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did I miss the discussion about soul swipe?
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Law school chick had a 7 year old kid. I knew I couldn't do it,wasn't ready to begin picking up lil Monica from practice or school. Along with other things
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Come on son...
It doesn't matter if the other dude is the greatest, it's the principle.
It's one thing if you are just playa patnas and just chilling at each other's crib, discussing sexual experiences.
But she clearly knows what's up and throws that bs about not sleeping with two guys at one time and then a proceeds to eat this mans food in the morning like everything is kosher because she gave him some neck..
Naw, couldn't be me[emoji]128512[/emoji]
Once again she would have been escorted from the apartment with the quickness and deleted. I also understand he has a girl but even if they worked out a compromise, it's still too much available wet-wet out here to play second string to a jump off[emoji]128512[/emoji]
You know and I know if you told an OG this story, he would laugh in your face and cut you off[emoji]128512[/emoji]
But its all love, just gotta play the game better and know when to walk away from the non-sense.
All vagina ain't good vagina.
To my man who is looking into dating a single mom. Boundaries, Boundaries, Boundaries.
Also, you have to understand the child should come first and patience is a virtue. Take your time, don't rush the process and even if things don't work out, you can still be a mentor to the child but please discuss Boundaries First.
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Where's your self worth and huevos Henn. This is ******** on all levels, lowering yourself, succumbing to her gibberish because she looks good. You're giving your power over to someone completely illogical, chasing her. Understand how crazy that looks.
If you're just using her for yambs, all this back and forth with no yambs and giving a **** about her feelings and rep makes it worse.
What ya'll talkin bout for the 4th?
If you're just using her for yambs, all this back and forth with no yambs and giving a **** about her feelings and rep makes it worse.
What ya'll talkin bout for the 4th?
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I told you go for the big girl suber
Mark 4th is on saturday i believe. Possibly anywhere will be popping
Mark 4th is on saturday i believe. Possibly anywhere will be popping
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Approached this Spanish girl I seen coming from the pool today. We talked for a little then I asked for her number & she started talking about her bf.. Got Around that after I asked her if she smoked 
We chilled for about 30 minutes.. Real flirty and playful but she also had a guard dog Friend that was protecting her. I got the number and she said shes gonna hit me up to smoke whenever she's in the neighborhood but I'm trying to figure out if this has high smash potential
We chilled for about 30 minutes.. Real flirty and playful but she also had a guard dog Friend that was protecting her. I got the number and she said shes gonna hit me up to smoke whenever she's in the neighborhood but I'm trying to figure out if this has high smash potential
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**** is OD hilarious I can't even front.
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Approached this Spanish girl I seen coming from the pool today. We talked for a little then I asked for her number & she started talking about her bf.. Got Around that after I asked her if she smoked
We chilled for about 30 minutes.. Real flirty and playful but she also had a guard dog Friend that was protecting her. I got the number and she said shes gonna hit me up to smoke whenever she's in the neighborhood but I'm trying to figure out if this has high smash potential
Or use you to get lit for free potential
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Na I'm good. Talking to that other chick from last night
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Got myself in quite a situation here. Bagged this girl my graduation weekend (Dec 2013) in college and we spoke on/off. Would see her when I would go up there to visit and stuff. For the past 8 months we been talking and stuff has been quite smooth. Well this weekend we were chilling at my crib when her phone rang, she said it was her ex calling. This is the first time since we've been talking that I have even heard of her mention this ex of hers. I got quite upset and dropped her home. My main reason for this is because earlier when we started speaking my ex was around ( I was messing w em both at some point), and this girl would constantly nag about my ex to the point where I told myself I would cut ties w my ex and move on w this girl. 5 months later I find out she's still in touch w her ex. We're not official or anything but I really felt like we were on that path but with her ex in the pic now im not even sure. She said she would stop talking to him if it would make me happy but idk, dont really have a good feeling about that. Sorry about the long post but just needed to vent
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^ she needs to stop talking to him cause she knows its the right thing to do, not cause it will make you happy.
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Exactly, the fact that she got in her feelings about you doing that only to be a hypocrite and then trying to make it seem like she's doing you a favor?
Classic female logic.
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Her ex still smashing. What else is she still contacting him for?
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yea but yall ain't committed and you said it had been a lay off since the last yall chilled talk.
she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing.
i can understand when yall were talking hard and consistent she wanted it to stop, but now yall are just reconvening.
she even told you it was her ex, imo stop being greedy/selfish and decide if you want to be with her or not before you go demanding to make her stop doing something.
she owes you nothing and you owe her nothing.
i can understand when yall were talking hard and consistent she wanted it to stop, but now yall are just reconvening.
she even told you it was her ex, imo stop being greedy/selfish and decide if you want to be with her or not before you go demanding to make her stop doing something.
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We've actually been talking straight from around Oct, she was complaining about my ex and I finally decided to cut ties w my ex in Feb.
You are right tho, we in fact don't owe each other anything and Im not telling her to stop talking to dude. Was just venting on the situation.
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Move on man. Smash her and keep it moving.
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When you were still in contact with your ex were you smashing still? If yes, I understand your concern. If no, you're just being petty.
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took this girl out for drinks tonight, were casually talking abd she brings up that she has been raped 2 times. I didnt know what to say, i sat there in silence and she started laughing about how its n big deal and "thats life". I've never met a girl thats been raped before, but i never expected them to laugh or joke about it, or bring it up on a first date. Dropped her off and came home, im still in shock.
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I would stay away from her
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U shuda told her to rape u to make things even
It woulda lightened the mood
It woulda lightened the mood
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thats not even funny bra
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No he's not being petty. My ex pulled this ish on me making me dead everybody and then would still get into fights with her ex and communicate with him. When I confronted her on her hypocrisy, she said "you're not me, you chose to deal with it and still be with me" in which I tricked myself into thinking that she was right and stayed. I lost my sense of manhood during that relationship and dealt with a lot of bs.
My advice is get the hell out of that crap. The girl is crazy and has a guilty conscience about her and her ex and that's why she doesn't want you to be around yours.
It's all about fairness to me. Obviously children and some other things will be exceptions, but if they want me to do something like stop communicating with people in my life then they have tp be willing t do the same thing.
I been in this situation before and I acted the same way you did!
I was so shocked, and kept apologizing and asking if they were okay as if it happened yesterday.
Sometimes showing compassion to another human being is the best and right thing to do.
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^this, I've never met a girl who was like "no biggie" when it came to that and it's definitely not something they brought up out of no where.
i mean if you do like her and want to stay just be sensitive to that. but recognize the signs if she's not comfortable.
That's def something you can't fool around with for your safety and hers.
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