Ladies....In Love With Another Man?

[King of Trash Style]

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

MissKickBack wrote:

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Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, you steppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because a chick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.

They are two different things, the female cheating being the more serious transgression because it involves emotion.

wait a seconds

so Cheating is different than... Cheating.

lets examine that statement

Male Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you
you lack respect for your SO & the relationship
You wanted something you dont get in the relationship

Female Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you in some way
you dont have enough respect for your partner & the relationship to now do it
you desired something that you arent getting in the current relationship

how are they different again

Because females cheat with someone they have an emotinal attachement to in addition to just wanting the pipe.

dudes, for the most part, just want the *** and thats it.




Women just think wit their emotions dudes think wit their third leg. Thats why women cry when they get caught/confess and dudes just lie/swag it off

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Egyptian River.

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by gunnascott

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by ericberry14

Originally Posted by MrMoneyInDaBank

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

MissKickBack wrote:

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Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake



Anytime I've left a situation it was because I could be better off NOT with that person.� A surragote father once told me "you never end something to start something" and I've tried my damndest to live by that code ever since.

Women do this more often then men. They will leave a relationship before they actually allow themselves to cheat.

Yea, I've always believed that the desire to cheat is usually a stem from a larger problem in the relationship as a whole. For instance, you steppin' out on your man cuz he never home, or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something. From what I've read though, with guys, most I know cheat just....to...cheat. They cheat because a chick got a bigger booty or something shallow like that. Cheating because you can, and cheating as a release or reaction are two totally different things, IMO.

They are two different things, the female cheating being the more serious transgression because it involves emotion.

wait a seconds

so Cheating is different than... Cheating.

lets examine that statement

Male Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you
you lack respect for your SO & the relationship
You wanted something you dont get in the relationship

Female Cheating:
the other person is more attractive to you in some way
you dont have enough respect for your partner & the relationship to now do it
you desired something that you arent getting in the current relationship

how are they different again

Because females cheat with someone they have an emotinal attachement to in addition to just wanting the pipe.

dudes, for the most part, just want the *** and thats it.

Women just think wit their emotions dudes think wit their third leg. Thats why women cry when they get caught/confess and dudes just lie/swag it off

True

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Egyptian River.

Think what you want, but I don't need to talk to more thanone dude to validate my self worth like a lot of females out there. It's hard enough having to balance one dude and try to find time to do me. Ya'llact like independent ladies don't exist.

 

[sylvestermcgrizzly]

 

[yungmatt]

What does being independant have to do with talking to more than one guy at once?

 

[ericberry14]

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

Originally Posted by eNPHAN

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

I can't even "talk" to more than one guy at a time let alone be in love with more than one.

Egyptian River.

Think what you want, but I don't need to talk to more than one dude to validate my self worth like a lot of females out there. It's hard enough having to balance one dude and try to find time to do me. Ya'll act like independent ladies don't exist.

, i was laughing at his wit/pun

i believe you.

i just find it funny that noone else does....

i never understood why chicks do that...talk to more than one dude....i mean, y'all forever crying about how men are dogs and we're all liars, yet, you won't devote all your time into checking up on one guy, instead, you'll spread yourself out, distracting yourself...

then, when you settle down with the most simpish of your stable, and it turns out he's getting madd tail, you'll write off commitment, and go back to a stable of many men...

rinse and repeat.

it's just like, if you know dudes are dogs and 95 percent of them just want to bang you....why multiply the amount of them in your life?

it only leads to you being labeled a *+!, and dudes losing respect for you......

because women are stupid & do stupid things.

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

Originally Posted by yungmatt

What does being independant have to do with talking to more than one guy at once?

Independent women can handle their own...they don't need anyone to validate their self worth, like i said. I think a lot of females need to beinvolved with more than one guy because they need to feel wanted, as if they're insecure and they'll compromise their self-respect to gain that.

 

[yungmatt]

O ok, I never looked at it that way...

I just thought they were keeping their options open

 

[mrmoneyindabank]

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

Originally Posted by yungmatt

What does being independant have to do with talking to more than one guy at once?

Independent women can handle their own...they don't need anyone to validate their self worth, like i said. I think a lot of females need to be involved with more than one guy because they need to feel wanted, as if they're insecure and they'll compromise their self-respect to gain that.

Independent women are more likely to be dating multiple men. dependent women are just that, dependent on one person for everything.

 

[nawth21]

^^ Not if its a personal choice. I never dated multiple people at one time. I don't think there's anything wrong with that assuming all parties are onthe same page - dating is just that; dating. But it just wasn't for me. Thank g I'm done with the dating scene anyways

what a headache

 

[fl0eticnostalgia]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

^^ Not if its a personal choice. I never dated multiple people at one time. I don't think there's anything wrong with that assuming all parties are on the same page - dating is just that; dating. But it just wasn't for me. Thank g I'm done with the dating scene anyways

what a headache

right...that's dating...it really is a headache dating multiple people at a time...i can't do it.

and then, there are females that cheat on their men because they're notgetting the attention they want...which IMO means they're relying on a man's attention to make them feel good about themselves. i suppose it's adifficult concept to grasp.

 

[bowzer blitz]

Who cares. Men lie.Women lie.

No relationship is mutal.

Reguardless of orientation loyality is non-extistant. Everyone is out for thenselves.

 

[bowzer blitz]

Fam don't get me wrong...pardon my words I hate to admit this I'm a hopeless romantic..

