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damn that's wild..I've seen this type of thing happen but never with a marriage this long
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Fellas always trust your gut
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Damn that's cold blooded.
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What happened?
You talked to her? how'd it go?
I actually just replied in the other thread
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Even if they're just friends, that doesn't mean you need to be cool with the situation. Especially if the guy didn't know she has a BF
You're telling me you spoke to her about it and she flipped it on you and you're the one feeling guilty now?
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Yea I've heard of it before too but this is my first time being this close to it. **** is wild. From the outside looking in looked like a perfect marriage.
What a *** *** dude. He could've at least waited till the holidays passed
Yea dude is mad selfish for his timing.
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Yea I've heard of it before too but this is my first time being this close to it. **** is wild. From the outside looking in looked like a perfect marriage.
What a *** *** dude. He could've at least waited till the holidays passed
Yea dude is mad selfish for his timing.
Yeah my friend's homegirl went through it after a 20 yr marriage. Dude just started acting different then dropped the bomb. Strange because he treated her like a queen, and everything seemed kosher from the outside. Def didn't help my case back then when I started acting different off some other ****, she went "nope" without hesitation. The common theme I noticed with these is getting married super young.
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I kinda feel him though...you can't front for the camera...especially for the holidays. Nah..What a *** *** dude. He could've at least waited till the holidays passed
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On it's own, I could get jiggy with the possibility they are just platonic friends and have similar movie interests and wanted to see a movie/hang out. At his house kind of raises a reg flag as does you not being invited. But also add in the fact that she refused to claim him to her "friend" even after he confronted her about it and that's a lot to swallow.
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And she still managed to somehow make HIM feel guilty.
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Female Logic Twist at its best ^^^
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He gon' end up like that one NTer coreyturner, walking in just as dude busts on his girl's face, then she's going to get up and yell at him for coming over without calling first and not knocking.
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Meh, let it play out. I feel like you need that experience as a man, the heartbreak, the emotional outbursts etc, that's when you grow and learn to control it.
And I know, i know, his situation is different, we're just jaded.
And I know, i know, his situation is different, we're just jaded.
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Bro, i have plenty of platonic friends so the concept is not lost to me. I'd never invite them SOLO over to watch a movie. If you gon watch the movie what difference does it make if you watching it with some chick you don't wanna smash or ya homeboys (whom I assume you also don't wanna smash). The purpose of a 1 on 1 movie is to turn the lights down and get cozy comfy FOR ME. Never have I heard of some guys girlfriend going to watch a movie at his house alone for movie purposes.
It's possible but it's a minority
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I think a lot of people are giving the friend too much pull. Not every guy, like I told him in his intial post are on that Mr.Steal Your Girl steeze. Personally I don't believe men/women can be friends( explained that before too).
At the end of it all, things will come to light, all the Homie can do is believe her on his own merit or not.
That's why it's imperative to love self and stop chasing and investing so much time into getting yambs.
"**** happens,people change"..
Enjoy the time you had(even if it hurts like hell once the leave) and keep living and learning.
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I think a lot of people are giving the friend too much pull. Not every guy, like I told him in his intial post are on that Mr.Steal Your Girl steeze. Personally I don't believe men/women can be friends( explained that before too).
At the end of it all, things will come to light, all the Homie can do is believe her on his own merit or not.
That's why it's imperative to love self and stop chasing and investing so much time into getting yambs.
"**** happens,people change"..
Enjoy the time you had(even if it hurts like hell once the leave) and keep living and learning.
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This is facts
A man needs that pain in his heart to know how to deal with it and react to certain things when "the right one" comes along
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This. I'm definitely a believer in platonic friends but they need to know the deal. They need to know you're taken. If she's not willing to do that, I dunno what to say. She can't be afraid to claim you in a long distance relationship. If she's only not telling him, then she's trying to impress him or something.
If it was a group hangout, id understand. But if she's comfortable enough with him to basically go on a date - she better be comfortable enough to tell him about her boyfriend.
I'm just appalled that she has you in here feeling guilty and never wanting to ask for advice again. SMH.
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Chick is playing ol boy like a sucker, no question. If he values his dignity he will drop her asap
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Waits for "mouf is mouf"
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TBH I'm not feeling guilty.
I'm feeling like I should've handled the conversation a lot better.
I spoke to her today and she was open to hearing what I had to say.
It's just that I came at her so strong and it was kind of dramatic tbh that the whole thing went left before it could begin.
So I'm gonna take the L and I apologized for blowing up and not really talking to her about it but I never said I shouldn't have had those thoughts.
So we're not all the way back yet but she at least has heard me.
It's like I've heard in here over and over again..the man is supposed to be cool at all times. I wasn't that that night. So that's what I'm sorry for.
I'm feeling like I should've handled the conversation a lot better.
I spoke to her today and she was open to hearing what I had to say.
It's just that I came at her so strong and it was kind of dramatic tbh that the whole thing went left before it could begin.
So I'm gonna take the L and I apologized for blowing up and not really talking to her about it but I never said I shouldn't have had those thoughts.
So we're not all the way back yet but she at least has heard me.
It's like I've heard in here over and over again..the man is supposed to be cool at all times. I wasn't that that night. So that's what I'm sorry for.
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And honestly, if a girl is doing her best to make YOU feel guilty, there's a problem.
One of my exes use to do that a lot, I caught her in some BS, some **** that was inappropriate..not sure if they was smashing or not, but I found out that son came out the woodworks and they had a whatever whatever going on, and I confronted her about it, and she turned it around on me and had me saying sorry .. Think back on it like "Da **** was I thinking?"
But you live and you learn
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One of my exes use to do that a lot, I caught her in some BS, some **** that was inappropriate..not sure if they was smashing or not, but I found out that son came out the woodworks and they had a whatever whatever going on, and I confronted her about it, and she turned it around on me and had me saying sorry .. Think back on it like "Da **** was I thinking?"
But you live and you learn
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what happened that night?? What did you say?
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