhhhmmm, it definitely wasn't love--but I remember when I FIRST heard this song it was definitely not good for mental cuz I had recently metsomeone (not my dude) who I felt myself attracted to.� How did it happen? Long distance is a mutha, and I went out one night with co-workers and dude wasfeelin' me and I was feelin' him back.� Nothing happened aside from flirting and texting, so no I don't regret it nor do I feel guilty.� In theend, boyfriend and I broke up not because of dude, but just because things weren't going the way we (I) wanted them to.� Ol' boy I met had nothing todo with that decision, cuz he and I had stopped talking a good month before I even broke up, and he wasn't the first person to know that I'd broken up.

Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something tostart something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.� A good friend of mine did that, and now the dude she cheated with---shegetting ready to leave anyway
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I told her if anything, if you not feeling a relationship just be SINGLE for a while...don't jump IMMEDIATELY intosomething new...give yourself a chance to just be able to answer to yourself and worry about yourself.�
 
I'm smart enough to not put myself in a situation like this but I've thought about it before. In a past relationship we hit a point where we didn'teven want to see or speak with one another for days. If we did speak I gave him attitude or he would be all angry when he called. I thought about all the whatifs and thankfully we ended the relationship amicably before we let infidelity get a hold of us. That situation scared me though b/c love and self control gohand in hand and you cant give one away for the other.
I've been with my current bf for 3 yrs and I would hate to ruin what were worked so hard for on a spur of the moment fling.
 
Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.
Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.
 
AAhhh, these posts always bring out the worst in me---cuz dudes be going IN generalizing (which I hate) that ALL women are wrong just cuz ya'll findscallywags who don't know how to treat a man. Maybe if you wasn't lookin' for your future by calling out a chick you seen at the bus-stop orgrabbing on at the club you'd be a quality woman.


Now, before you even go there....I know shadiness can be found up top too; all I'm saying is....if you keep attracting "ain't !+@*" women,then there is probably "ain't !+@*" about you. Yes, there are quality women out there just like there are quality men. And that whole"always got one tucked away"; I can't speak for most, but when I'm with a person, I'm with THAT PERSON. Guy aquintences of mineimmediately come second, and on some real stuff, I can't help it if those particular guy friends are attracted to me. If I wanted them, I woulda been withthem---PERIOD. Dudes need to get over that petty insecurity they have and move on. I don't know how many times a jig bein' paranoid is what ruined asituation
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lol all these threads are the result of all the chumps that fell into the valentines day hype............ now some other dood is smashing that chick you tookto dinner and you don't know what to do with your sorry self....... to me *#%+ come and go, when the right on comes along I will know
 
But if u not wanting to see ya man or speak to him and when yall do its static, why stay wit the @$%!!? When it got to that point wit my ex, I cut my lossesand dipped
 
Originally Posted by FrenchBlue23

I think with evolution, women are the new men in this era, in terms of being shady, and cheating.

Seriously, women can be so cold in a heartbeat.
I concur.
 
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