I had a chick tell me that she love me after smashing only one time ....she said that she has never had multiple orgasms. Immediately afterwards she was like "Ive never felt that back to back like that, u know I think im starting to fall in love wit you".
She really just wants a father figure in her son life. Just bc I when I ask her how she is doing, that she likes the fact that I also ask how her son is doin.
Man you could be the world to her one day then she's completely indifferent to you the next, no explanation. You learn to anticipate that after a while and enough experiences and deal accordingly. Don't miscontrue this as bitterness, it isn't I love women. But it's insanity if you don't prepare yourself. I don't think a dude will ever be able to truly let go and be vulnerable with any woman.
Recently I had a chick say stuff like "I want to say I love you" and "I think I could be yours forever" in April after just meeting in March. Fast forward to June and we don't even talk anymore.
I learned in my early 20s that saying ily too soon or when you don't mean it is a fatal mistake.
It can be hard when the girl seems perfect and the P is amazing but don't get love confused with infatuation.
Whatcanisay, don't put her on a pedestal bc she's going to med school. Especially as you don't know how the stress will change her and if she will even finish.
like the others said. unless u ready to be a father don't do it...I have a no kid rule...the only exception is under 2 years old or over 10. under 2 I f u leave they won't remember you...if u stay u been in the kids life that long all they know is u...
over 10 he knows the deal now about mommy
Recently I had a chick say stuff like "I want to say I love you" and "I think I could be yours forever" in April after just meeting in March. Fast forward to June and we don't even talk anymore.
I learned in my early 20s that saying ily too soon or when you don't mean it is a fatal mistake.
It can be hard when the girl seems perfect and the P is amazing but don't get love confused with infatuation.
Whatcanisay, don't put her on a pedestal bc she's going to med school. Especially as you don't know how the stress will change her and if she will even finish.
I had a chick tell me that she love me after smashing only one time ....she said that she has never had multiple orgasms. Immediately afterwards she was like "Ive never felt that back to back like that, u know I think im starting to fall in love wit you".
She really just wants a father figure in her son life. Just bc I when I ask her how she is doing, that she likes the fact that I also ask how her son is doin.
I had a chick tell me that she love me after smashing only one time ....she said that she has never had multiple orgasms. Immediately afterwards she was like "Ive never felt that back to back like that, u know I think im starting to fall in love wit you".
She really just wants a father figure in her son life. Just bc I when I ask her how she is doing, that she likes the fact that I also ask how her son is doin.
Waitress was eyein me heavy today and my caught that. I was gonna speak to her but I had to take a HUGE leak so I went to the bathroom and came back. I saw her with her purse on saying bye to everybody in the kitchen.
Quick summary..
New girl at work. Hung out few times. Last time found out she was sick so I offered to come by take care of her. Get there and after few movies she asks me if I wanna spend the night. No smash but it was a fun night. No reply to a couple texts but she sees me today and still seems interested. Do I go for another sleep over FTW since we are both off Friday night/Saturday day or let it rock for now?
yea but i already knew she was interested in me from seeing her around campus all the time.
I was resting between sets of pull-ups and she was chilling on the exercise mats looking lost. We made eye contact and she gestured for me to come over and help her, i never spoke to her before then. The rest was history.
Lol, hell naw ....this aint my first rodeo bruh! ...thats why we only talk thru email now, I dont even want a second round.
I was thinking the same thing.
Yesterday when I was at work, this pretty Cuban chick came in to look around. We made eye contact a few times, so I figured I'd go see what she was about. We ended up talking for a couple of minutes and I found out that she was a nursing major going into her senior year at ECU. I don't know if it was nerves or what, but as soon as I was going to ask her for her number, I kind of psyched myself out and told her it was nice meeting her and good luck with her senior year.
For the next hour or so I was
at my inability to close. She seemed as though she was waiting for me to make my move, but I failed to deliver. I'm usually pretty consistent when going after what I want but something tripped me up yesterday. I think it was due to me messing with the same couple chicks these past few months and not really feeling the need to approach any more. I guess I just have to put myself out there and refine my mouthpiece.
Yesterday when I was at work, this pretty Cuban chick came in to look around. We made eye contact a few times, so I figured I'd go see what she was about. We ended up talking for a couple of minutes and I found out that she was a nursing major going into her senior year at ECU. I don't know if it was nerves or what, but as soon as I was going to ask her for her number, I kind of psyched myself out and told her it was nice meeting her and good luck with her senior year.
For the next hour or so I was
at my inability to close. She seemed as though she was waiting for me to make my move, but I failed to deliver. I'm usually pretty consistent when going after what I want but something tripped me up yesterday. I think it was due to me messing with the same couple chicks these past few months and not really feeling the need to approach any more. I guess I just have to put myself out there and refine my mouthpiece.
Back in this thread.. Just returned to the States after almost 2 years and really don't know how the dating game is looking out here.. It was a field day in Europe, earned more than a few gold ribbons..
American yambs just aren't the same fambs... Like these twitches are real f annoying. I don't even know where to start, it's like I gotta dumb down everything I know and am about just to get at broads.
Been going out every night in my hometown, no dice. I have no more connects from HS and I didnt go to Uni here which makes it worse.
on the real.. she's not even all that pretty to me. really tall and thick... has a dog and lives by herself (!!)... but she is soooooo damb cool, mayne. the only chick i feel like i can just talk with that i've met... in a long time
backstory
i got this job at a credit union early in the year. she was the trainer in the class. she's about 2 years older than me, so we had a lot in common. i showed up to the class a few days late, and the people in the class said she INSTANTLY became nice... but i felt like i couldnt holla cuz she was somewhat like my boss.
i kept telling my manager to tell the chick i was feeling the deal, and i was going to come and holla when i stopped working there. she worked/lived on the south side of dallas, about 45 minutes from where i work/live.
my manager wouldnt say anything, so i was like meh, i'll do it myself.
ol girl is a trainer for the banks, so she has to go to all the banks around dallas when new people are hired to help train them. she ended up going to the bank where i used to work . My manager let me know she was coming, so i let EVERYONE IN THE BANK know i was going to be there to get her number
i pulled up on the GSXR and seen her helping out a new worker. the new worker started giggling and told her i was there to see her.
i'll skip a lot of it cuz we talked a while... but here's the gist of it.
me: sooooo.. here's the deal.
her: ok.
me: i've been trying to find time to come down to waxahachie to get your number and take you out, but i could never find time.
her: so we're going out now?
me: well, yeah. i wouldve been came and got it, we'd be on date 3 or 4 by now... kicking it hard.. but i DO have to work.
her: (jokingly) well if you really wanted to come talk, you would've found time to drive that 45 minutes sir
me: you need to do your job better and come train these people more and we wouldnt have this problem.
her: lol. okay. so why didnt you say anything before? i taught your training class.
me: you were kinda like my boss. so i couldnt really come at you like that.
her: wow. i really respect that (she gave me a brofist. )
me: yep. so, here's the plan... i'm going to hit you up, chop it up some, then take you out so we can vibe and kick it.
her: hmmm... okay then... (writes #)
me: and i'm telling you now... i'm not on that "wait three days to call" steez. i'm hitting you up tomorrow
her; why would you wait?
me: well, you know how people do.. "i wont call for 3 days". i live by that rule but i really want to chop it up with you.
her: we're too grown for that. you call me tomorrow and i'll appreciate that.
me: aight then.. now get back to work before i get you fired for flirting on the job. as a matter of fact, Can i see a manager please? cuz you are unprofessional, given me the math like this.
her: lol. whatever.
me: peace.
