TAY: thread about yambs...

[antbanks81]

closed mouth doesn't get fed hoopa

you gotta put that work in to get them...all of us not playboys that women throw themselves at. Just get out there and be social. don't wait on all the yambz to come to you

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

I love black women, my parents are from Ghana. My mom is the strongest black woman I know but I'm def opened to the idea of seriously dating a white woman. I've dated black women my whole life. Dated a couple Asian chicks and white chicks but I grew up in an all black area and went to a pretty "urban" high school. Don't know, I think I'm just suffering from "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome

Personally never dated white women, but my homies did (i went to high school in the VA 'burbs.) What I learned from their experiences are white women are cool till they catch feelings then it's PURE craziness and they will NOT hold you down if **** gets rough. My mans got locked up because the broad let him use her car and when her parents saw him driving it she told them he stole it

Needless to say, none of them have dipped in the milk in a while, they all told me it wasn't worth it.

But to each his own, try it you might like it, but considering your parents are from Ghana, just be prepared for the verbal lashing you're gonna catch

 

[joepac12]

No white wimenz for joepac

 

[suberzat1]

I'm talking with this white chick from Denmark. That's as far that have been with a white other then smashing.

 

[Peep Game]

I love black women, my parents are from Ghana. My mom is the strongest black woman I know but I'm def opened to the idea of seriously dating a white woman. I've dated black women my whole life. Dated a couple Asian chicks and white chicks but I grew up in an all black area and went to a pretty "urban" high school. Don't know, I think I'm just suffering from "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome

Personally never dated white women, but my homies did (i went to high school in the VA 'burbs.) What I learned from their experiences are white women are cool till they catch feelings then it's PURE craziness and they will NOT hold you down if **** gets rough. My mans got locked up because the broad let him use her car and when her parents saw him driving it she told them he stole it

Needless to say, none of them have dipped in the milk in a while, they all told me it wasn't worth it.

But to each his own, try it you might like it, but considering your parents are from Ghana, just be prepared for the verbal lashing you're gonna catch

Ehhh, just from my personal experience, I'd say this is false. But I will say that they seem to cry much more often than women of other races

 

[hennessy]

The crazy ones are the BEST. All my girlfriends have been crazy, but able to be tamed. I'm really stable and reasonable so it balances out. Couldn't deal with a boring square chick. Rather go through great highs and tame the lows and the craziness best I can than to be bored all the time.

And yeah my girl cries at least once a day in front of me it seems. Mostly at family oriented commercials and TV shows about weddings.

 

[mugen81]

The crazy ones are the BEST. All my girlfriends have been crazy, but able to be tamed. I'm really stable and reasonable so it balances out. Couldn't deal with a boring square chick. Rather go through great highs and tame the lows and the craziness best I can than to be bored all the time.

And yeah my girl cries at least once a day in front of me it seems. Mostly at family oriented commercials and TV shows about weddings.

 

[hoosierdaddy317]

 
The crazy ones are the BEST. All my girlfriends have been crazy, but able to be tamed. I'm really stable and reasonable so it balances out. Couldn't deal with a boring square chick. Rather go through great highs and tame the lows and the craziness best I can than to be bored all the time.

And yeah my girl cries at least once a day in front of me it seems. Mostly at family oriented commercials and TV shows about weddings.

This is true. My former two gf's were crazy as hell but all you had to do to tame them was **** em down and they shut the hell up  

. My current gf is a pushover so it kinda takes the spark out of the relationship.. idk hard to explain 
 

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

The crazy ones are the BEST. All my girlfriends have been crazy, but able to be tamed. I'm really stable and reasonable so it balances out. Couldn't deal with a boring square chick. Rather go through great highs and tame the lows and the craziness best I can than to be bored all the time.

And yeah my girl cries at least once a day in front of me it seems. Mostly at family oriented commercials and TV shows about weddings.

Yeah....nahh. I'm a fairly even tempered individual and I have no time for the crazy ****.

I grew out of that liking crazy broads phase soph. yr when this chick tried to swing on me multiple times in my dorm room, I had to literally throw her out into the hallway..never again.

 

[mugen81]

You can't "tame" or "change" somebody...
Yeah you can give that good D but that's all the more reason for them to go ham after the relationship is over...
As you get older" square" chicks are where it's at because the same ****** crying about not finding a quality chick, are the same ***** with these birds that scratch your cars up or find some magical "goon" to come take you out or claim you are the father...
You can have them banana creampie chicks, give me loyalty, conversation, even keel, adventurous, homie-lover friend any day..

 

[doyung9]

This is not the board to ask for female advice. It's just not.

 

[awwsome]

This is not the board to ask for female advice. It's just not.

You shouldn't be asking for female advice on any board

 

[Mark Antony]

Ok cool guys.

 

[joepac12]

^ correct

 

[alp]

This is not the board to ask for female advice. It's just not.

You shouldn't be asking for female advice on any board

yea cuz everyone's an alpha male who bags limitless girls with ease.........

If some dude has some yambly issues he should be able to ask, y not?

