NT, I caught feelings and lost.

not bad for an asian...
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Originally Posted by CertifiedSW

GREAT thread, wow. So much helpful advice in here. Really gave me a good insight on the situation I'm in right now.

NT > ________
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Originally Posted by CertifiedSW

GREAT thread, wow. So much helpful advice in here. Really gave me a good insight on the situation I'm in right now.

NT > ________
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Originally Posted by ReeceMan10

You smashed though .... you good.
to da naked eye yes...but if u wanted more then that u'r left with a feeling of wanting more.

no amount of poon makes that feeling go away, especially when u genuinely liked da person.

 
 
Originally Posted by ReeceMan10

You smashed though .... you good.
to da naked eye yes...but if u wanted more then that u'r left with a feeling of wanting more.

no amount of poon makes that feeling go away, especially when u genuinely liked da person.

 
 
Originally Posted by pip777

She has a nice butt, but mass..............that is not.


This.

And OP, people take losses all the time. Just learn from this and move on.
 
Originally Posted by pip777

She has a nice butt, but mass..............that is not.


This.

And OP, people take losses all the time. Just learn from this and move on.
 
Originally Posted by KB8isCLUTCH

NO ONE in here is getting buns. NO ONE.
Before making my way into this thread...........No.



Anyway, yet another NTer checking into this thread with some relevant issues. Currently chilling with this chick who seems to be catching major feelings for me, and myself for her, but I won't let her know about that because of the muddled situation. I came into this with expectations of nothing more than a summer fling. You see, she has a bf already, I knew that, but she approached me. The hell I'm gonna say no to potential ({})? Anyway, it's a long distance relationship, but things are rocky. I've already been down this road talking to a chick at the end of a relationship, so I let it be known that I'm not going to be the rebound guy (at least in the traditional sense). I figured I would give shorty some space now, after the oh so common constant texts and chilling at every opportunity over the past 2 weeks. Yea, we've got tons in common, have enough differences to make things interesting, and really enjoy each others' company.

Is what I'm doing acceptable? Basically, I want shorty to make her decisions alone, without me constantly around her, so perhaps her judgment would be more sound. As for me, I caught feelings, but will get over it with another female on deck (not just a smash buddy, but someone I wanted to talk to and is available). Perhaps SHE should have been first, and I keep kicking myself for that, but the other one was more aggressive and actually approached me, as I already stated.
 
Originally Posted by KB8isCLUTCH

NO ONE in here is getting buns. NO ONE.
Before making my way into this thread...........No.



Anyway, yet another NTer checking into this thread with some relevant issues. Currently chilling with this chick who seems to be catching major feelings for me, and myself for her, but I won't let her know about that because of the muddled situation. I came into this with expectations of nothing more than a summer fling. You see, she has a bf already, I knew that, but she approached me. The hell I'm gonna say no to potential ({})? Anyway, it's a long distance relationship, but things are rocky. I've already been down this road talking to a chick at the end of a relationship, so I let it be known that I'm not going to be the rebound guy (at least in the traditional sense). I figured I would give shorty some space now, after the oh so common constant texts and chilling at every opportunity over the past 2 weeks. Yea, we've got tons in common, have enough differences to make things interesting, and really enjoy each others' company.

Is what I'm doing acceptable? Basically, I want shorty to make her decisions alone, without me constantly around her, so perhaps her judgment would be more sound. As for me, I caught feelings, but will get over it with another female on deck (not just a smash buddy, but someone I wanted to talk to and is available). Perhaps SHE should have been first, and I keep kicking myself for that, but the other one was more aggressive and actually approached me, as I already stated.
 
Originally Posted by GrimlocK

like i said in another thread

experience is the greatest teacher.

But let me ask you this OP, why instead of you feeling like you messed up cuz you showed interest in the girl, should you not feel like "hey, I showed this girl that I was really feeling her and she couldn't handle what I had to give"

If this was a couple years ago alot of people like myself would have said that you didn't play the game right...but now I realize that this *@@% isn't a game at all.
Exactly.  I've done and seen a lot, including taking L's because of simpish activity.  We all do it at one time or another, so don't feel too bad.  Now, I feel like Grim; if I like a girl, I put it on the table.  I know that it might scare off girls, and it did a few months ago when I was talking to a college senior (I'm 28).  Still, I'm sure that the eventual "one" for me will appreciate that I wasn't scared to open myself up to being dissed/hurt, and my effort will pay off.  
If you're trying to get the box, ignore everything I just typed 
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