feel for ya bro. Don't even know where to begin with this. They care about intercourse, huh? Wow what a big problem that is
. Sounds like self esteem issues you have. Not judging, we've all been there at some point in life but you gotta finesse man. You can't assume all girls are the same. Be yourself and be forthcoming about who you are and what you want from/ with said girl. Don't be so quick to count your self out by way of being a "nerd". You be surprised at what girls really like. It's a big world, you'd be surprised how many girls actually like so called "nerds". As long as that nerd is true and confident in himself, he can bag too. Anyway schools out, just live man. Don't really know what to tell ya. Hope you eventually get your shoes bruh.