 

[Mark Antony]

Not everyone had the same upbringing, or was exposed to the same experiences. I see nothing wrong with asking questions from people that are real about theirs, on or offline. It's silly when you think about how prevalent the internet, social networking and communication are these days. It's like saying "get any and everything off the internet, just not advice". Just use your common sense and take it with a grain of salt as in real life and you'll be ok.

 

[Coromanti]

 

I love black women, my parents are from Ghana. My mom is the strongest black woman I know but I'm def opened to the idea of seriously dating a white woman. I've dated black women my whole life. Dated a couple Asian chicks and white chicks but I grew up in an all black area and went to a pretty "urban" high school. Don't know, I think I'm just suffering from "grass is greener on the other side" syndrome

Personally never dated white women, but my homies did (i went to high school in the VA 'burbs.) What I learned from their experiences are white women are cool till they catch feelings then it's PURE craziness and they will NOT hold you down if **** gets rough. My mans got locked up because the broad let him use her car and when her parents saw him driving it she told them he stole it

Needless to say, none of them have dipped in the milk in a while, they all told me it wasn't worth it.

But to each his own, try it you might like it, but considering your parents are from Ghana, just be prepared for the verbal lashing you're gonna catch

This is why I'm scared to date/interact with a white girl on a physical/intimate level.

I've heard nuff stories of dudes goin to jail on rape charges that of course came out to be false but it doesn't matter cuz the damage is done to your reputation.

Not for me bruh....not for me...

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

This is why I'm scared to date/interact with a white girl on a physical/intimate level.
I've heard nuff stories of dudes goin to jail on rape charges that of course came out to be false but it doesn't matter cuz the damage is done to your reputation.
Not for me bruh....not for me...

Yeah, eventually she came clean and admitted she lied, but the damage had already been done by then, dude had to get somebody to bail him out, court, etc.

I dunno man, my moms is a real pro-black, history buff and she had stories for DAYS about black men she knew (and didn't know), catching rape/abuse/theft charges for messing with white women. So it's been ingrained in me since I was a youngin, hence why i've never dated or smashed one.

I'm not the type that needs to touch the stove to find out it's hot, if you know what I mean.

 

[ballinsam23]

Great points hotcheeto. To stay on topic sort of.....

Sometimes i'll be in a crazy mood to go out; testosterone flowing, liquor throughout day just to get me ready, manscaping, etc. Then I get a huge buzzkill when some of my friends just wanna chill at home instead of go to the bars to add to the team, dance, or w.e. This is like their unintentional cockblock i guess you can say.

I'm not really one that needs a wingman, but at the same time i NEVER went out solo dolo. Everyone knows that your confidence goes up when you go out with your boys. Plus i feel better when the whole crew gets play. Its an overall positive feeling.

Even though my looks alone can get me yambs (humble brag lol) without a wingman, I just rather go out with atleast 1 other friend. Its a boost of confidence, pointers, and works both ways.

 

[rrlegend]

Man honestly I rather just roll solo deep to meet chicks . When I was younger we used to go clubs 4-12 deep but everybody didn't have a whip at the time so if you could come up on something u had to keep that in mind and than dudes be trying to guilt trip u when u make the exit . It may seem weird at first going out alone but you build more confidence and a better mouth peice in process now a days the only time I go with a group is for family functions or a homie birthday

 

[ballinsam23]

i'm 22 years old, cant swallow my pride to go out alone

I dont get it, what exactly do you do when you go out alone? Most girls go out in groups of 2+. Do you approach these groups by yourself? Or do you just chill at the bar sip slow and chop it up with the girls around you?

 

[doyung9]

All I was saying was that you might not get "helpful" advice here, in regards to a ton of threads like this one getting derailed due to lack of maturity. However, judging by how everyone has shunned me, I take back my previous comment.

Really, the trick to women has always been the same. Be yourself. The ones you want are gonna appreciate that and the ones who don't, well, that's more of a headache than anything, no matter how good the YAMBS are. I've been with hot, crazy broads and I've been with hot normal broads. Crazy ain't cool and anyone who says different, you're exaggerating your experience. Real crazy scares the **** out of you. Smack her you say? Ain't always that easy.

Long story short, just act natural. Not what you think is natural, just natural. There's more than enough women on the planet. More than enough.

 

[rrlegend]

i'm 22 years old, cant swallow my pride to go out alone

I dont get it, what exactly do you do when you go out alone? Most girls go out in groups of 2+. Do you approach these groups by yourself? Or do you just chill at the bar sip slow and chop it up with the girls around you?

All the above if they in a group I try to catch them alone or just join the group like I know them lol.at bars open a tab and sip or buy a bottle and pour it myself ( real convo starter )
Remember bro the worst they can do is reject you but don't let that damper your spirits . I started going out alone around 22-23 I always been the loner type though so it was an easy transition

 

[jay are]

Lately this thread has been providing valuable gems.

Whats the plan for "cuffing season"?
New team?
One chick ?
Main and side piece?

I don't know which route I'm going with, I'm getting tired of juggling random chicks.

 

[youngdoc]

Until I run into someone that deserves solo treatment I'm all about the new team. Working on a couple new ones right now.

I also live in SoCal where cuffing season really doesn't exist cuz there's no winter