Lesson learned though, and like I said, chick seemed like more effort than I wanted to put in any way so time and money saved.
Much love broheem, I'm tryna do something next weekend. Appreciate it, I'll check into those spots and okc is okcupid
^Youre right it is probably best to wait until after sex to make jokes like that. I thought it was innocent enough to throw out there with a wink face. I also wanted to gauge her response from it. She obviously didn't respond well
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Like mentioned before I would make sexual jokes after sex..Some females are just like that man, I know its tempting to gauge their response by that, but it's too risky. What I do is I say "I'm about to hop in the shower" and if she is a real freak she will say something about that, it has happened to me before, you would be surprised how forward some women are. But I would def tone down any sexual comment, no matter how innocent it is unless you have at least made out, fooled around, or you know for sure she is with it.I hadn't heard anything from Sunday in a while so I hit her up this past weekend. She asked me if I remembered the last time we spoke... I did. Called her up to see what she was doing and she was sick. We talked for a half hour or so on the phone and at the end she expressed how much it meant to her, thanked me, and told me the phone call was already making her feel better. After we got off the phone she texted me she was about to take a blunt bath. I said we should do that together sometime, took a pic of this baby bubble bath stuff I have (that the other chick I'm seeing bought to keep in my bathroom) and sent it to her. She never responded until I hit her up again this past weekend. I guess she was offended by my invitation for a bubble bath. I don't know what else it could be. She told me she was really put off by that last conversation and I should think before speaking in the future. Wished me the best and that was it
I didn't even try to fix the situation. Told her I had fun hanging out with her and she's a cool chick. Told her I wished her the best also. Whatever, that was an indicator that I was going to have to put a lot more work in any way and she wasn't worth it to me. Plus she doesn't drink and got offended over an invitation to take a bubble bath... A little too uptight.
This. It took me longer than it should have to realize this.
This.
Why waste your time with small talk over text doe? It's pointless, lets hang out. Lets hang out. Lets hang out. All you need to be saying.
You're being petty & overly sensitive
It really makes no sense you in your feelings though. She said more than just "good", leaving the door open for more convo, and instead of leading on that you throw an internal hissy fit. It worked out anyways, but sheesh.
