Just got out of a relationship that was one month shy of being three years. I'm cool about it. So last night i was fooling around with one of my good friends that is in my inner circle, i have also known her for 8 years in which we shared a clearly platonic friendship until a week ago. she is ready, I'm ready, everything is going well in bed. Then its time to actually start to smash and it was failure to launch. It was like i was mentally ready but the juices decided not to pump last night. I was completely limp like the legs on Jack sully. All i can do is laugh because i wasn't surprised. she is still down so redemption will be mine hopefully tonight. At least it makes a good story to tell my homeboys when we meet up.
Has this ever happened to anyone else? I cant put my finger on why i feel such a lack of a sex drive physically but mentally I'm all there. I been drinking more water and cutting out sugar so i know that cant be the problem.