People just have to accept $*$$ aint perfect or will ever be near it and if they got something good or worth it to them...work on it..keep it fresh.Communcation is key hah and hah'ittes.


Buy my sneakers

 

[mangudai954]

No relationship is mutal.

Reguardless of orientation loyality is non-extistant. Everyone is out for thenselves.


What are you, five?

 

[bowzer blitz]

Its how I feel.....I'm not solid on it. But as humans we are always out for number 1. I honestly feel we all have the trait for being disloyal. we want todo whats best for me a lot of the time and not "us" if you are in a relationship. I know you are one of the funny men of NT...so instead of the liljab talk to me hah.

 

[jose cansec0]

or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something
this is exactly what i think just happened to me and ex of 5 years...


women are just too scandolous...its hard to find a keeper, i thought i had one and BOOM...she leaves me

 

[yungmatt]

Originally Posted by jose cansec0

or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something

this is exactly what i think just happened to me and ex of 5 years...


women are just too scandolous...its hard to find a keeper, i thought i had one and BOOM...she leaves me



Better that than the baby not be yours

 

[chico dusty]

j/k

 

[tkthegirl]

Originally Posted by jose cansec0

or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something

this is exactly what i think just happened to me and ex of 5 years...


women are just too scandolous...its hard to find a keeper, i thought i had one and BOOM...she leaves me



Hold up...you belittled her and took her for granted and your mad she left you after 5 years? Or was it the other way around? If not maybe you shouldn'thave belittled her and took her for granted...I'm just saying.

 

[prowler 23]

Originally Posted by jose cansec0

or you steppin' out on ya man cuz he belittles you and takes you for granted, and you find someone who makes you feel special and like your worth something

this is exactly what i think just happened to me and ex of 5 years...


women are just too scandolous...its hard to find a keeper, i thought i had one and BOOM...she leaves me

same thing here bruh . . .

. . . . my shorty of 3 yearswants to say that her texting ninjas out all hours of the nite didnt contribute to our demise .... they sure werent talking about puppys lol

In hindsight im WAY better off right now without her , I actually for a milli sec. thought she was different , proved me wrong.

I dont trust NO female , way to many lies, as quickly I would now jump on shorty wit the

backside , they'll jump on the next man singing sweet nothings to them .. butthose are the facts of life

to all females :

If your in a committed relationship please dont vent your fustrations out to the next man .... thats just giving the next man the assist .... word to CP3

 

[misskickback]

Bowzer Blitz wrote:

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Who cares. Men lie.Women lie.

No relationship is mutal.

Reguardless of orientation loyality is non-extistant. Everyone is out for thenselves.
OOOhhhhhhkkkkaaaayyyyyy, you must have that Kanye on repeat. see me in a couple years after you've gotten over the heartbreak.

Originally Posted by FL0ETiCNOSTALGiA

Originally Posted by yungmatt

What does being independant have to do with talking to more than one guy at once?

Independent women can handle their own...they don't need anyone to validate their self worth, like i said. I think a lot of females need to be involved with more than one guy because they need to feel wanted, as if they're insecure and they'll compromise their self-respect to gain that.

If anything, based on your logic, the "Miss Independent" type of female could cares less about her mans feelings and cheats b/c she is playing herOWN game following her OWN rules and will say F you to anyone putting a damper on her steez. She needs to get her nut off and if her man aint doing it right,little miss independent will find another buddy to put in work.

 

[blackmagnus514]

"Too many b---- is shady...."

put it like this....you gotta keep dating till you find someone to match you. esp in this day and age.

Women forget that men have egos and men forget that women have feelings.

i personally dont trust a chick further than i can throw her...

I'm in a situation right now where I'm damn near in love with my ex....but because i know my nature (i'm allergic to commitment, i like my freedom,party animal, hate being questioned) i wont hurt her. if she found someone better than me, i would sorta regret it and that says a lot about me right now

 

[da r entertainment]

Originally Posted by I Drink Your Milkshake

AAhhh, these posts always bring out the worst in me---cuz dudes be going IN generalizing (which I hate) that ALL women are wrong just cuz ya'll find scallywags who don't know how to treat a man. Maybe if you wasn't lookin' for your future by calling out a chick you seen at the bus-stop or grabbing on at the club you'd be a quality woman.


Now, before you even go there....I know shadiness can be found up top too; all I'm saying is....if you keep attracting "ain't !+@*" women, then there is probably "ain't !+@*" about you. Yes, there are quality women out there just like there are quality men. And that whole "always got one tucked away"; I can't speak for most, but when I'm with a person, I'm with THAT PERSON. Guy aquintences of mine immediately come second, and on some real stuff, I can't help it if those particular guy friends are attracted to me. If I wanted them, I woulda been with them---PERIOD. Dudes need to get over that petty insecurity they have and move on. I don't know how many times a jig bein' paranoid is what ruined a situation

I gotta agree with this statement. You are the company you keep. I speak from experience.

 

[bowzer blitz]

Those quoting me...You telling me you have had no doubts in the person you were with?

And they didn't have anything with you?

Like %#$# was good to both of us because we together we smiling blah blah? I may sound bitter but this is all I have encountered lately. People thinking thefeelings are the same when there are signs that they are not. Its foolish to me to sit here and say just because 2 people are together and there are noproblems feelings on the relationship or the person to person is all the same.