Ladies....In Love With Another Man?

[i drink your milkshake]

Originally Posted by MissKickBack

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, yousteppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone whomakes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because achick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things,IMO.

 

[freddypee]

8/10 women arent worth +@+* or eventually wont be worth +@+*

the other 2 are cool...one is taken and the other used to not be worth +@+*

 

[parada45]

95% yea right

 

[snaggykicks]

Never been in this kinda situation so...

 

[nawth21]

Never found myself in that situation.

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.

what the difference tho?

ultimately, they have the same outcome....

"i cheated because he makes me feel special and appreciated"

meanwhile, he's being "shallow", and is gassing her....showing her "special attention" so he can beat....

meanwhile, she's all "he treats me good, i feel more appreciated than when i'm with my boyfriend, the guy who actually claims me in public"

-rolls eyes-

women are stupid.

phan aint that the damn truth. Ole girl is saying that cheating because of something he did is completely different than cheating because she feltlike it.

what type of stupidity is that? Its the exact kind of stupidityi expect out of the majority of women these days

but on a brighter note:

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Never found myself in that situation.

Nawth you one of the few girls that gives me hope that there are some good ones out there.

besides my girl, of course

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

I've never put myself in that situation. I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

 

[nawth21]

A lot probably has to do with the fact that I'm pretty introverted and don't really put myself out there social wise. Hell I was single for 6 yearsbecause I was sick of the BS

During that time though I grew up as a person and really figured myself out, well atleast I think so anyways

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I've never put myself in that situation. I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I've never put myself in that situation. I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

you officially have my seal of approval

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

MissKickBack wrote:

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Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, you steppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because a chick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.




They are two different things, the female cheating being the more serious transgression because it involves emotion.

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Yeah right...

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

MissKickBack wrote:

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Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, you steppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because a chick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.

They are two different things, the female cheating being the more serious transgression because it involves emotion.

wait a seconds

so Cheating is different than... Cheating.

lets examine that statement

Male Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you
you lack respect for your SO & the relationship
You wanted something you dont get in the relationship

Female Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you in some way
you dont have enough respect for your partner & the relationship to now do it
you desired something that you arent getting in the current relationship

how are they different again

 

[Pmighty]

Originally Posted by BlastaMasta8

Originally Posted by FrenchBlue23

Seriously, women can be so cold in a heartbeat.

I concur.

 

[nawth21]

Guys cheat because his girl isnt giving him a BJ or something of a sexual nature. or hell, it gets boring eating the same thing for dinner every night so samegoes for sex.

Women cheat because her man isn't listening to her problems and/or fulfilling some emotional need.

generally - one is a physical need not being met, one is an emotional one. Very broad generalizations though.

but the bottom line is there is some "need" or desire that's not being met.

 

[million dollar stacks]

(yayo)HERE WE GO NOW!(yayo)

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

MissKickBack wrote:

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Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, you steppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because a chick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.

They are two different things, the female cheating being the more serious transgression because it involves emotion.

wait a seconds

so Cheating is different than... Cheating.

lets examine that statement

Male Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you
you lack respect for your SO & the relationship
You wanted something you dont get in the relationship

Female Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you in some way
you dont have enough respect for your partner & the relationship to now do it
you desired something that you arent getting in the current relationship

how are they different again



Because females cheat with someone they have an emotinal attachement to in addition to just wanting the pipe.

dudes, for the most part, just want the *** and thats it.

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Guys cheat because his girl isnt giving him a BJ or something of a sexual nature. or hell, it gets boring eating the same thing for dinner every night so same goes for sex.

Women cheat because her man isn't listening to her problems and/or fulfilling some emotional need.

generally - one is a physical need not being met, one is an emotional one. Very broad generalizations though.

but the bottom line is there is some "need" or desire that's not being met.

i'd say that is a pretty realistic generalization.

but how are those things different?

 

[nawth21]

I don't think it differentiates the cheating - cheating is cheating is cheating. Just maybe different reasons behind the cheating.

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Yeah right...

that's fine.

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

I don't think it differentiates the cheating - cheating is cheating is cheating. Just maybe different reasons behind the cheating.

Your right, they're both wrong. I just think one is worse than the other.

 

[fear the ibis]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Guys cheat because his girl isnt giving him a BJ or something of a sexual nature. or hell, it gets boring eating the same thing for dinner every night so same goes for sex.

Women cheat because her man isn't listening to her problems and/or fulfilling some emotional need.

generally - one is a physical need not being met, one is an emotional one. Very broad generalizations though.

but the bottom line is there is some "need" or desire that's not being met.

Those generalizations are sexist as hell. And wrong.

Not all dudes are selfish and shallow, and cheat just because they're trying to get a nut off. The same amount of females that cheat for that exact samereason.

 

[nawth21]

Originally Posted by Fear The Ibis

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Guys cheat because his girl isnt giving him a BJ or something of a sexual nature. or hell, it gets boring eating the same thing for dinner every night so same goes for sex.

Women cheat because her man isn't listening to her problems and/or fulfilling some emotional need.

generally - one is a physical need not being met, one is an emotional one. Very broad generalizations though.

but the bottom line is there is some "need" or desire that's not being met.

Those generalizations are sexist as hell. And wrong.

Not all dudes are selfish and shallow, and cheat just because they're trying to get a nut off. The same amount of females that cheat for that exact same reason.

If you're cheating in the first place - you're selfish. I don't care what the reason. And I said they were broad generalizations,there are a range of reasons why both sexes cheat.

 

[tcerda]

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

AAhhh, these posts always bring out the worst in me---cuz dudes be going IN generalizing (which I hate) that ALL women are wrong just cuz ya'll find scallywags who don't know how to treat a man. Maybe if you wasn't lookin' for your future by calling out a chick you seen at the bus-stop or grabbing on at the club you'd be a quality woman.


Now, before you even go there....I know shadiness can be found up top too; all I'm saying is....if you keep attracting "ain't !+@*" women, then there is probably "ain't !+@*" about you. Yes, there are quality women out there just like there are quality men. And that whole "always got one tucked away"; I can't speak for most, but when I'm with a person, I'm with THAT PERSON. Guy aquintences of mine immediately come second, and on some real stuff, I can't help it if those particular guy friends are attracted to me. If I wanted them, I woulda been with them---PERIOD. Dudes need to get over that petty insecurity they have and move on. I don't know how many times a jig bein' paranoid is what ruined a situation

Wow!

I totally respect and understand your opinion, but IMO women arethe most insecure species on this earth. Dont get me wrong, we are too at times, okay, alot of times, but it doesnt compare to the level of a womensinsecurity. Real Talk. Just keeping it real.

 

[million dollar stacks]

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

Originally Posted by yungmatt

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Yeah right...

that's fine.

 

[nothingbefore]

Now i don't trust a *#%
That's mother, to baby mother
Mother lucker you look like a lady lover
I touch, slap her
Dap her, plus clap her
Tell her drink peanuts, get drunk
It's nutt cracker - KILLA