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lol to me, saying that because restaurants are expensive dating isnt worth it suggests to me that you're super cheap and you dont deserve the netflix and chill.

Amazing food is worth whatever it costs, so is a respectable and beautiful date. :nthat:
Spoken like someone who never has to pay for dates in the yay area.
 
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a girl should pay every now and then. just saying. 

but i never understood why people are so cheap with food...like that is one of the most important things.

 a good meal >
 
 
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a girl should pay every now and then. just saying. 

but i never understood why people are so cheap with food...like that is one of the most important things.

 a good meal >
only every now and then?  sounds horrible for the dude
 
I think a dude has to pay until it gets to an established relationship level then you mix it up

Like 75/25
 
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Last chick I dated always offered to pay but I wouldn't let her. Just didn't want to. When we went out to bars with us and her sisters/my friends she usually bought her own drinks though. Occasionally I'd get her one or two but that was it.

We went out to some nice places but the bill was never that much. Usually spent between 30-60 a date on dinner for good food/drinks. #Moneyball
 
Last chick I dated always offered to pay but I wouldn't let her. Just didn't want to. When we went out to bars with us and her sisters/my friends she usually bought her own drinks though. Occasionally I'd get her one or two but that was it.

We went out to some nice places but the bill was never that much. Usually spent between 30-60 a date on dinner for good food/drinks. #Moneyball
Billy Beane would be proud
 
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a girl should pay every now and then. just saying. 
but i never understood why people are so cheap with food...like that is one of the most important things.

 a good meal >

Exactly. You are what you eat. It's a stupid saying but it's true.
 
Spoken like someone who never has to pay for dates in the yay area.
You got me effed up dude, I pay too.

I don't need men to buy me dinner.

I get mine and I love treating the person I date too.

Equal Rights.
 
 
You got me effed up dude, I pay too.

I don't need men to buy me dinner.

I get mine and I love treating the person I date too.

Equal Rights.
u seem like a down to earth chick. must be nothing but **** boys in your area 
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u seem like a down to earth chick. must be nothing but **** boys in your area 
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hey, thanks :smile: TBH I just don't know where to go to meet people since I'm new out here still.

I'm actually thinking I might just go back to school and start working on my masters.

Occupy my mind instead of worrying for companionship.

Someone will come along. eff it.
 
 
hey, thanks :smile: TBH I just don't know where to go to meet people since I'm new out here still.

I'm actually thinking I might just go back to school and start working on my masters.

Occupy my mind instead of worrying for companionship.

Someone will come along. eff it.
word thats probably your best bet. settling for some lame would be a mistake. 
 
 
 
u seem like a down to earth chick. must be nothing but **** boys in your area 
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hey, thanks :smile: TBH I just don't know where to go to meet people since I'm new out here still.

I'm actually thinking I might just go back to school and start working on my masters.

Occupy my mind instead of worrying for companionship.

Someone will come along. eff it.
If you want you could come down to LA for Santacon on the 11th
 
come out to SF, you know, we can "NT and chill"

ever thought about hiring a male escort?
 
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hey, thanks :smile: TBH I just don't know where to go to meet people since I'm new out here still.

I'm actually thinking I might just go back to school and start working on my masters.
Occupy my mind instead of worrying for companionship.
Someone will come along. eff it.
Go volunteer or join an organization or something that captures your interest. Or maybe you can get a teamwork-heavy job that will expose you to new friends? Meeting people here is not hard at all, Im saying this from my perspective as a more reserved person.

If you go to sjsu (since you're in sj) for your masters, there are lots of chill people there for new friends from a class setting.

Most importantly, if you're not happy by yourself, you won't be happy in a relationship. True happiness can only be found from yourself.

I remember reading a post from you saying that lots of guys holla at you. Why don't you give them a chance?
 
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